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How to stop being sexually aroused? (Teen) NEED HELP!

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Ekira

Singapore, Singapore

#1 Jun 6, 2012
Assalamualaikum Mufti Menk,

I have a very awkward question to ask you.

I'm 16, and a girl. I've been watching pornography eversince i saw it and i've been humping a pillow (-_-) eversince a very very young age.
I'm not addicted to any one of those things i mentioned above, i don't watch/do it everyday or every month just when i'm sexually aroused?
Im not proud of it. I do try to fight the temptation and when i do get over it, it comes back stronger? And i would give in.
I do pray last time, but now i've stopped (gonna continue praying, dont worry) and even with praying i still get sexually aroused.
I definitely don't go gazing at guys unnecessarily and start thinking all those crappy things, im not like that. My gaze is very low as you can say it?
I ask Allah to cleanse my thoughts, and i do ask him if could 'stop' this feeling till i get married.
I don't have a boyfriend, not even once in my life unlike my other friends who do have boyfriends. Which im pretty sure they 'hanky panky' with, cause they told me they do :|
I don't think for my age its right to have a boyfriend, i feel like they're not at the stage where they're mature enough? And they're not at the stage where they are looking for a serious relationship where eventually we'll get married like i do.
To me its like unnecessary heart break so i'd rather not. Well, thats my opinion i guess.
I do 'masturbate' if you consider it that way, i don't really do it. i just hump a pillow to get it done and over with.. i don't like put anything in there cause i find that just too obscene as you can say it?

How do i stop this? I know one of the ways is fasting? But fasting would mean my parents knowing and it'll be so awkward if they found out.
And getting married is not an option? Cause i'm only 16 and i've still got so many things ahead of me.
Really hope you could help me out.

And i apologize for the question, i just don't know who else to ask.
POOP

Doha, Qatar

#2 Aug 1, 2012
Yea I'm a guy 16 years old too, you see we are in puberty. Our bodies are producing hermones needed for us to grow up including the hermones that sexually arouses. It's really natural and will (hopefully!) stop by the time you reach adulthood. In the meantime I find it easy to deal with it by just taking my mind off of it and think about the time I accidentally slapped my friend becuase he startled me! I'm sure you can think I your own funny situation.:)
True Tamil Tiger

Toronto, Canada

#5 Oct 11, 2012
Ekira wrote:
Assalamualaikum Mufti Menk,
I have a very awkward question to ask you.
I'm 16, and a girl. I've been watching pornography eversince i saw it and i've been humping a pillow (-_-) eversince a very very young age.
I'm not addicted to any one of those things i mentioned above, i don't watch/do it everyday or every month just when i'm sexually aroused?
Im not proud of it. I do try to fight the temptation and when i do get over it, it comes back stronger? And i would give in.
I do pray last time, but now i've stopped (gonna continue praying, dont worry) and even with praying i still get sexually aroused.
I definitely don't go gazing at guys unnecessarily and start thinking all those crappy things, im not like that. My gaze is very low as you can say it?
I ask Allah to cleanse my thoughts, and i do ask him if could 'stop' this feeling till i get married.
I don't have a boyfriend, not even once in my life unlike my other friends who do have boyfriends. Which im pretty sure they 'hanky panky' with, cause they told me they do :|
I don't think for my age its right to have a boyfriend, i feel like they're not at the stage where they're mature enough? And they're not at the stage where they are looking for a serious relationship where eventually we'll get married like i do.
To me its like unnecessary heart break so i'd rather not. Well, thats my opinion i guess.
I do 'masturbate' if you consider it that way, i don't really do it. i just hump a pillow to get it done and over with.. i don't like put anything in there cause i find that just too obscene as you can say it?
How do i stop this? I know one of the ways is fasting? But fasting would mean my parents knowing and it'll be so awkward if they found out.
And getting married is not an option? Cause i'm only 16 and i've still got so many things ahead of me.
Really hope you could help me out.
And i apologize for the question, i just don't know who else to ask.
Your body wants sex.....feed it a dick.

End of story.

Since: Oct 12

Location hidden

#6 Oct 12, 2012
You should immolate yourself on a fire made of tamil bodies, that is the only way you will satisfy the bloodlust and pedophile lust of your Profit Mohammas.

