do some muslims wear wedding rings?

do some muslims wear wedding rings?

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sundy white

Versailles, KY

#1 Aug 16, 2011
im marrying a muslim and i have seen some wear wedding rings and others say no people of islam do not wear wedding rings.. im confused?

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#2 Aug 16, 2011
You are confused, but it doesn't have anything to do with rings...
sundy white

Versailles, KY

#3 Aug 16, 2011
Ravenclaw wrote:
You are confused, but it doesn't have anything to do with rings...
im confused ?? dude? you think youre a german shepard! hehe

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#4 Aug 16, 2011
That's Ms. Dude to you. And yes, my dogs are beautiful thanks!

“It's a new dawn it's a new day”

Since: Sep 10

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#5 Aug 16, 2011
sundy, it may have something to do it being haram for men to wear gold. I have heard that before but i have also seen some men wear wedding rings, so i suppose it's up to them.

Have you not spoken to your fella? Surely he can tell you more.
resident

United States

#6 Aug 16, 2011
you didn't trust the word of the man you are marrying?
Qhyer Qhyrzyxque

Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia

#7 Aug 16, 2011
No matter for wedding ring EXCEPT CockRing

“Get a life Creepy Tom. ”

Since: May 10

Obsess over someone else Tom.

#8 Aug 17, 2011
Sara-uk72 wrote:
Have you not spoken to your fella? Surely he can tell you more.
This right here is how you can tell the story is BS. If she was really marrying a muslim man, they would have discussed this personally and she wouldn't need to come to a place like topix and ask. Its obviously someone posing.
sundy white

Versailles, KY

#9 Aug 17, 2011
no im not posing.. i did discuss it with my fiabce ... i really wanted the rings and i think it does depend on the muslims beliefs... he says it goes against islam.. im just hurt.. he first said we could.. then he said i could but the man couldnt.. now he says muslims do not wear wedding rings ..
sundy white

Versailles, KY

#10 Aug 17, 2011
Sara-uk72 wrote:
sundy, it may have something to do it being haram for men to wear gold. I have heard that before but i have also seen some men wear wedding rings, so i suppose it's up to them.
Have you not spoken to your fella? Surely he can tell you more.
thank you for being kind with me .. as you can see not everyone is.. i responded just that he said at first we could wear them.. them months later he said he found out only i could and now its no muslim man or woman can wear a wedding ring.. against islam..
sundy white

Versailles, KY

#11 Aug 17, 2011
Daniel Stone wrote:
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This right here is how you can tell the story is BS. If she was really marrying a muslim man, they would have discussed this personally and she wouldn't need to come to a place like topix and ask. Its obviously someone posing.
you seem to speak with a confidence born of knowledge,, then i know better know dont i... you are right about it being pathetic for me to be here looking for answers tho..i responded if you have time from judging to read it?
sundy white

Versailles, KY

#12 Aug 17, 2011
Ravenclaw wrote:
That's Ms. Dude to you. And yes, my dogs are beautiful thanks!
well i never said youre dogs are beautiful? dont know where that came from... i insulted you after you insulted me. you need to polish the comeback burn... and the dogs themselves are of course very nice..their owner however.. i question manners and empathy
sundy white

Versailles, KY

#13 Aug 17, 2011
resident wrote:
you didn't trust the word of the man you are marrying?
he said before we could have wedding rings.. then he found out only i can have wedding ring.. now its no muslims can wear one or give one as a wedding ring.. i guess some believe its againt islam and some dont...

“Get a life Creepy Tom. ”

Since: May 10

Obsess over someone else Tom.

#14 Aug 17, 2011
sundy white wrote:
no im not posing.. i did discuss it with my fiabce ... i really wanted the rings and i think it does depend on the muslims beliefs... he says it goes against islam.. im just hurt.. he first said we could.. then he said i could but the man couldnt.. now he says muslims do not wear wedding rings ..
Ok, I'll acknowledge that your story is true. So you can look at it one of 2 ways. 1- its just a ring. or 2- He doesn't want people to know he's married.

As for it going against Islam, that sounds like bunk. When their prophet himself, Muhammad was raiding and stealing from the people of the lands of the arabian Peninsula he stole all the gold he could get his hands on. When he was raiding the Quraysh caravans he was deliberately stealing their gold and their goods. He used gold and other goods to bribe mercinaries to follow him, to create Islam, in his immage. He claimed that Allah promised those who followed him would get "booty" on earth, or rich rewards in heaven if they killed non muslims in his cause.

Also, i've been to Egypt,(I have family there) where the Muslim men do wear wedding bands.

His choice to not want to wear one is probably personal preference. As to why, well you'll have to ask him to give you the truth.

“Get a life Creepy Tom. ”

Since: May 10

Obsess over someone else Tom.

#15 Aug 17, 2011
sundy white wrote:
<quoted text> you seem to speak with a confidence born of knowledge,, then i know better know dont i... you are right about it being pathetic for me to be here looking for answers tho..i responded if you have time from judging to read it?
You'll have to forgive my defensive side, Sundy,(For you're sake) Lets say what you say is true. I'll say it is. You're story is legit.) But for every story here that has been legit, there has been hundreds of exposed stories that have been fabricated by immature idiots just to get a rise out of the people here.

