Since: Sep 11

Brantford, Canada

#29 Nov 15, 2012
Prime wrote:
<quoted text>Yeah, real intelligent! A turd that floats but you say it swims! Bravo!
What does your bible say? Something about the one without sin casting the first stone?
MAMMON

United States

#30 Nov 15, 2012
Stingo wrote:
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What does your bible say? Something about the one without sin casting the first stone?
Hey buddy, you jumped my ass quick when you thought I was saying gays and pedophiles were in the same category which I explained I didn't mean to come across that way. I haven't responded to your buddy FH out of respect but damn man why are you taking up for some of these idiots? You're probably my only friend on here so don't take that question wrong, Im asking so I can see your reasoning. There's a good chance I missed something. SOS really?

Since: Sep 11

Brantford, Canada

#31 Nov 15, 2012
Geeze Louise wrote:
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Your perception of what an intelligent poster is, is off. You must not have high standards for yourself.
Once a person takes a dip in that cesspool of the most vile, vulgar words to attack people anything intelligent is wasted. Everyone remembers what he is and that is the most vile character on this board along with his counterpart Spike.
You see, you twist my words. There's a big difference between calling someone an intelligent poster and saying he can be one when he wants to. SOS has said some stuff that makes complete sense, however it is burdened by his avalanche of toxic posts. I've noticed that he has never responded to a post about him that has any sort of genuine respect for him. Just to mess with him, I'm going to say that he will now try and flame me for saying that, because that's his thing, he can't deal with positive stuff at this point in his life.

But the simple fact is this, we all evolve, hopefully for the better. All I've ever said is that he has potential, as does Spike for that matter. 95% of the posters here are good people at heart. There's only a couple that are pure evil, and I can think of one from each camp, and a third who I have no idea about what they believe that could make the world a better place by leaving it. And even that could change if they could just see how pathetic they are.

Since: Sep 11

Brantford, Canada

#32 Nov 15, 2012
MAMMON wrote:
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Hey buddy, you jumped my ass quick when you thought I was saying gays and pedophiles were in the same category which I explained I didn't mean to come across that way. I haven't responded to your buddy FH out of respect but damn man why are you taking up for some of these idiots? You're probably my only friend on here so don't take that question wrong, Im asking so I can see your reasoning. There's a good chance I missed something. SOS really?
Oh hell ya, we got off on the wrong foot. But that's my whole point. You're a great guy, even if we're opposites. I respect the hell out of you now, to the point where you would be welcome over any time you wanted, in real life. I believe in our case, it was a simple misjudgement on my part. Again, I'm going to assume the flame on SOS's part for me saying this, but I believe in positive reinforcement of good virtues. I can't for even a nano second believe that SOS really wants to be acting like he does, it's not healthy, and it will kill you in the end.

I will not be like a jw anymore and wish the worst on people. I will not pray for their death. If there is anything I might be able to do or say that will ignite something in them, well, I'm all for that. You're the same, that's why I respect you.
MAMMON

United States

#33 Nov 15, 2012
I understand man, you're tired of hating and you just want things to work out. I think I remember you saying your mom wants to see you before she taps out. Ever think of swallowing your hate and give her her final wish? Im kind of in the same boat and its crossed my mind. Can you forgive your family like you have those on here?

My house is yours, you're always welcomed here.

Since: Sep 11

Brantford, Canada

#34 Nov 15, 2012
MAMMON wrote:
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Hey buddy, you jumped my ass quick when you thought I was saying gays and pedophiles were in the same category which I explained I didn't mean to come across that way. I haven't responded to your buddy FH out of respect
That still sticks with me, I feel like an idiot about that. And don't NOT respond to Chandler on my account. Treat it as a genuine debate, like in university, not that either one of us ex jw's would have a clue what that's like. You'll win some, you'll lose some. I've seen Chandler lose some, and I gave him the gears for it. Remember that he gets attacked just like you do, so defenses go up, it's natural. We used to call each other Stingo The Hutt and Free Hand Chandler. Mine was funnier of course, and I have the pm where Chandler asks me how he can be funnier, but that's another story