Since: Sep 12

Location hidden

#7 Oct 12, 2012
Ekira wrote:
Assalamualaikum Mufti Menk,
I have a very awkward question to ask you.
I'm 16, and a girl. I've been watching pornography eversince i saw it and i've been humping a pillow (-_-) eversince a very very young age.
I'm not addicted to any one of those things i mentioned above, i don't watch/do it everyday or every month just when i'm sexually aroused?
Im not proud of it. I do try to fight the temptation and when i do get over it, it comes back stronger? And i would give in.
I do pray last time, but now i've stopped (gonna continue praying, dont worry) and even with praying i still get sexually aroused.
I definitely don't go gazing at guys unnecessarily and start thinking all those crappy things, im not like that. My gaze is very low as you can say it?
I ask Allah to cleanse my thoughts, and i do ask him if could 'stop' this feeling till i get married.
I don't have a boyfriend, not even once in my life unlike my other friends who do have boyfriends. Which im pretty sure they 'hanky panky' with, cause they told me they do :|
I don't think for my age its right to have a boyfriend, i feel like they're not at the stage where they're mature enough? And they're not at the stage where they are looking for a serious relationship where eventually we'll get married like i do.
To me its like unnecessary heart break so i'd rather not. Well, thats my opinion i guess.
I do 'masturbate' if you consider it that way, i don't really do it. i just hump a pillow to get it done and over with.. i don't like put anything in there cause i find that just too obscene as you can say it?
How do i stop this? I know one of the ways is fasting? But fasting would mean my parents knowing and it'll be so awkward if they found out.
And getting married is not an option? Cause i'm only 16 and i've still got so many things ahead of me.
Really hope you could help me out.
And i apologize for the question, i just don't know who else to ask.
the same thing happened to me but i'm a guy. i was only about 11 or 12 when i was exposed to pornography. you are now demonically pocessed as i was for most of my life.

never look at pornography again

tell you parents and ask them to get help for you.
Just a Stranger

Kelowna, Canada

#9 Oct 13, 2012
Put yourself down and train your mind to not go anywhere sexually aroused, if you wanna stop.

“Mad as Hell”

Since: Sep 12

Location hidden

#10 Oct 14, 2012
Immigrate to a truly Muslim country like Aphganistan or Saudi Arabia.
Cloth yourself at all times in a burqa.
If you feel aroused, then expose a small part of your body to the world like your wrist or ankle,
then wait for the modesty police to come and whip you.
Such impure thoughts will soon disappear.
Daddy

Oaxaca, Mexico

#11 Oct 14, 2012
Im surprised your father or brother hasnt already took the cherry. Both of them. What are animals for anyway?

“Mad as Hell”

Since: Sep 12

Location hidden

#12 Oct 14, 2012
I'm very surprised that you don't know the solution.
It is Female Genital Mutilation where the source of pleasure, the clitoris, is removed.
"Current status: Female genital mutilation is practiced among the Muslim population in Sri Lanka. The share of Muslims is 7.6 per cent. However, the majority of Muslims do not practice FGM. Precise details and figures are not available, as this is practiced in utmost secrecy."
This is your Muslim heritage.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Female_genital_m...
The countries which practice this barbarism are primarily Muslim.

“Mad as Hell”

Since: Sep 12

Location hidden

#14 Oct 15, 2012
Aso think about Muslim men and bestiality.
Think about camels.
This is a good starting point.
http://hadhramouts.blogspot.com.au/2010/07/of...
It is thought that drinking camels urine will suppress those thoughts among other cures.

Since: Oct 12

Location hidden

#15 Oct 16, 2012
sex with muslim men IS beastiality - they're PIGS. that's why they're forbidden to eat pork, most religions have a prohibition against cannibalism.
Daddy

Oaxaca, Mexico

#16 Oct 16, 2012
Ekira wrote:
Assalamualaikum Mufti Menk,
I have a very awkward question to ask you.
I'm 16, and a girl. I've been watching pornography eversince i saw it and i've been humping a pillow (-_-) eversince a very very young age.
I'm not addicted to any one of those things i mentioned above, i don't watch/do it everyday or every month just when i'm sexually aroused?
Im not proud of it. I do try to fight the temptation and when i do get over it, it comes back stronger? And i would give in.
I do pray last time, but now i've stopped (gonna continue praying, dont worry) and even with praying i still get sexually aroused.
I definitely don't go gazing at guys unnecessarily and start thinking all those crappy things, im not like that. My gaze is very low as you can say it?
I ask Allah to cleanse my thoughts, and i do ask him if could 'stop' this feeling till i get married.
I don't have a boyfriend, not even once in my life unlike my other friends who do have boyfriends. Which im pretty sure they 'hanky panky' with, cause they told me they do :|
I don't think for my age its right to have a boyfriend, i feel like they're not at the stage where they're mature enough? And they're not at the stage where they are looking for a serious relationship where eventually we'll get married like i do.
To me its like unnecessary heart break so i'd rather not. Well, thats my opinion i guess.
I do 'masturbate' if you consider it that way, i don't really do it. i just hump a pillow to get it done and over with.. i don't like put anything in there cause i find that just too obscene as you can say it?
How do i stop this? I know one of the ways is fasting? But fasting would mean my parents knowing and it'll be so awkward if they found out.
And getting married is not an option? Cause i'm only 16 and i've still got so many things ahead of me.
Really hope you could help me out.
And i apologize for the question, i just don't know who else to ask.
Im still wondering if anyone has put the dick to you yet. Youre obviously horny and need a good screwing.
abba

Mesquite, NV

#17 Oct 16, 2012
Daddy wrote:
<quoted text> Im still wondering if anyone has put the dick to you yet. Youre obviously horny and need a good screwing.
i bout had it with ur foul mouth. maybe some americin girl should smack it. haha cause if man did u would cry like baby. haha. start showng someresppect to ppls dirtymouth fiflth.
American Girl

