Is being gay wrong?

Created by BeHonestHaters on Feb 15, 2012

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Eric

Canoga Park, CA

#522 Jun 28, 2013
From his earliest childhood, Stephen Bennett felt he was different from the other guys he grew up with. He was never athletic, he was much more sensitive than they were, and he was into the arts. He wanted to be like them more than anything else in the world, but he just wasn't. When he reached puberty, this difference began to manifest itself in a sexual attraction to the other guys and men. Throughout high school he resisted the urges he felt, and tried to make himself attracted to girls. No matter how many girls he dated however, it never worked. He was simply not attracted to them. As a freshman in college he acted on his cravings, and had his first homosexual encounter. He decided he needed to be who he was and came out of the closet, declaring himself gay. His family reacted strongly against him, and he lost touch with them. He discovered that several of his friends had also come out of the closet, and they began frequenting gay bars together. He lived for the night, and over the next eleven years, had over one hundred partners. One day he heard a knock on his door, and he opened it to find a friend of his he hadn't seen in years. Kathy had become a born-again Christian a few months before, when she had trusted Jesus Christ as her Savior from sin. She knew that Stephen was gay, and asked if she could come in to tell him about her new life in Christ, and what the Bible says about homosexuality. Very reluctantly he agreed. Kathy began showing him that homosexuality was wickedly immoral in the sight of God (Leviticus 18:22,20:13) that the homosexual would not enter heaven because of his sin, and that ALL sinners would be punished in an eternal hell, not just the homosexuals. He was getting really mad at this point, but then she said something that got his attention. She told him that although God hates homosexuality, He loves the homosexual. She told him that God has provided a very real salvation from sin that will transform the life of anyone, including the homosexual, that Jesus Christ has died on the cross paying for all sin, not just homosexuality, and that he rose from the dead, and is now waiting in Heaven to save anyone from their sins. (part 1)
Eric

San Geronimo, CA

#523 Jun 28, 2013
Although Stephen was infuriated by what he heard, he knew what Kathy said was not said in hate, but in love. She was very concerned for his soul. For the next two years he began reading the Bible every night. Eventually he saw that Kathy was right, and God hated the sin of Homosexuality. That fact however did nothing to help him however, he was still controlled by his cravings. Eventually the guilt became so great he couldn't bear it anymore, until one day he genuinely repented of his sins, trusting Jesus Christ to save him from sin and hell. Immediately he felt as if a burden was lifted from him and he had peace in his heart. In a few weeks he moved out of his boyfriends house and began living a celibate lifestyle, although his cravings were still a big part of him. As he began reading the Bible, God began to take his homosexual cravings away, and eventually the day came when he was completely delivered from them. Some time later he married a Christian lady who had known him when he was gay, and who had never stopped praying for him. That was 1993 and now he has graduated from Bible College, and is an evangelist preaching all over the country the love and transforming power of Jesus Christ.

“Alea iacta est!”

Since: Oct 06

Oh it's ON!

#524 Jun 28, 2013
Porkpie Hat wrote:
<quoted text>
That or Lunatic Fringe by Red Rider!
Definitely...but I am partial to the Green Day music video,'Basket Case'...the lyrics are absolutely perfect!

;D

http://youtu.be/NUTGr5t3MoY

“Alea iacta est!”

Since: Oct 06

Oh it's ON!

#525 Jun 28, 2013
victoria wrote:
Whats wrong with being gay not that i am but then again what is wrong with being gay.I have several agay two of them are in committed relationships and have been for years.I dont treat them any diffrent to my straight friends because to me they are no diffrent gay people can be perfectly decent nice people their sexuality dosent define weather they should be treated a certin way.And at the end of the day who does it hurt if someone enters into a relationship be it bi gay or straight who actually cares apart fron the people involved.I dont see why people who arent involved have to throw in their two cents worth of how they think other people should be.If you dont like dont watch
For some perverse reason there are religious zealots who believe Homosexuals threaten them.
Eric

San Geronimo, CA

#526 Jun 29, 2013
Trisha wrote:
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For some perverse reason there are religious zealots who believe Homosexuals threaten them.
They threaten freedom of speech and religious freedom. Amd thank you i like being called a zealot!!!
victoria

Maidenhead, UK

#527 Jun 29, 2013
Eric wrote:
<quoted text>They threaten freedom of speech and religious freedom. Amd thank you i like being called a zealot!!!
How do they threaten freedom of speech.Ok. they migh not like what they are doing but its not your concern and say it if you like but they also in turn have the right to as yourself say and do what they have freedom to express themselves and believe in whatever relegion they like you know there sre some gay ministers and them are some who just accept these people are gay so what.gay people dont take away from straight people gay people dont go around telling you who you should and shouldnt date why should you have that right to do so to them.You are the one who threatens freedom of speech relegion self expression and love
Eric

San Geronimo, CA

#528 Jun 29, 2013
victoria wrote:
<quoted text>How do they threaten freedom of speech.Ok. they migh not like what they are doing but its not your concern and say it if you like but they also in turn have the right to as yourself say and do what they have freedom to express themselves and believe in whatever relegion they like you know there sre some gay ministers and them are some who just accept these people are gay so what.gay people dont take away from straight people gay people dont go around telling you who you should and shouldnt date why should you have that right to do so to them.You are the one who threatens freedom of speech religion self expression and love
I refuse to keep my mouth shut i have the freedom of speech like they do and i can condemn them for their ungodly lifestyle and i will never refrain from doing so period.
victoria