Since: Sep 11

Brantford, Canada

#35 Nov 15, 2012
MAMMON wrote:
I understand man, you're tired of hating and you just want things to work out. I think I remember you saying your mom wants to see you before she taps out. Ever think of swallowing your hate and give her her final wish? Im kind of in the same boat and its crossed my mind. Can you forgive your family like you have those on here?
My house is yours, you're always welcomed here.
Thats a great question, I think about it often. Hate? Yes and no. I'm just at the age where I'm learning about death, and people are starting to die. I still stand by my statement that my mother will never see me again. It's easy to forgive strangers on the net for being in a cult as you don't know each other. It's hard to forgive your own mother for abandoning you as a teenager. What I don't want is the added sadness of dealing with the death of someone you couldn't pick out of a police lineup. It may be good for her, but not for me. That's not to say I'll change my mind, but at this point, she made her bed, you know the rest

Since: Oct 10

Location hidden

#36 Nov 15, 2012
MAMMON wrote:
I understand man, you're tired of hating and you just want things to work out. I think I remember you saying your mom wants to see you before she taps out. Ever think of swallowing your hate and give her her final wish? Im kind of in the same boat and its crossed my mind. Can you forgive your family like you have those on here?
My house is yours, you're always welcomed here.
a caring and thoughtful post, we need more of those on here.
MAMMON

United States

#37 Nov 15, 2012
Sting buddy, I wish you the best on your journey. Its hard when you get delt a shitty hand and you have to play it. Good luck man but remember, its a lot easier to do something now than wish you did it later. Talk to your mom just so later on you won't think what if. Who knows man, how's the film going?

Since: Mar 09

United States

#38 Nov 17, 2012
Wrong, it did not look like Halloween to me at all. I just thought the cat was cute. I couldn't care less about Halloween.
Mythbusters wrote:
<quoted text>
You glorify the pagan holiday of halloween. You have no right to judge anyone here.
http://georgiasgifts-catblog.com/tag/hallowee...

“Bustin' Myths”

Since: Dec 09

Location hidden

#39 Nov 17, 2012
Nomi wrote:
Wrong, it did not look like Halloween to me at all. I just thought the cat was cute. I couldn't care less about Halloween.
<quoted text>
Wrong, you had it up once and took it down when it was brought to your attention that it was a halloween cat. You pulled a wtb&ts ngo move on that one nomi. You got caught being stubborn, "I'll use a halloween cat if I want". Now, deal with the repercussion of people seeing you for what you are.

Since: Mar 09

United States

#40 Nov 19, 2012
Thats not true...I changed my avatar often. I said I couldn't care less about Halloween, and I know what I thought...you do not. I said it was just a cute one, and looked like the cat had a funny hat or something. That is what I meant.

“Bustin' Myths”

Since: Dec 09

Location hidden

#41 Nov 19, 2012
Nomi wrote:
Thats not true...I changed my avatar often. I said I couldn't care less about Halloween, and I know what I thought...you do not. I said it was just a cute one, and looked like the cat had a funny hat or something. That is what I meant.
So why did you take it down?

Since: Oct 10

Location hidden

#42 Nov 19, 2012
Mythbusters wrote:
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So why did you take it down?
next year at halloween she will probably put it back up just to stir and create trouble, she only did it to create trouble then when someone brings it out she cries innocent and Gareth then comes riding in using nomi as an excuse to accuse others of attacking an old lady, never ever any mention that the avatar is pagan and Jehovah does not approve, nor giving her advice to help her. Its all part of their game on here to cause trouble hoping others will sin in words like they do.
dr fill

Mount Prospect, IL

#43 Nov 20, 2012
Nomi wrote:
Thats not true...I changed my avatar often. I said I couldn't care less about Halloween, and I know what I thought...you do not. I said it was just a cute one, and looked like the cat had a funny hat or something. That is what I meant.
I love that halloween theme ya got going girlfriend!!!!!You got nerve!!!

