How do you justify "outing" someone?

How do you justify "outing" someone?

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Since: Sep 11

Brantford, Canada

#1 Mar 12, 2013
I'm very curious about this. I want to get into the jw/ex jw mindset that approves of this and why. In my opinion, and only mine, you have to be in a pretty seriously bad place in your head to be able to do this. I think it takes a degree of hate that is so far over and above what would be considered normal in society to take these kinds of actions.

Nomi is the reason for this thread. I would love to know what could possess someone to post those types of articles about her family. Does it make you feel better about yourself, and your lot in life? I have no love for her, or hate. I posted yesterday I think, about her looking for a financial windfall from members of this site. And she is no better than her tormentors. She is now posting names as well.

But what is it in your heads that can justify this? Did you actually read the article? Can you not see that many families are broken by the cult of jw's and some stay in for a reason? What is it about bringing up a horrific story that actually happenned to someone here, and making them relive it that makes you so happy? As a critic, would you want jw's posting quotes from your family about how you are an apostate and they never want to see you again, and want you to burn in the big A?

The part that bugs me most is that I assume that many jw's come to this site, some proud, some with doubts, but they run like crazy due to the fear of being found out and reported, and getting a jc before they're ready. I can only imagine how many people are stronger jw's now because of the fear of joining a site like this. And it goes both ways, the jw's are no better. They will do anything to expose a critic. It's just kinda pathetic really

Since: Sep 11

Brantford, Canada

#3 Mar 12, 2013
FH Chandlers daughter wrote:
Are you serious? After what JWs did to our families and probably a million others, who honestly gives a shit?
If she's that sick and demented a person to be on this obsessive forum, let her roast and burn. Fuck her, seriously.
Like she is supposed to be some sort of good person? She probably did ignore her sick mother, and was too busy wrapped up in her "theocratic pursuits" to properly care for her.
And, all the while denying that her sister even had a mental illness. They probably thought she was demonized, or a harlot or just unworthy of the family.
You know what I'm saying is true. You know how these disgusting types operate.
So, seriously? Fuck Nomi and the horse she rode in on. Her and her type have a special place in whatever hell is, reserved for them. And if hell/heaven is a place on earth that we experience in the outcome of our life choices, let her fucking burn.
You could be very right in your assumptions, but is it right to do it? I have the advantage of being out for 20 years. My immediate family means nothing to me anymore. In fact, they are dealing with reverse shunning now that my mother is old. They'll never get a chance to speak to me again, and my mother has to die alone, almost. But never in a million years would I want someone to mock her in a forum she might be apart of, telling her that her son hates her, or doesn't remember her. She has enough to deal with in her old age. People make very serious mistakes, especially when under control by a cult. Nomi is no different, neither is my mother. Throwing their mistakes in their face like this is wrong on many levels.

At some point, you have to let go of the hate. You don't have to forgive, just forget. Doing what they did to you is just repeating the same action. Nomi may be deluded by the cult, but she doesn't need this kind of attention. It's far worse than I ever went through, she should be left in peace
theVaxines

Beilen, Netherlands

#7 Mar 12, 2013
ok i ended up here - i'll go now xD

Since: Sep 11

Brantford, Canada

#8 Mar 12, 2013
theVaxines wrote:
ok i ended up here - i'll go now xD
Why?

“NO, YOU MOVE.”

Since: Dec 06

Republic of Elbonia

#9 Mar 13, 2013
FH Chandlers daughter wrote:
I can never really trust or have a true close relationship with any family member, inside or out (it's about half and half). Everyone distrusts everyone and we've been so splintered that none of us really needs or depends on each other. We'd sooner turn to non-blood friends or even a total stranger than ask for help from immediate family.
If the rest of them are as perverted - inventing sickening stories of abuse and posting them publicly for the purpose of spreading libel - as you are, it's no wonder.

That there are any total strangers or non-blood friends that want to be in the same town as you is a miracle.

But, of course, that you are a disgusting, libeling piece of shit isn't your fault, but the fault of some men in Brooklyn you never met.

Mmmmkay.

“LADY WARRIOR”

Since: Apr 11

THUG HUNTER

#10 Mar 13, 2013
FH Chandlers daughter wrote:
Are you serious? After what JWs did to our families and probably a million others, who honestly gives a shit?
If she's that sick and demented a person to be on this obsessive forum, let her roast and burn. Fuck her, seriously.
Like she is supposed to be some sort of good person? She probably did ignore her sick mother, and was too busy wrapped up in her "theocratic pursuits" to properly care for her.
And, all the while denying that her sister even had a mental illness. They probably thought she was demonized, or a harlot or just unworthy of the family.
You know what I'm saying is true. You know how these disgusting types operate.
So, seriously? Fuck Nomi and the horse she rode in on. Her and her type have a special place in whatever hell is, reserved for them. And if hell/heaven is a place on earth that we experience in the outcome of our life choices, let her fucking burn.
Another one prancing around who can't take responsibility for his own actions by placing the blame on everyone else.

