why do muslim women think sex is only...

why do muslim women think sex is only for the man to enjoy

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victoria

Uxbridge, UK

#1 Dec 17, 2009
I have a sexual relationship with m boyfriend and he is not some guy iv'e known for a couple months i have been seeing him nearly thirteen years so i know evrything about him and love him dearly.But i also enjoy sex.Woman dont do it just to please a man maybe some woman do but if you have a good lover who tries his best to make you have an orgasm you are going to have a good time.And sex when it is the person you love means more but a woman can enjoy casual sex too simply because they enjoy sex just as much as a man.Woman are sexual beings there needs to express there sexuality and if men can express ther sexuality with having sex with more than one woman why dont women have the same right why cant she have four husbands why dosen'y she have the right when men do.Muslim women say there needs are not as important there only satisfaction comes from pleasing there husband we wee created by allah to serve men.Well not so sex should be mutually enjoyable for the man and women.Do muslim men not want to be good lovers when there wife wants to sleep with them because she is having sex with someone who loves and respects her and she is enjoying your love making what is wrong with that.The fact is women do enjoy sex even on a physical level they can just lust after men as much as man lusts after women and just want sex.Quite farnkly my needs are as important and i wasn't created to serve anyone women do enjoy sex whatever muslim woman claim if they dont then maybe theres something wrong with there husbands all they have to do is give a woman a orgasm and se'll be enjoying pleasing her husband and herself.And if women dont enjoy sex why do so many masturbate proof that women enjoy sex even if you do have crap lover she can do it herself women do like sex if men take the time to make it a pleasureable

Since: Dec 09

Stuyvesant, NY

#2 Dec 17, 2009
Because women are born to serve men.
Men have certain rights that women shouldn't have.
Women shouldn't work,
They shouldn't get outside alone without their family or husband.
They should cover their body parts except hands and face to prevent unwanted things and maybe to let their husbands have their beauty all by themselves.
And they mustn't have premarital sex

Since: Jun 09

Location hidden

#3 Dec 18, 2009
victoria wrote:
I have a sexual relationship with m boyfriend and he is not some guy iv'e known for a couple months i have been seeing him nearly thirteen years so i know evrything about him and love him dearly.But i also enjoy sex.Woman dont do it just to please a man maybe some woman do but if you have a good lover who tries his best to make you have an orgasm you are going to have a good time.And sex when it is the person you love means more but a woman can enjoy casual sex too simply because they enjoy sex just as much as a man.Woman are sexual beings there needs to express there sexuality and if men can express ther sexuality with having sex with more than one woman why dont women have the same right why cant she have four husbands why dosen'y she have the right when men do.Muslim women say there needs are not as important there only satisfaction comes from pleasing there husband we wee created by allah to serve men.Well not so sex should be mutually enjoyable for the man and women.Do muslim men not want to be good lovers when there wife wants to sleep with them because she is having sex with someone who loves and respects her and she is enjoying your love making what is wrong with that.The fact is women do enjoy sex even on a physical level they can just lust after men as much as man lusts after women and just want sex.Quite farnkly my needs are as important and i wasn't created to serve anyone women do enjoy sex whatever muslim woman claim if they dont then maybe theres something wrong with there husbands all they have to do is give a woman a orgasm and se'll be enjoying pleasing her husband and herself.And if women dont enjoy sex why do so many masturbate proof that women enjoy sex even if you do have crap lover she can do it herself women do like sex if men take the time to make it a pleasureable
Disgusting!
Do you even believe in God? What you have here in this world is just temporal enjoyment but when you die you will get punished in hell, you will regret what you did and you will wish that you was like us.
But thanks victoria for proving to us again how immoral you and your culture are.
Kareem

London, UK

#4 Dec 18, 2009
Sarah ___ wrote:
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Disgusting!
Do you even believe in God? What you have here in this world is just temporal enjoyment but when you die you will get punished in hell, you will regret what you did and you will wish that you was like us.
But thanks victoria for proving to us again how immoral you and your culture are.
However disgusting you may think she is she is not as disgusting as a person who worships a god who calls non muslims pigs & swine, chops peoples hands off, kills people for thought crimes and lies. That is truly disgusting.

