jewish men and black women

jewish men and black women

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Soul Sista

Witney, UK

#1 Sep 17, 2011
Why do jewish men want to have sex and sort type of temporary relationship with black women but won't bring them home to meet the family or marry them?
mercy82

Birmingham, UK

#2 Nov 7, 2011
simple, the differences in culture and beliefs make it , impossile to form meaningful relationships. some things realistically speaking are best avoided. i would suggest avoiding any form of sexual interactions in relation to your question because the emotional hustle is not worth it lol.
Glenridge

Scottdale, GA

#3 Nov 30, 2011
I totally agree with mercy82. Also alot of Jews believe that they aren't cheating on their spouse unless they're having relations with another Jewish woman. Of course that's completely against the mitsvos, but man will wrangle any law, holy or man's law to suit his needs while trying to maintain his sense of entitlement and self-respect.
His Queen

Dallas, TX

#4 Dec 28, 2011
There are several Jewish men who are married to black women. I for one am one of them!. I'm sorry you had a bad experience. I say if you are attracted to jewish men, don't allow that bad encounter change your outlook on the entire group. Next time just proceed with caution!

“This just in...”

Since: Dec 11

Location hidden

#5 Dec 28, 2011
So you're married to a black woman. Is she Jewish? Is she truly a black woman or is she bi-racial?

Perhaps you are, but surely you don't deny that what we're saying is true, correct?

Jewish men don't consider non-Jewish woman as real partners at all. In fact any black woman thinking otherwise is sadly mistaken, and as mercy82 mentioned, is headed for heartbreak.
littleloon88

Ridgewood, NY

#6 Jun 4, 2012
Glenridge wrote:
So you're married to a black woman. Is she Jewish? Is she truly a black woman or is she bi-racial?
Perhaps you are, but surely you don't deny that what we're saying is true, correct?
Jewish men don't consider non-Jewish woman as real partners at all. In fact any black woman thinking otherwise is sadly mistaken, and as mercy82 mentioned, is headed for heartbreak.
hate to tell the.truth but most Jewish men outside of ultra religious circles rarely marry a Jewish girl. Its the same thing.we.black women deal with concerning our men. I think Jewish women perpetuate this inaccuracy .....
Marianna

United States

#7 Mar 3, 2013
Its so refreshing to read all of these experiences. As for myself growing up my mother's best friend told me that when I grow up that I should find and marry a Jewish fellow because they will treat me better than any other man out there. It was weird hearing her tell me this at the age I was, 10 yrs old. I wasn't even thinking about boys a whole lot then but what she said really did stick with me and I've always been someone who's pretty open-minded when it comes to race relations. And as a black woman I am a bit intrigued at the thought. But even if I were to try and find a nice Jewish fellow, where would I find one willing to date black women? Again just wondering. Thank you for your time!
Jim

Point Pleasant Beach, NJ

#8 Mar 5, 2013
Marianna wrote:
Its so refreshing to read all of these experiences. As for myself growing up my mother's best friend told me that when I grow up that I should find and marry a Jewish fellow because they will treat me better than any other man out there. It was weird hearing her tell me this at the age I was, 10 yrs old. I wasn't even thinking about boys a whole lot then but what she said really did stick with me and I've always been someone who's pretty open-minded when it comes to race relations. And as a black woman I am a bit intrigued at the thought. But even if I were to try and find a nice Jewish fellow, where would I find one willing to date black women? Again just wondering. Thank you for your time!
I would date. I am jewish

Since: Jun 13

United States

#9 Jun 23, 2013
Soul Sista wrote:
Why do jewish men want to have sex and sort type of temporary relationship with black women but won't bring them home to meet the family or marry them?
Why would u advertise this. They use u for sex
El Lay

Buffalo, NY

#10 Aug 19, 2013
Soul Sista wrote:
Why do jewish men want to have sex and sort type of temporary relationship with black women but won't bring them home to meet the family or marry them?
So anyway, I'm a black female who's having an affair with a Jewish guy who's married to a white Baptist. It's like this: I won't have intercourse with him, but I'll do other things with him, because he's a really nice guy. But sexual intercourse is too precious a gift to be given in a situation like this. I'm satisfied with my choices, and I hope my comments were helpful.
El Lay