“LADY WARRIOR”

Since: Apr 11

THUG HUNTER

#11 Mar 13, 2013
FH Chandlers daughter wrote:
I've been out 22 years myself. I don't hate them, on the contrary I feel pity for them.
I do hate that try as hard as I might, I can never really trust or have a true close relationship with any family member, inside or out (it's about half and half). Everyone distrusts everyone and we've been so splintered that none of us really needs or depends on each other. We'd sooner turn to non-blood friends or even a total stranger than ask for help from immediate family.
There's no sugar coating it: this fucked up religion is what caused this is my and a million other families.
You reap what you sow. Nomi and those of her ilk sowed hatred, contempt for natural loving family bonds, and god knows what else.
She/they get everything they deserve.
Nomi has not hurt anyone on this forum, nor has she offended anyone. Your problems are your own.

Since: Mar 09

United States

#12 Mar 13, 2013
I have good reason to be on the offense. I have been robbed of the anonimity that is supposed to be a part of posting here. I have decided that I am fed up with the constant abuse I have suffered here. I have made it a point to learn the ID's of some of these perps who have delighted in trying to vilify and ID me. They want to try and ID me, just to delight in causing me pain and suffering. Altho it seems a few choose to overlook that. As for as any money...it is to send a message that they cannot expect to get by with such evil actions. I have never sued anyone in all my many years...but alas...there is a first time for everything.

Since: Mar 09

United States

#13 Mar 13, 2013
My, What a compassionate attitude. Taking up for evil deeds a few others choose to do.
FH Chandlers daughter wrote:
I've been out 22 years myself. I don't hate them, on the contrary I feel pity for them.
I do hate that try as hard as I might, I can never really trust or have a true close relationship with any family member, inside or out (it's about half and half). Everyone distrusts everyone and we've been so splintered that none of us really needs or depends on each other. We'd sooner turn to non-blood friends or even a total stranger than ask for help from immediate family.
There's no sugar coating it: this fucked up religion is what caused this is my and a million other families.
You reap what you sow. Nomi and those of her ilk sowed hatred, contempt for natural loving family bonds, and god knows what else.
She/they get everything they deserve.

Since: Mar 09

United States

#14 Mar 13, 2013
Then its okay for some to try and ID me, but I am supposed to just sit back and enjoy it. No way, BUD...enough is enough. When some choose to try and bring all kinds of abuse my way, I find good reason to finally try and defend myself. If Topix did their work, it would not happen, but they don't, so I must try and defend myself as best I can. Its been a very long time in coming. I don't enjoy doing anything to others that hurts...but I feel the time has come for me to take some action to bring it to a stop.
Stingo wrote:
I'm very curious about this. I want to get into the jw/ex jw mindset that approves of this and why. In my opinion, and only mine, you have to be in a pretty seriously bad place in your head to be able to do this. I think it takes a degree of hate that is so far over and above what would be considered normal in society to take these kinds of actions.
Nomi is the reason for this thread. I would love to know what could possess someone to post those types of articles about her family. Does it make you feel better about yourself, and your lot in life? I have no love for her, or hate. I posted yesterday I think, about her looking for a financial windfall from members of this site. And she is no better than her tormentors. She is now posting names as well.
But what is it in your heads that can justify this? Did you actually read the article? Can you not see that many families are broken by the cult of jw's and some stay in for a reason? What is it about bringing up a horrific story that actually happenned to someone here, and making them relive it that makes you so happy? As a critic, would you want jw's posting quotes from your family about how you are an apostate and they never want to see you again, and want you to burn in the big A?
The part that bugs me most is that I assume that many jw's come to this site, some proud, some with doubts, but they run like crazy due to the fear of being found out and reported, and getting a jc before they're ready. I can only imagine how many people are stronger jw's now because of the fear of joining a site like this. And it goes both ways, the jw's are no better. They will do anything to expose a critic. It's just kinda pathetic really

Since: Sep 09

Location hidden

#15 Mar 13, 2013
Crystal Chanda Cassadine wrote:
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Another one prancing around who can't take responsibility for his own actions by placing the blame on everyone else.
The blame is on them. These are evil people who want to blame others for their hateful deeds.

Since: Sep 09

Location hidden

#16 Mar 13, 2013
Nomi wrote:
I have good reason to be on the offense. I have been robbed of the anonimity that is supposed to be a part of posting here. I have decided that I am fed up with the constant abuse I have suffered here. I have made it a point to learn the ID's of some of these perps who have delighted in trying to vilify and ID me. They want to try and ID me, just to delight in causing me pain and suffering. Altho it seems a few choose to overlook that. As for as any money...it is to send a message that they cannot expect to get by with such evil actions. I have never sued anyone in all my many years...but alas...there is a first time for everything.
If I can help in identifying who these people are, I will. We know who Unchained is and where he is. You don't deserve the hate thrown at you by these apostates.