Since: Sep 09

Location hidden

#44 Nov 20, 2012
MAMMON wrote:
Sting buddy, I wish you the best on your journey. Its hard when you get delt a shitty hand and you have to play it. Good luck man but remember, its a lot easier to do something now than wish you did it later. Talk to your mom just so later on you won't think what if. Who knows man, how's the film going?
I don't know the discussion you guys are having but wanted to add this. I know someone who didn't go see their parents when they died. They were asked to, even begged by the siblings. She didn't go to the funerals. She was mad at them. She said she now wishes she had one more conversation with them. She regrets it now and has to live with it. Her siblings won't forgive her for hurting their parents.

I agree that he should at least talk because it could be a part of healing and not hurting for himself later. "What ifs", "if onlys" is a mental killer.
Wisconsin Wonderland

Schofield, WI

#45 Nov 20, 2012
Simply Intrigued wrote:
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I don't know the discussion you guys are having but wanted to add this. I know someone who didn't go see their parents when they died. They were asked to, even begged by the siblings. She didn't go to the funerals. She was mad at them. She said she now wishes she had one more conversation with them. She regrets it now and has to live with it. Her siblings won't forgive her for hurting their parents.
I agree that he should at least talk because it could be a part of healing and not hurting for himself later. "What ifs", "if onlys" is a mental killer.
Leta, sounds as if your speaking about YOURSELF?

Did you "SHUN" your BAPTIST family too because of the Perverted GB?

What a shame, that YOU "Shunned" your OWN flesh and blood LETA..
Prime

United States

#46 Nov 20, 2012
Stingo wrote:
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What does your bible say? Something about the one without sin casting the first stone?
LOL! Who cast the first stone? It wasn't me,that's for sure!

The fact is that this scumbag is a floundering POS, he is and always will be!

Normal people with any semblance of morality or intelligence don't say what he has said to people!

Look at how long his lie lasted, but hey you want to let him off with a slap on his limp wrists,go ahead, but don't insult everyone else's intelligence by patting him on his yellow spineless back!
TPMP

New York, NY

#47 Nov 20, 2012
Simply Intrigued wrote:
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I don't know the discussion you guys are having but wanted to add this. I know someone who didn't go see their parents when they died. They were asked to, even begged by the siblings. She didn't go to the funerals. She was mad at them. She said she now wishes she had one more conversation with them. She regrets it now and has to live with it. Her siblings won't forgive her for hurting their parents.
I agree that he should at least talk because it could be a part of healing and not hurting for himself later. "What ifs", "if onlys" is a mental killer.
I agree. You only have parents once. Even if he chose to never see them again afterwards.

Just that one last goodbye would really contribute toward a healing for him.

Don't ask questions. The why's or all that. Just hold his mom hands.

That would be sufficient.

==========

I couldn't do that. Nor could i imagine any of my kids doing that to me one day.

But, to each his own, i guess.

Since: Sep 11

Brantford, Canada

#48 Nov 20, 2012
Simply Intrigued wrote:
<quoted text>
I don't know the discussion you guys are having but wanted to add this. I know someone who didn't go see their parents when they died. They were asked to, even begged by the siblings. She didn't go to the funerals. She was mad at them. She said she now wishes she had one more conversation with them. She regrets it now and has to live with it. Her siblings won't forgive her for hurting their parents.
I agree that he should at least talk because it could be a part of healing and not hurting for himself later. "What ifs", "if onlys" is a mental killer.
I appreciate the kind words. And until that day starts to loom large, I can't really say what I will do. But for now, I'm of the mindset that there will never be any contact again, and I'm ok with it. I don't have to worry about siblings never forgiving me either as they shun me, so what they would think is of no consideration. But thanks for the input.

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