I am a Muslim girl in love with a Hin...

I am a Muslim girl in love with a Hindu boy

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depressedmuslimg irl

Dearborn, MI

#1 Apr 7, 2008
I love this boy, he is very handsome, but my father is angry about it. Should I leave my family to be with him?

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Anti Satan

Surbiton, UK

#2 Apr 8, 2008
If you love the Hindu boy your father should be happy for you. Convert to Hinduism.

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NUNYA

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#3 Apr 8, 2008
If you have know the hindu boy for a long time, like over 1 year, go with him. Be careful though please. Many muslim girls would never believe that their father's could kill them, but it happens all the time. When a muslim father is disobeyed or "dishonored" he may do an honor killing on his own daughter. Please be careful, I am serious. Please be careful. I am so sorry you have to make such a decision, my heart goes out to you! I will pray for you sweety!
muslim brother

Singapore, Singapore

#4 Apr 9, 2008
Assalamu alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuhu,

Allah subhaanahu wa taala created us and made us in the best manner. This world is a test for the believers and whosover passes, the reward is jannah(paradise).

29:2 Do men think that they will be left alone on saying, "We believe", and that they will not be tested?

So, true succes lies in following the commandments of Allah.

Firstly, it is haram(forbidden) for a muslim, male or female, to engage in a pre marital relationship with anyone of opposite sex regardless of religion.

So, you should stop your association with him. Looks does not matter and is a deceiving thing.

Also, a muslimah, female muslim, cannot marry a non muslim and such a marriage would be unlawful in islam.

May Allah guide you to truth. You can look for other islamic forum . Feel free to ask again and also there are other islamic forums where people might be more of help

Wassalam

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muslim brother

Singapore, Singapore

#5 Apr 9, 2008
Also to ignorant NUNYa,

There is no such thing as honour killing in islam. This is done by ignorant people and the media pins it on islam

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“Hey, Smile!”

Since: Mar 08

Port Glasgow

#6 Apr 9, 2008
depressedmuslimgirl wrote:
I love this boy, he is very handsome, but my father is angry about it. Should I leave my family to be with him?
The dessision in the end is down to you, personally I dont think relgion should come in the way of love, however if your family are very relgious you must weight it up, do you love this boy enough to leave your family untill they come to their senses, would you be strong enough to give your family an ultimatum? If the answer is No then it may not be true love, never confuse lust with love.
Also I lost alot of my family over a choice I am now happily married but sometimes it does hurt bad when you remember the family you once lost, I guess no one but you can make the desision.

“Facts, not fiction”

Since: Apr 07

Earth

#8 Apr 9, 2008
muslim brother wrote:
Also to ignorant NUNYa,
There is no such thing as honour killing in islam. This is done by ignorant people and the media pins it on islam
Tell me, what would be the punishment for a muslima who marries a non-muslim man? You yourself said that it is illegal in islam. Thus, if she marries anyway, she'd essentially become either an apostate or have sex 'out of wedlock'. And what does islam proclaim to be the punishment for either of these two options...?
NUNYA

United States

#9 Apr 9, 2008
muslim brother wrote:
Also to ignorant NUNYa,
There is no such thing as honour killing in islam. This is done by ignorant people and the media pins it on islam
Yes, there is "honor killing" in islam. Haven't you read the quran? Its full of advice on who to kill...
A muslim

Washington, DC

#10 Apr 24, 2008
muslim brother wrote:
Also to ignorant NUNYa,
There is no such thing as honour killing in islam. This is done by ignorant people and the media pins it on islam
There may be no honor killing in the holy books, but there is one entered in there by custom, practice or sheer ignorance. And ignorance is not excuse for breaking the law - which killing someone by the way, is!
A muslim

Washington, DC

#11 Apr 24, 2008
muslim brother wrote:
Assalamu alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuhu,
Allah subhaanahu wa taala created us and made us in the best manner. This world is a test for the believers and whosover passes, the reward is jannah(paradise).
29:2 Do men think that they will be left alone on saying, "We believe", and that they will not be tested?
So, true succes lies in following the commandments of Allah.
Firstly, it is haram(forbidden) for a muslim, male or female, to engage in a pre marital relationship with anyone of opposite sex regardless of religion.
So, you should stop your association with him. Looks does not matter and is a deceiving thing.
Also, a muslimah, female muslim, cannot marry a non muslim and such a marriage would be unlawful in islam.
May Allah guide you to truth. You can look for other islamic forum . Feel free to ask again and also there are other islamic forums where people might be more of help
Wassalam
Why don't you keep Singaporean Islam out of the secular and individualistic society of the US. There is a reason free secular education and intellectual thinking exists - it is for the purpose of dissolving petty issues like religious differences. Marriage is a union between two consenting adults with the sole purpose of a harmonious and desired life together. An educated person can remain within the confines of their faith and marry the person they love. Let's evolve, shall we.
Ha ha

Singapore, Singapore

#12 Apr 24, 2008
A muslim wrote:
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Why don't you keep Singaporean Islam out of the secular and individualistic society of the US. There is a reason free secular education and intellectual thinking exists - it is for the purpose of dissolving petty issues like religious differences. Marriage is a union between two consenting adults with the sole purpose of a harmonious and desired life together. An educated person can remain within the confines of their faith and marry the person they love. Let's evolve, shall we.
You are speaking against the Quran and sunnah.