Maidenhead, UK

#529 Jun 30, 2013
Eric wrote:
<quoted text> I refuse to keep my mouth shut i have the freedom of speech like they do and i can condemn them for their ungodly lifestyle and i will never refrain from doing so period.
And you have the right to do that but then they are allowed to defend there lifestyle no matter what your think.I free speecg is an absolute then you are both entitled to say what you think but it dosent make either of you right or wrong.And why do you care so much if a persons having a gay relationship or not how does it impact on you lifestlye whta diffrence does it make to you how would you like it if people looked at your lifestyle and said no i dont like it you'd probably say what buisness is it of yours who you are with it dosent concern them its your life not theres so you shoule be allowd to live as they insult them if you must but i hhardly think its productive my gay friends domt care and they dont listen so waste your brath if it gives you satisfaction gay people will still defend it
An Atheist

Ashburn, VA

#530 Jul 1, 2013
How do gays birth???
An Atheist

Ashburn, VA

#531 Jul 1, 2013
victoria wrote:
Whats wrong with being gay not that i am but then again what is wrong with being gay.I have several agay two of them are in committed relationships and have been for years.I dont treat them any diffrent to my straight friends because to me they are no diffrent gay people can be perfectly decent nice people their sexuality dosent define weather they should be treated a certin way.And at the end of the day who does it hurt if someone enters into a relationship be it bi gay or straight who actually cares apart fron the people involved.I dont see why people who arent involved have to throw in their two cents worth of how they think other people should be.If you dont like dont watch
We straight guys just find gay people yukk..!!
You don't know that feel because you are a female and attracted to every type of male such as I have no problem with lesbians.
victoria

Slough, UK

#532 Jul 1, 2013
An Atheist wrote:
<quoted text>We straight guys just find gay people yukk..!!
You don't know that feel because you are a female and attracted to every type of male such as I have no problem with lesbians.
I know lots of straight men who are ok. with the gay men thing.The only reason men dont find lesbians yck is because they think it's hot to look at girl on girl sex.Just for the record i do know one gay

who thinks sex with women is sick
Eric

San Geronimo, CA

#533 Jul 2, 2013
victoria wrote:
<quoted text>And you have the right to do that but then they are allowed to defend there lifestyle no matter what your think.I free speecg is an absolute then you are both entitled to say what you think but it dosent make either of you right or wrong.And why do you care so much if a persons having a gay relationship or not how does it impact on you lifestlye whta diffrence does it make to you how would you like it if people looked at your lifestyle and said no i dont like it you'd probably say what buisness is it of yours who you are with it dosent concern them its your life not theres so you shoule be allowd to live as they insult them if you must but i hhardly think its productive my gay friends domt care and they dont listen so waste your brath if it gives you satisfaction gay people will still defend it
But the million dollar question is is it moral?
victoria

Slough, UK

#534 Jul 2, 2013
Eric wrote:
<quoted text> But the million dollar question is is it moral?
The answer is who cares.Are we all perfect people who have never done anything a little immoral.My point is it dosent make a diffrence weather someone is gay or not really who cares and if you do why because your perfect have never done anything wrong or you just have to do it because you have no life of your own to focus on so you have to intrude on other peoples lives.I dont if the guy who lives next door is gay or my best friend i'd only have a problem obviously if it was my boyfriend but aside from him i really. dont care because it really dosent make a diffrence to my life

“Twoof, a true act of ignorance”

Since: Jun 09

Okotoks, Canada

#535 Jul 2, 2013
Trisha wrote:
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Definitely...but I am partial to the Green Day music video,'Basket Case'...the lyrics are absolutely perfect!
;D
http://youtu.be/NUTGr5t3MoY
I cannot argue with you 'bout that Trisha!

“pshhhhh”

Since: Jun 13

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#536 Jul 2, 2013
This thread is so stupid 90 % of animals and humans are NOT attracted to the same sex of course its wrong
Eric

San Geronimo, CA

#537 Jul 2, 2013
victoria wrote:
<quoted text>The answer is who cares.Are we all perfect people who have never done anything a little immoral.My point is it dosent make a diffrence weather someone is gay or not really who cares and if you do why because your perfect have never done anything wrong or you just have to do it because you have no life of your own to focus on so you have to intrude on other peoples lives.I dont if the guy who lives next door is gay or my best friend i'd only have a problem obviously if it was my boyfriend but aside from him i really. dont care because it really doesn't make a diffrence to my life
So it isn't moral then?
Eric

San Geronimo, CA

#538 Jul 2, 2013
victoria wrote:
<quoted text>The answer is who cares.Are we all perfect people who have never done anything a little immoral.My point is it dosent make a diffrence weather someone is gay or not really who cares and if you do why because your perfect have never done anything wrong or you just have to do it because you have no life of your own to focus on so you have to intrude on other peoples lives.I dont if the guy who lives next door is gay or my best friend i'd only have a problem obviously if it was my boyfriend but aside from him i really. dont care because it really dosent make a difference to my life
the fact of the matter is that were all on our way to hell just because we've sinned against God. Now God in his mercy gave us a way to escape, and that is he sent his Son Jesus Christ to die for us that we might live!!!
Eric

San Geronimo, CA

#539 Jul 2, 2013
Aussiebob wrote:
This thread is so stupid 90 % of animals and humans are NOT attracted to the same sex of course its wrong
Thats the point i'm trying to drive at!!!

“pshhhhh”

Since: Jun 13

Location hidden

#540 Jul 2, 2013
Eric wrote:
<quoted text>Thats the point i'm trying to drive at!!!
How can anybody argue differently
Patriot

Oaxaca, Mexico

#541 Jul 3, 2013
An Atheist wrote:
How do gays birth???
That's the only beauty of it. They cant multiply. But they damn sure shouldn't be able to adopt children and raise them up in the formative years. Children are too easily influenced and manipulated. Queers suck anyway you luck at it. And have no shame. Poor bastards should just commit suicide!

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