Waterbury, CT

#18 Oct 16, 2012
Ekira wrote:
Assalamualaikum Mufti Menk,
I have a very awkward question to ask you.
I'm 16, and a girl. I've been watching pornography eversince i saw it and i've been humping a pillow (-_-) eversince a very very young age.
I'm not addicted to any one of those things i mentioned above, i don't watch/do it everyday or every month just when i'm sexually aroused?
Im not proud of it. I do try to fight the temptation and when i do get over it, it comes back stronger? And i would give in.
I do pray last time, but now i've stopped (gonna continue praying, dont worry) and even with praying i still get sexually aroused.
I definitely don't go gazing at guys unnecessarily and start thinking all those crappy things, im not like that. My gaze is very low as you can say it?
I ask Allah to cleanse my thoughts, and i do ask him if could 'stop' this feeling till i get married.
I don't have a boyfriend, not even once in my life unlike my other friends who do have boyfriends. Which im pretty sure they 'hanky panky' with, cause they told me they do :|
I don't think for my age its right to have a boyfriend, i feel like they're not at the stage where they're mature enough? And they're not at the stage where they are looking for a serious relationship where eventually we'll get married like i do.
To me its like unnecessary heart break so i'd rather not. Well, thats my opinion i guess.
I do 'masturbate' if you consider it that way, i don't really do it. i just hump a pillow to get it done and over with.. i don't like put anything in there cause i find that just too obscene as you can say it?
How do i stop this? I know one of the ways is fasting? But fasting would mean my parents knowing and it'll be so awkward if they found out.
And getting married is not an option? Cause i'm only 16 and i've still got so many things ahead of me.
Really hope you could help me out.
And i apologize for the question, i just don't know who else to ask.
OMG - it's abba's girlfriend

Since: Oct 12

Location hidden

#19 Oct 16, 2012
Abba only penetrates his sons, and swine
aiesha s

Sydney, Australia

#20 Oct 16, 2012
abba wrote:
<quoted text>i bout had it with my foul mouth. maybe some americin girl should smack it. haha cause if man did i would cry like baby, im so wite fethered. haha.
i will never start showng someresppect to ppls coz im a dirtymouth fiflth.
We know, but not only Americans would take U up on the offer.
aiesha s

Sydney, Australia

#21 Oct 16, 2012
Ekira wrote:
Assalamualaikum Mufti Menk,
I have a very awkward question to ask you.
I'm 16, and a girl. I've been watching pornography eversince i saw it and i've been humping a pillow (-_-) eversince a very very young age.
I'm not addicted to any one of those things i mentioned above, i don't watch/do it everyday or every month just when i'm sexually aroused?
Im not proud of it. I do try to fight the temptation and when i do get over it, it comes back stronger? And i would give in.
I do pray last time, but now i've stopped (gonna continue praying, dont worry) and even with praying i still get sexually aroused.
I definitely don't go gazing at guys unnecessarily and start thinking all those crappy things, im not like that. My gaze is very low as you can say it?
I ask Allah to cleanse my thoughts, and i do ask him if could 'stop' this feeling till i get married.
I don't have a boyfriend, not even once in my life unlike my other friends who do have boyfriends. Which im pretty sure they 'hanky panky' with, cause they told me they do :|
I don't think for my age its right to have a boyfriend, i feel like they're not at the stage where they're mature enough? And they're not at the stage where they are looking for a serious relationship where eventually we'll get married like i do.
To me its like unnecessary heart break so i'd rather not. Well, thats my opinion i guess.
I do 'masturbate' if you consider it that way, i don't really do it. i just hump a pillow to get it done and over with.. i don't like put anything in there cause i find that just too obscene as you can say it?
How do i stop this? I know one of the ways is fasting? But fasting would mean my parents knowing and it'll be so awkward if they found out.
And getting married is not an option? Cause i'm only 16 and i've still got so many things ahead of me.
Really hope you could help me out.
And i apologize for the question, i just don't know who else to ask.
This might help, I hope so:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vibrator_ (sex_toy)
nazir

Wilmington, DE

#23 Oct 29, 2012
taman shud wrote:
You should immolate yourself on a fire made of tamil bodies, that is the only way you will satisfy the bloodlust and pedophile lust of your Profit Mohammas.
do you understand what your saying i see your views really bias and im not going reply. Secondly fix ur english you stupid fob its Prophet Muhmmad peace be upon him
Muslim

South Africa

#24 Nov 8, 2012
Dear sister nikah will help you .
Brother Jamal

Cupertino, CA

#25 Dec 3, 2012
Assalam-walaykum Sister,

Always think about Allah. Start offering help to those in dire need, like feeding the poor and donating. Do something that is productive so that you can take your mind off it. Remember, this is life is a test, and it's your decisions that determine the good from bad. Sorry if i went a little off topic, but remember to do something good for the community that benefits you and others, or read the quran and remember Allah.

sincerely,

A brother who was in the same shoes

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