HughBe--- Dear missy, most here know that you are living the details. Don't worry WE think it is wrong but WE know that we are guilty of other wrongs. So, WE shall not cast the first stone but we shall not fail to point out your error while considering our own shortcomings.<quoted text>
Shortcomings? I mean, where would you start?
Frijoles---Shortcomings? I mean, where would you start?
HughBe--- I take it as rhetorical question nevertheless YOU know that what is short for me is LONG for you or ABOVE your standards. So start at your HIGH point and go upward.