“LADY WARRIOR”

Since: Apr 11

THUG HUNTER

#17 Mar 13, 2013
Nomi wrote:
I have good reason to be on the offense. I have been robbed of the anonimity that is supposed to be a part of posting here. I have decided that I am fed up with the constant abuse I have suffered here. I have made it a point to learn the ID's of some of these perps who have delighted in trying to vilify and ID me. They want to try and ID me, just to delight in causing me pain and suffering. Altho it seems a few choose to overlook that. As for as any money...it is to send a message that they cannot expect to get by with such evil actions. I have never sued anyone in all my many years...but alas...there is a first time for everything.
To me, they are sick individuals who delight in sexual perversions. It seems that they dwell on it. This FhChandler's daughter/lying impersonator, posts disgusting perversions in his or her desperate attempt to make Chandler look bad. The earth will be a better place once it is cleansed of all this filth.
Nomi, I understand why you would go through with this, even though you shouldn't have to. I personally would leave them to Jehovah, and save my money. I wouldn't waste a dime on them.

Since: Mar 09

United States

#18 Mar 13, 2013
Actually Crystal a Personal Injury Lawsuit is based on a Contingency Fee. The lawyer takes his part from whatever is awarded. I would have preferred to not do any of this...but it has just gone too far. I feel as a Christian JW that I must make this mess stop in any way that I can. I have overlooked so much, and just tried to ride it out...but it just has gone from bad to worse. When these vultures(and they know who they are)try to bring my family and such matters into all this mire...I just see no way to let it go on. Thanks for caring.
UNchained

Louisville, TN

#19 Mar 13, 2013
Nomi wrote:
I have good reason to be on the offense. I have been robbed of the anonimity that is supposed to be a part of posting here. I have decided that I am fed up with the constant abuse I have suffered here. I have made it a point to learn the ID's of some of these perps who have delighted in trying to vilify and ID me. They want to try and ID me, just to delight in causing me pain and suffering. Altho it seems a few choose to overlook that. As for as any money...it is to send a message that they cannot expect to get by with such evil actions. I have never sued anyone in all my many years...but alas...there is a first time for everything.
Look at how many times have you lied about some of the female posters 9MM, etc.) on this board.

You are a bully.

Now, go back to your corner and pout some more.
UNchained

Louisville, TN

#20 Mar 13, 2013
Simply Intrigued wrote:
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If I can help in identifying who these people are, I will. We know who Unchained is and where he is. You don't deserve the hate thrown at you by these apostates.
Yeah, sue me for posting a link to a newspaper article.

You are as goofy as Nomi.
UNchained

Louisville, TN

#21 Mar 13, 2013
Crystal Chanda Cassadine wrote:
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To me, they are sick individuals who delight in sexual perversions. It seems that they dwell on it. This FhChandler's daughter/lying impersonator, posts disgusting perversions in his or her desperate attempt to make Chandler look bad. The earth will be a better place once it is cleansed of all this filth.
Nomi, I understand why you would go through with this, even though you shouldn't have to. I personally would leave them to Jehovah, and save my money. I wouldn't waste a dime on them.
You forgot to thow in your demon infested leaders' favorite definition of Watchtower exposers...

Mentally diseased.

Don't forget next time you want to whine.
UNchained

Louisville, TN

#22 Mar 14, 2013
Nomi wrote:
Actually Crystal a Personal Injury Lawsuit is based on a Contingency Fee. The lawyer takes his part from whatever is awarded. I would have preferred to not do any of this...but it has just gone too far. I feel as a Christian JW that I must make this mess stop in any way that I can. I have overlooked so much, and just tried to ride it out...but it just has gone from bad to worse. When these vultures(and they know who they are)try to bring my family and such matters into all this mire...I just see no way to let it go on. Thanks for caring.
When you sue me I'll show the court the links where you signed your real name, your screen name "Nomi" and also posted your email address.

Tell your attorney to try and get your posts removed.

BTW, I took screenshots of all of them.

I have dealt with gold diggers many times in the past.

Now, go and whine about being "outed" by others you want to place the blame on when you did it to yourself.

“NO, YOU MOVE.”

Since: Dec 06

Republic of Elbonia

#23 Mar 14, 2013
Unrepentant Serial Adulterer James R Evans aka UNchained wrote:
Look at how many times have you lied about some of the female posters 9MM, etc.) on this board.
You are a bully.
Now, go back to your corner and pout some more.
Is it anywhere near as many times as you've lied about posting/not posting as "SetFree," as using pseudonym, "Rick," about being a disfellowshipped, serial, unrepentant spiritual AND fleshly adulterer? Or how about the number of times you lied about me? About Topsy? About Gareth? About any number of others? Or how about the number of lies you've told about the teachings of the JW sect?

Add up the "lies" of everyone else and they're but a drop in the bucket of lies emanating from your fat mouth.

“NO, YOU MOVE.”

Since: Dec 06

Republic of Elbonia

#24 Mar 14, 2013
Serial Unrepentant Adulterer James R Evans aka UNchained wrote:
I have dealt with gold diggers many times in the past.
20-something you've solicited for sex don't count.

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