Do white guys like black chicks?

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Cosmeticjunkiee

Shingle Springs, CA

#1 Apr 18, 2007
I am 22 live in Sacramento, and I kinda have this problem I want to date outside my race (I would like to try white guys) but they never approach me they ALWAYS look I stop traffic but never do they confront me.I know this sounds dumb but do white guys like black women because my friends have the same issues.As I do any and all comments are welcome (even you jerks)
Hot Juan

Placerville, CA

#2 Apr 19, 2007
Love is color blind. If you want to date outside your race, then do so. Why don't you take the first step and ask the guy out on a date.

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ANGEL

Durham, NC

#3 Apr 19, 2007
um the only guys who wouldn't approach you, regardless of their color and besides the racist ones, are the ones who are not attracted to you. to wonder if white guys are attracted to you or not is kinda dumb. just like black guys are hot for blonde white women, why wouldn't white guys be attracted to black women? you can't tell who to date who, it's what attracts YOU that counts. i have carmel skin, but anyone i date has to be darker than me. it's MY preference. i'm attracted to the darker complexions.
Cosmetic Junkiee

Nicolaus, CA

#4 Apr 19, 2007
Okay you like darker men.......What's your point?
Cosmetic Junkiee

Nicolaus, CA

#5 Apr 19, 2007
Okay......What's your point?
neecee

Rocklin, CA

#6 Apr 19, 2007
I'm a black female and I have dated a couple of white guys and they both persued me. I do know personally though, that alot of white men, not all, are intimidated to approach a black female. To be honest I did give them a hard time but that's just the way I am and they hung in there. Maybe they think we might give them attitude but I do know that if a guy really wants to get at you he will have the confidence to do so, even if he might get rejected. Those are the ones that you want. Confidence is the key.
ANGEL

Durham, NC

#7 Apr 19, 2007
chill out, i'm not white, i'm carmel. i'm east indian. there are a lot of dark men in my culture, even darker than yours i bet, but i like latte. and that's MY preference.
Jason

Chesterfield, MO

#8 Apr 19, 2007
I'm a white guy and I'm attracted to black women just like I would be attracted to any other kind of women.

I think I agree with Neecee though--it is a little intimidating, but not because I expect them to give me an attitude. It just seems like black women are less likely to date a white guy than say, an asian or latina. Not sure where this stigma comes from, but yeah, it ultimately comes down to fear of rejection based on said impression.

But again, like Necee said, a super-confident guy will not be discouraged by this or any stigma.
Jason

Chesterfield, MO

#9 Apr 19, 2007
ANGEL wrote:
chill out, i'm not white, i'm carmel. i'm east indian. there are a lot of dark men in my culture, even darker than yours i bet, but i like latte. and that's MY preference.
0oh, and I <3 chai! ;)
ANGEL

Durham, NC

#10 Apr 20, 2007
come over and i'll make some just for you.
ANGEL

Durham, NC

#11 Apr 20, 2007
it's the ATTRACTION preference. i'm not attracted to light skin guys for sexual turn on reasons. i have a lot of white friends and i love them to death, i just wouldn't sleep with them because i'm not sexually attracted to them. me, however, cuz of my carmel skin and features, i'm everyone's type.

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Since: Apr 07

Chicago

#12 Apr 20, 2007
I'm a blonde-haired, blue-eyed male that is attracted to many types of women. I have a natural preference for caucasian women and those are the ones that I date.

Even so, I am more than willing to date outside my race. This is where other factors come into play. Personality and intelligence are the key.

If the chemistry is there, don't fight it!
I grew up in a hispanic neighborhood in Chicago and regret the opportunities I shyed away from. I should have followed my own instincts instead of taking bad advice from my friends.
Lane

United States

#14 Apr 20, 2007
I think white guys are more laid back in there approach and pick up lines, I`m a white guy and I`m (was like that, I`m married now. But to answer your question, yes alot more white guys like black girls than you know. One of my friends, sharp guy, well he does get a lot of hot girls, he dates his share of black girls and likes them better in a lot of respects, more fun, don`t seem to be as conserned with money and what someone is thinking.I have done alright dated a NFL cheerleader, and other hot girls and I see alot of hot black girls, that I would date if I were not married.

Take care,
Lane
Randall

Olivehurst, CA

#15 Apr 20, 2007
well, i think its the same with every race--mostly, people stick to their own race, or at least what they're brought up around. im pretty sure Indian men like Indian woman more, for example. But still, men are men and woman are woman--there are guys who dig black chix. as a white guy myself, i dont personally dig MOST black chix. V.V its the whole ghetto attitude thing that turns me off. same reason i dont like 'wigger' white chix. but, as a bi, i DO like some black guys. i dont know, maybe im just weird. O_o
Steve

Clarkston, MI

#16 Apr 20, 2007
What if inter-racial copulation turns into unwanted, or wanted offspring? Might there be a problem with identity? I'm all for relationships of mixed races as long as religion doesn't get in the way. Dating is fine, but what if it goes farther? Be careful out there.

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Dante

United States

#17 Apr 20, 2007
I happen to be acquainted with a very handsome white male adult who will only date black women and one day I asked him why when I was personally aware of several white woman who were very much interested in him. His reponse was " Black woman will always do more for their man than any white woman and they are loyal". Need I say more? Good luck with your future endeavors.
Valerie Hudgins

United States

#19 Apr 23, 2007
I disagree with you on that one Tom from Indiana.
it shouldnt matter what race you are it's what you feel and whats in your heart.Somewhere down the line in your family blood line there is one or two different types of blood running threw your veins.Either white,yellow,carmel or black it's there and you dont even know it.So dont hate if the blood mixes,some of the uglyes people make the most beautiful kids. Im Mexican,German,French,Spanish and Native American.And im married to a Islander from Samoa and our kids are Beautiful.Were all Human and we all look and smell the same just different color but we all taste the same.
Cosmetic Junkiee

Sacramento, CA

#20 Apr 24, 2007
Tom, you have every right to your own opinion no matter how STUPID it is you don't like black women fine but when do you set the standard of what is "normal"
ANGEL

Durham, NC

#21 Apr 24, 2007
i only date my kind also, but lucky fer me, i'm attracted to only them. too much drama with interracial dating.

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anynom

Brooklyn, NY

#22 Apr 26, 2007
I'm asian and have, for a long time, been more attracted to women of darker complexions (ebony, latina, indian, etc). It's a matter of taste. Oh, and posting questions like this one will always attract racist comments from morons like Tom.

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