Buffalo, NY

#11 Aug 19, 2013
Soul Sista wrote:
Why do jewish men want to have sex and sort type of temporary relationship with black women but won't bring them home to meet the family or marry them?
...You especially want to steer clear of Italian guys. In my high school, there was this Italian guy who had a habit of sleeping with black girls once, and never speaking to them again. I don't know why these girls subjected themselves to this. Maybe it's because this guy was a muscle-bound football player. But it happened.
HughBe

Kingston, Jamaica

#12 Aug 20, 2013
Glenridge wrote:
I totally agree with mercy82. Also alot of Jews believe that they aren't cheating on their spouse unless they're having relations with another Jewish woman. Of course that's completely against the mitsvos, but man will wrangle any law, holy or man's law to suit his needs while trying to maintain his sense of entitlement and self-respect.
Glenridge---Also alot of Jews believe that they aren't cheating on their spouse unless they're having relations with another Jewish woman.

HughBe--- Why?
JustMeMissD

San Pedro, CA

#13 Sep 3, 2013
Well, I was kind of surprised by some of the comments... yet saddened.

I'm 35 years old and am now carrying the child of Jewish mixed 26 year old. What a mess. I have never been more upset. He tells me he wants an abortion because if his family finds out they will all turn their backs on him. He's so young, I feel bad for him. However, I am not an advocate of abortion and already have the one.

Back and forth he begs and pleads with me but I have no comfort to offer him. Trying to gain insight here, and this site has opened my eyes...
HughBe

Kingston, Jamaica

#14 Sep 4, 2013
JustMeMissD wrote:
Well, I was kind of surprised by some of the comments... yet saddened.
I'm 35 years old and am now carrying the child of Jewish mixed 26 year old. What a mess. I have never been more upset. He tells me he wants an abortion because if his family finds out they will all turn their backs on him. He's so young, I feel bad for him. However, I am not an advocate of abortion and already have the one.
Back and forth he begs and pleads with me but I have no comfort to offer him. Trying to gain insight here, and this site has opened my eyes...
1. As a 35 year-old WOMAN you should NOT have gone for any man 9 years younger than you are.

2. Prior to becoming pregnant did you think that the unborn SEED of this man would be a MESS? Recall your words, "I'm 35 years old and am now carrying the child of Jewish mixed 26 year old. What a mess."

3. Do you have contraceptives where you live?

4. Did you discuss the matter of pregnancy with him and its implications BEFORE you opened up and became pregnant?

5. You said,"He's so young" and I say to you REALLY?

6. "I feel bad for him", Why?

7. "Back and forth he begs and pleads with me but I have NO comfort to offer him." Really? Give him some more of the SAME comfort that has inflated your belly or comfort him by breaking up the relationship.

Finally you have said, "Trying to gain insight here, and this site has opened my eyes..."

I am now saying to you that next time close your legs and do NOT open them to anyone who is NOT in love you, who is ASHAMED of you and who is unwilling to shoulder his responsibility e.g. pregnancy.
GotYou

Phoenix, AZ

#15 Sep 23, 2013
His Queen wrote:
There are several Jewish men who are married to black women. I for one am one of them!. I'm sorry you had a bad experience. I say if you are attracted to jewish men, don't allow that bad encounter change your outlook on the entire group. Next time just proceed with caution!
His Queen,
Does your husband have any single Jewish friends??

Fancy
samantha

London, UK

#16 Oct 11, 2013
Try jdate
Lynne

Baltimore, MD

#17 May 14, 2014
Jim wrote:
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I would date. I am jewish
Don't try to date any race. It's ok to have a preference (me Asian) & I love all romance esp. interracial that's variety & different...but all men are the same...men. Good & bad based nothing on race, so whomever put that idea in your head lied...sorry. p.s. Jewish is a religion...just most today happen to be Caucasians. Being in Christ is most important & if you are a Christian for real...you will benefit & should seek a potential mate in same faith.
shoshanna1

Kent, WA

#18 Jul 17, 2014
Though I am open to dating or marrying a Jewish man, I would treat him the same as any other man. First I would have to establish a friendship, understand each other's values and respective religion (assuming he is practicing or knows his traditions), and wait to vecomw intimate. If a man is not willing to wait, he will leave. It is truly a blessing! If he is interested in more than getting in your pants, then he will make time for you and will not pressure you into having sex.