"...And do not marry(your girls) to idolators until they believe..." Quran 2:221
Ha ha

Singapore, Singapore

#13 Apr 24, 2008
There is no such thing as singaporean islam and usa islam. Islam is one.

Since: Apr 08

United States

#14 Apr 24, 2008
Ifone knows Islam and its dos and donts, one would not venture into situations where you fall in 'love'. and then you have a question "this or that?'

any muslima marrying a non musoim steps out of faith. Period. YOu violate God's rule, and produce non believers.

Just like when you live in a country, you need to stick with its laws. you do not get to pick and choose...

ALSO TO SCOTTISH GIRL:
This is Islam and not a joke like some other faiths... this is your thinking 'i donlt think religion should come in the way of love'.
You are openning the door like they have opened in Christianity...religion never comes in 'the way' when you have to do anythig. "And God still loves you, loves you, loves you" what a God!

One is free to step out of Islam

Since: Apr 08

United States

#15 Apr 24, 2008
...and I have seen many girls fallling in 'True' love every few years each thime thinking they are fine now. Then they become a tpy and that is too late..

“Have you had your 5 portions?”

Since: Apr 08

The Fertile Earth

#16 Apr 24, 2008
depressedmuslimgirl wrote:
I love this boy, he is very handsome, but my father is angry about it. Should I leave my family to be with him?
I'd recommend you leave that potty religion in any case, but if you and this boy have something special... GO FOR IT GIRL!!

You only live once!

Don't throw away your chance of happiness because of a ridiculous religion. God wouldn't want that, I'm 100% sure.

“Have you had your 5 portions?”

Since: Apr 08

The Fertile Earth

#17 Apr 24, 2008
muslim brother wrote:
Assalamu alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuhu,
Allah subhaanahu wa taala created us and made us in the best manner. This world is a test for the believers and whosover passes, the reward is jannah(paradise).
29:2 Do men think that they will be left alone on saying, "We believe", and that they will not be tested?
So, true succes lies in following the commandments of Allah.
Firstly, it is haram(forbidden) for a muslim, male or female, to engage in a pre marital relationship with anyone of opposite sex regardless of religion.
So, you should stop your association with him. Looks does not matter and is a deceiving thing.
Also, a muslimah, female muslim, cannot marry a non muslim and such a marriage would be unlawful in islam.
May Allah guide you to truth. You can look for other islamic forum . Feel free to ask again and also there are other islamic forums where people might be more of help
Wassalam
Put a sock in it, you medieval knob.

Since: Apr 08

United States

#18 Apr 24, 2008
BeetRoot:

'i am 100%sure' based on what teaching or evidence from which Book? Bible?

Adam and Eve commit sin. They were punished(and Bible says all were punished). Why? they violated God's command. You might say,'well, what if muslims girl MARRIES hindu guy?'. She will violate command as well.

How in the world you think God/ Faith is one thing and your wishes and what you do another and taht Faith should not interfere what you want....that is how West is far away from faith now...

One might as well decalre one is not Muslim. To say one is and violate on whim is being hypocratic.

There is no humanity wothout faith (Islam). Everything other than Islam leads to animalism and not humanism...a few centuries later your views that you think are MODERN will be taken as MEDEVIL..
Stones

Knutsford, UK

#19 Apr 24, 2008
irfan1 wrote:
BeetRoot:
'i am 100%sure' based on what teaching or evidence from which Book? Bible?
Adam and Eve commit sin. They were punished(and Bible says all were punished). Why? they violated God's command. You might say,'well, what if muslims girl MARRIES hindu guy?'. She will violate command as well.
Whose command, the very same God who created man and woman (Adam and Eve as you mentioned)?
How in the world you think God/ Faith is one thing and your wishes and what you do another and taht Faith should not interfere what you want....that is how West is far away from faith now...
West may be far from faith, but they are closer in faith than Muslims. Even an Autrailians Mukllah uttered that.
One might as well decalre one is not Muslim. To say one is and violate on whim is being hypocratic.
There is no humanity wothout faith (Islam). Everything other than Islam leads to animalism and not humanism...a few centuries later your views that you think are MODERN will be taken as MEDEVIL..
Who told you that idiot. Only Islam leads you to animalism.

Since: Oct 06

Location hidden

#20 Apr 24, 2008
Depressedmuslimgirl has not come back..

Hope she's ok.

“Have you had your 5 portions?”

Since: Apr 08

The Fertile Earth

#21 Apr 24, 2008
irfan1 wrote:
BeetRoot:
'i am 100%sure' based on what teaching or evidence from which Book? Bible?
Adam and Eve commit sin. They were punished(and Bible says all were punished). Why? they violated God's command. You might say,'well, what if muslims girl MARRIES hindu guy?'. She will violate command as well.
How in the world you think God/ Faith is one thing and your wishes and what you do another and taht Faith should not interfere what you want....that is how West is far away from faith now...
One might as well decalre one is not Muslim. To say one is and violate on whim is being hypocratic.
There is no humanity wothout faith (Islam). Everything other than Islam leads to animalism and not humanism...a few centuries later your views that you think are MODERN will be taken as MEDEVIL..
You belong in the 7th century.

Your interpretation of God is bollocks and anyone who believes in Adam and Eve is a loon. The story is metaphorical. They were not real people.

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