Since: Jun 09

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#5 Dec 18, 2009
Kareem wrote:
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However disgusting you may think she is she is not as disgusting as a person who worships a god who calls non muslims pigs & swine, chops peoples hands off, kills people for thought crimes and lies. That is truly disgusting.
Typical reply. Don't bother yourself again.
Native

Greens Fork, IN

#6 Dec 18, 2009
Sarah
Though I DISAGREE with Victoria and her lifestyle of sleeping with her boyfriend who CLAIMS to be a Christian I still have to disagree with YOU.
Who in their right mind would wish to be like you muslims? You murder innocent people, you blow yourselves up for your allah pagan god, you think you have 72 virgins waiting for you when you die, you murder women that have been raped and think its a disgrace to the whole family because someone has been raped. You follow a man that married a 6 yr old little girl. YOU ARE AN IDIOT no one wants to be like you muslims only idiots join islam.
Islam is IMMORAL they allow GROWN men to marry 6,7,8,9,10 yr old little girls IN THEIR CULTURE today.
IT IS YOU that is going to die and regret NOT being a CHRISTIAN when you find out islam was ALL lies.
Sarah ___ wrote:
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Disgusting!
Do you even believe in God? What you have here in this world is just temporal enjoyment but when you die you will get punished in hell, you will regret what you did and you will wish that you was like us.
But thanks victoria for proving to us again how immoral you and your culture are.
Rabbeen Al Jihad

Salt Lake City, UT

#7 Dec 18, 2009
Salaam Sexists! Where ever did you get the idea its only for "the Man"! to enjoy? Among the more considerate of our species, women at the very least are our equals if not a notch above us men! doubt it? show me a man anywhere that could handle the pain of childbirth! secondly, they carry our children,which in my humble opinion puts them 1 step closer to divinity! And talk about sex drive! WOW!multpleorgazmiccreaturesex trordinare! So, no sorry it,s not just for the boys to enjoy!

“PROUD INFIDEL”

Since: Nov 08

The Crusades got it right!

#8 Dec 18, 2009
Yonkru wrote:
Because women are born to serve men.
Men have certain rights that women shouldn't have.
Women shouldn't work,
They shouldn't get outside alone without their family or husband.
They should cover their body parts except hands and face to prevent unwanted things and maybe to let their husbands have their beauty all by themselves.
And they mustn't have premarital sex
Get lost troll!
Andre

Europe

#9 Dec 18, 2009
Are they allowed to think?
Andre

Europe

#10 Dec 18, 2009
Thunder-Girl wrote:
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Get lost troll!
what if your boy friend told you that on your first date? LOL

“The Defiant Dhimmi”

Since: Apr 08

Scholar of the Obvious

#11 Dec 18, 2009
Sarah ___ wrote:
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Disgusting!
Do you even believe in God? What you have here in this world is just temporal enjoyment but when you die you will get punished in hell, you will regret what you did and you will wish that you was like us.
But thanks victoria for proving to us again how immoral you and your culture are.
Disgusting? Why? Just because you suffer from sexophobia?
Not believing in god is a sign of intelligence. Obviously a concept beyond you limited brain power.
A person like you who's only bases of morality is sex is the ones that truly lack morals.

And no intelligent open-minded person of any self respect wants to be like you.
multi kultural

Malaysia

#12 Dec 18, 2009
CHRISTIAN GUIDELINES ON INTERACTION WITH WOMEN:

"Not only cohabiting with women is prohibited, but also close friendship with the female servants is not allowed" (Summa de multiplici 12th century)

The Christian fathers even cautioned against socializing with women at the table because, "After drinking wine, after eating meat, carnal intercourse will follow" (Summa Elegantius, 12th century)

“The Defiant Dhimmi”

Since: Apr 08

Scholar of the Obvious

#13 Dec 18, 2009
multi kultural wrote:
CHRISTIAN GUIDELINES ON INTERACTION WITH WOMEN:
"Not only cohabiting with women is prohibited, but also close friendship with the female servants is not allowed" (Summa de multiplici 12th century)
The Christian fathers even cautioned against socializing with women at the table because, "After drinking wine, after eating meat, carnal intercourse will follow" (Summa Elegantius, 12th century)
Isn't 12th century idology interesting?

I'm so glad I live in the 21st century.
Rabbeen Al Jihad

Salt Lake City, UT

#14 Dec 18, 2009
Salaam wilberhum! are you spanking the little girls again? shameful! the,re not even up to speed with you yet! Poor little Sarah,you hurt her feelings! So what if she,s been compermised! werent we all there once upon a time? you should bite your finger in repentence for that sin! Salaams!