Though a man understands the consequences of having sex (e.g. baby, diseases, etc.) unplanned pregnancies can be avoided on both sides. I wish.you the best because it will be the child who will suffer.
HughBe wrote:
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1. As a 35 year-old WOMAN you should NOT have gone for any man 9 years younger than you are.
2. Prior to becoming pregnant did you think that the unborn SEED of this man would be a MESS? Recall your words, "I'm 35 years old and am now carrying the child of Jewish mixed 26 year old. What a mess."
3. Do you have contraceptives where you live?
4. Did you discuss the matter of pregnancy with him and its implications BEFORE you opened up and became pregnant?
5. You said,"He's so young" and I say to you REALLY?
6. "I feel bad for him", Why?
7. "Back and forth he begs and pleads with me but I have NO comfort to offer him." Really? Give him some more of the SAME comfort that has inflated your belly or comfort him by breaking up the relationship.
Finally you have said, "Trying to gain insight here, and this site has opened my eyes..."
I am now saying to you that next time close your legs and do NOT open them to anyone who is NOT in love you, who is ASHAMED of you and who is unwilling to shoulder his responsibility e.g. pregnancy.
Lovedee

Brooklyn, NY

#19 Sep 26, 2014
Marianna wrote:
Its so refreshing to read all of these experiences. As for myself growing up my mother's best friend told me that when I grow up that I should find and marry a Jewish fellow because they will treat me better than any other man out there. It was weird hearing her tell me this at the age I was, 10 yrs old. I wasn't even thinking about boys a whole lot then but what she said really did stick with me and I've always been someone who's pretty open-minded when it comes to race relations. And as a black woman I am a bit intrigued at the thought. But even if I were to try and find a nice Jewish fellow, where would I find one willing to date black women? Again just wondering. Thank you for your time!
plenty of fish
HughBe

Montego Bay, Jamaica

#20 Oct 3, 2014
HughBe wrote:

1. As a 35 year-old WOMAN you should NOT have gone for any man 9 years younger than you are.
2. Prior to becoming pregnant did you think that the unborn SEED of this man would be a MESS? Recall your words, "I'm 35 years old and am now carrying the child of Jewish mixed 26 year old. What a mess."
3. Do you have contraceptives where you live?
4. Did you discuss the matter of pregnancy with him and its implications BEFORE you opened up and became pregnant?
5. You said,"He's so young" and I say to you REALLY?
6. "I feel bad for him", Why?
7. "Back and forth he begs and pleads with me but I have NO comfort to offer him." Really? Give him some more of the SAME comfort that has inflated your belly or comfort him by breaking up the relationship.
Finally you have said, "Trying to gain insight here, and this site has opened my eyes..."
I am now saying to you that next time close your legs and do NOT open them to anyone who is NOT in love you, who is ASHAMED of you and who is unwilling to shoulder his responsibility e.g. pregnancy.

shoshanna1----Though I am open to dating or marrying a Jewish man, I would treat him the same as any other man.

HughBe----You should be open to dating and marrying any eligible man and race should never be a eligibility criterion. Also, Jewish men are NOT less than other men and neither are they better and so your comment that "I would treat him the same as any other man" exposes a sort of ignorance on your part. If I am wrong about your ignorance please explain the need and sense in saying "I would treat him the same as any other man".

In any event, when you open treat the Jewish man or the white man or any other man based on his merits.

shoshanna1----First I would have to establish a friendship, understand each other's values and respective religion (assuming he is practicing or knows his traditions), and wait to vecomw intimate.

HughBe--- What religion would the Jewish man be practicing? Is it Hinduism, Christianity or Islam to name a few?

Which religion do you practice?

shoshanna1---If a man is not willing to wait, he will leave.

HughBe--- As a general rule I would have to agree with you. However, some will stay the course depending on the value they place on the fruit.

shoshanna1---- If he is interested in more than getting in your pants, then he will make time for you and will not pressure you into having sex.

HughBe--- A man can be interested in more than sex but selfishness can make him "pressure you into having sex". This is more so for young men but not so for older men who can pretend to be gentlemen but the truth is natures decline in most cases would explain their controlled approach.

shoshanna1----Though a man understands the consequences of having sex (e.g. baby, diseases, etc.) unplanned pregnancies can be avoided on both sides. I wish.you the best because it will be the child who will suffer.

HughBe--- I am a man. My post at the top was to a woman.

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