So when we see yet another story of "I'm a non muslim woman and i'm marrying a wonderful muslim man but........" And there is always a but, we tend to err on the side of caution because more times than not there isn't a stitch of truth to the stories.

If you are who you say you are,(a non muslim woman marrying a muslim man) then you have bigger problems coming down the road. Much bigger than if he'll wear a ring or not. Wait until he tells you you have to give up your rights, wear a burka, become a muslim, disown your family, perhaps share him with other women, physically abuses you if you disagree with him, etc etc.

Good luck. It will come.
Civilised Truth

Palmerston North, New Zealand

#16 Aug 17, 2011
as usually silver for the man & gold for the woman> most wear wedding rings all the time> can be some who work by their hands take them off for the work.
sundy white wrote:
im marrying a muslim and i have seen some wear wedding rings and others say no people of islam do not wear wedding rings.. im confused?
Civilised Truth

Palmerston North, New Zealand

#17 Aug 17, 2011
muslim must give the ring to the woman and give her dowry, what ever he can give is acceptable > what he can afford> is emotional significance & not about the amount he give.
sundy white wrote:
<quoted text>he said before we could have wedding rings.. then he found out only i can have wedding ring.. now its no muslims can wear one or give one as a wedding ring.. i guess some believe its againt islam and some dont...

“It's a new dawn it's a new day”

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#18 Aug 17, 2011
Daniel Stone wrote:
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You'll have to forgive my defensive side, Sundy,(For you're sake) Lets say what you say is true. I'll say it is. You're story is legit.) But for every story here that has been legit, there has been hundreds of exposed stories that have been fabricated by immature idiots just to get a rise out of the people here.
So when we see yet another story of "I'm a non muslim woman and i'm marrying a wonderful muslim man but........" And there is always a but, we tend to err on the side of caution because more times than not there isn't a stitch of truth to the stories.
If you are who you say you are,(a non muslim woman marrying a muslim man) then you have bigger problems coming down the road. Much bigger than if he'll wear a ring or not. Wait until he tells you you have to give up your rights, wear a burka, become a muslim, disown your family, perhaps share him with other women, physically abuses you if you disagree with him, etc etc.
Good luck. It will come.
WTH? It doesn't always happen Daniel. Yes i agree that it may have happened to some but you make it sound like it will most certainly happen. You have not met every muslim man have you? There are some mixed faith marriages that do work and are very successful where the woman is not beaten, is not disrespected by their husband taking another wife, keeps her own faith and freely choose what they want to wear :) women like that do exist :)

Sundy, no problem :) just to talk to him and ask why? I would like to add though, if you have met this guy overseas via the net and he comes from a country that he cannot freely travel, please watch out. Take care :)

“kill 'em with kindness......”

Since: Apr 11

Ontario

#19 Aug 18, 2011
sundy white wrote:
im marrying a muslim and i have seen some wear wedding rings and others say no people of islam do not wear wedding rings.. im confused?
We wear wedding rings. Islam prohibits men from wearing gold so while my wedding band can be gold, his is pure silver. I got mine in white gold so we at least appear co-ordinated and before you ask, yes, there was an engagement ring for me too. Just like in Western culture.

“Get a life Creepy Tom. ”

Since: May 10

Obsess over someone else Tom.

#20 Aug 18, 2011
Sara-uk72 wrote:
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WTH? It doesn't always happen Daniel. Yes i agree that it may have happened to some but you make it sound like it will most certainly happen. You have not met every muslim man have you? There are some mixed faith marriages that do work and are very successful where the woman is not beaten, is not disrespected by their husband taking another wife, keeps her own faith and freely choose what they want to wear :) women like that do exist :)
Sundy, no problem :) just to talk to him and ask why? I would like to add though, if you have met this guy overseas via the net and he comes from a country that he cannot freely travel, please watch out. Take care :)
""It doesn't always happen Daniel. Yes i agree that it may have happened to some"" Some, many, Yes. And is still going on today. The quran and hadiths CONDONE the abuse of women. You can not deny this. Muslim men are taugth that women are beneith them and to treat them so. If you've read their scriptures then you'd know.

""You have not met every muslim man have you?"" I don't have to when their religion teaches them to be that way. Their religion teaches them to be controling, and abusive and surpressing towards women. Their Prophet himself claimed women were stupid, and were no better than domesticated animals. Do you want to follow a religion that teaches men that women are no better than animals?

""There are some mixed faith marriages that do work and are very successful"" Sure. Then there are the 97.8% of Islamic to non islamic marriges (Always muslim man marrying non muslim woman, because muslim women are forbade to even talk to non muslim men never mind marry them,) where the women thinks how wonderful of a romance she's on and then when the real guy comes out she finds herself in the worst place in her life. So i wish her luck. Hopefully she's lucky.

""keeps her own faith"" I 100% guarentee that she will be forced to convert 6 months into the marrage. Mark my words. If this story is true, then she will. He will NOT let her stay a non-muslim. Muslims are bread to FORCE everyone to become muslims. Why do you think the quran says Fight and kill everyone who is a non muslim until ONLY islam exist. Why do you think it says Kill every non muslim. Wipe them out to the last. Its because that's what Islam is bread to do. Take over or die trying.

Believe me. I wish her well. I hope she has a life of long good times and happiness. But when you've seen it more times than enough and you've studied their religion and you know what they are taught and you know how they think, the odds are not in her favour.

I'm just being a realist. Good luck to her.

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