“The Defiant Dhimmi”

Since: Apr 08

Scholar of the Obvious

#15 Dec 18, 2009
Rabbeen Al Jihad wrote:
Salaam wilberhum! are you spanking the little girls again? shameful! the,re not even up to speed with you yet! Poor little Sarah,you hurt her feelings! So what if she,s been compermised! werent we all there once upon a time? you should bite your finger in repentence for that sin! Salaams!
I think you are suffering from ‘Salt Madness’. You obviously have been drinking too much water from ‘Salt Lake’.

Be warned:
Humans can't drink salt water because the kidneys can only make urine that is less salty than salt water. Therefore, to get rid of all the excess salt taken in by drinking salt water, you have to urinate more water than you drank, so you die of dehydration.
he he he

UK

#16 Dec 18, 2009
good posting victoria - candid and sincere and i am sure you mean well for all women.
multi kultural

Malaysia

#17 Dec 21, 2009
“Three things are considered inadequacies in a man;
Firstly, meeting someone and then leaving before learning his name and his family.
Secondly, rejecting the generosity that others show to him.
And thirdly, going to his wife before caressing her, and satisfying his need BEFORE she has satisfied hers”(narrated by ad-Dailami)

al-Ghazali, 11th century Sufi scholar, commented on the above hadith:

"When a man has come to his orgasm, he should continue on until his wife comes to her orgasm as well, for her climax may come slowly.
Simultaneous orgasm will be the most delightful for her, for she will not be overcome by shyness" (al-Ghazali, Ihya)
victoria

Colchester, UK

#18 Jan 3, 2010
Sarah ___ wrote:
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Disgusting!
Do you even believe in God? What you have here in this world is just temporal enjoyment but when you die you will get punished in hell, you will regret what you did and you will wish that you was like us.
But thanks victoria for proving to us again how immoral you and your culture are.
Disgusting for what being a consenting adult who enjoys having sex with her boyfriend for nearly thirteen years seven of which we didn't even have sex.I do not see how being able to express m love for my boyfriend as disgusting or immoral.Tell me why i would really like to know why.Temporal enjoyment is fine but i do it because i love him and i enjoy us both having a good time whilst making love.And as for god im agnostic and the god i was taught to believe in shows mercy and will forgive but i personally think it's silly to call that a sin and if im going to hell than a lot of people are going with me (I know several muslim girls who are sleeping with their boy friends i know one who's married and her husband allows her to have a girlfriend on the side because shes bi-sexual).And as for disgusting im not having sex with little children like your pedophile that whats immoral and disgusting do you think it's good to have sex with little children having men marry eight year olds to emulate their great prophet.And as for being like a muslim i'd rather die literally than evr be muslims death would be preferable than being a misguided moran like you who follow a pedophile prophet and a sick misoginistic backward hate filed fake relegion all muslims are sick peverts and they should convert.Anything is a better relegion than islam muslims are so fond of saying convert so im saying it back you convert
Lomi

Saint Louis, MO

#19 Jan 3, 2010
Sarah ___ wrote:
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Disgusting!
Do you even believe in God? What you have here in this world is just temporal enjoyment but when you die you will get punished in hell, you will regret what you did and you will wish that you was like us.
stop believing this nightmarish nonsense they inculcated into your head since childhood
victoria

Colchester, UK

#20 Jan 3, 2010
Yonkru wrote:
Because women are born to serve men.
Men have certain rights that women shouldn't have.
Women shouldn't work,
They shouldn't get outside alone without their family or husband.
They should cover their body parts except hands and face to prevent unwanted things and maybe to let their husbands have their beauty all by themselves.
And they mustn't have premarital sex
w=Women were not born to serve men.And what is wrong with a woman working and being self-suficient so she dosen't have to serve anyone i dont serve my boyfriend and he wouldn't expect me to.unless you are employed to serve then you shouldn't.And a woman can walk around without an escort.And covering up evry single body part apart from the hands and face to prevent unwanted things i dont shroud myself ane get unwanted things happening to me clothes dont protect you if your talking about men looking at you sexually well they still knows whats underneath those clothes.And your husban should be proud if he has a beautiful wife why cant other people look at you there is nothing wrong with other people aprreciating yor looks if anyone copliments me men and women i enjoy it and feel good you shouldn't hide yourself because your husband dosen't want anyone else to see you he should be happy your with him and go home with him at night he gets to see you naked

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