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Both are engineers and work in big companies. My dad lies and complaiens how little money he earns when clearly he makes a lot. He comlaines to me how I should workd and drive to scholl. They wont even take me to school without problems. I am convicned my paretns hate me and are planning to send me of little by little. My dad has not seen or helped his family so they are not so well off. Then he complains how he's poor and has no money. My cousins are tired of Iran and are just jelpous I am in America. I can't even talk to them without getting heart broken. They are really hurtful to me. Everyone has been hurtful to me. These stupid parents play a film out of me. They are nice to everyone except me. They are so tricky that most people, not even my sister, realize how they have hurt me. Now my family is being given money so they think that my dad is an angel. All my parents intentions have twists in them. They blacken everything in my life before I get to experience it. In the end, I am alone, sick, and everyone thinks I am crazy. Even my own sister wont believe me. Cutting relations is one of the worst sin's and my parents have done this without regret for forty years. I beleivev some family died of regret for them not even calling them. I try to do go and have good intentions always. I give money to power and try to read and want to help muslims. My grandfater is originally from Iraq and I am heartbroken at what has happened to Iraq. I wish to help my people and hate what has happened to Iraq. My silly mother still thinks with the hope of Allah and still does these things. This is such extreme pain and Its obvious I am not being feed. I have Everyone I see around me and in college has family and friends.I want to ask, why has this befallen me? Why are my parents like this? I have prayed sooo much and my luck has unchanged.Why am I the only one in my family like this? I am burned out, think, and have much regret. I wanted to grow with someone or some Uncle or in Iran where I could learn Islam. I am tired of the U.S the way people dress and act its as if I've been posined. I am extrmeley ashamed of being here as a Muslim but I can't leave. My plan is to finish my bachelors and join the Iranian Millitary. Is this a good plan and will it succede? I wish to free myself from America. Why is this happening what is the point no one else is like me in the family and I'm just suffering from my parents sins? What is the outcome? Also, are there other sites I can use to send this information? If you more info please tell me. Thank you
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I want help and discussion with Muslims only. Thank you. I want to solve my problem. Its so deep and emotional and I am very confused.

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I want help and discussion with Muslims only. Thank you. I want to solve my problem. Its so deep and emotional and I am very confused.
Muslims can't help you Roy.
Muslims are your problem.
You said that your self in your posting.
Try seeking out a Christian Church in your area and talk to the pastor about your self.
You are the problem.

You are the way you are because of your own ignorance of good and evil, right and wrong.

A Christian Pastor can help you to come out of your ignorance of not knowing the difference between good and evil, right and wrong state of mind.

“M.A....Rise”

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<quoted text>Muslims can't help you Roy.
Muslims are your problem.
You said that your self in your posting.
Try seeking out a Christian Church in your area and talk to the pastor about your self.
You are the problem.
You are the way you are because of your own ignorance of good and evil, right and wrong.
A Christian Pastor can help you to come out of your ignorance of not knowing the difference between good and evil, right and wrong state of mind.
You are loser....Islam will overcome you

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Both are engineers and work in big companies. My dad lies and complaiens how little money he earns when clearly he makes a lot. He comlaines to me how I should workd and drive to scholl. They wont even take me to school without problems. I am convicned my paretns hate me and are planning to send me of little by little. My dad has not seen or helped his family so they are not so well off. Then he complains how he's poor and has no money. My cousins are tired of Iran and are just jelpous I am in America. I can't even talk to them without getting heart broken. They are really hurtful to me. Everyone has been hurtful to me. These stupid parents play a film out of me. They are nice to everyone except me. They are so tricky that most people, not even my sister, realize how they have hurt me. Now my family is being given money so they think that my dad is an angel. All my parents intentions have twists in them. They blacken everything in my life before I get to experience it. In the end, I am alone, sick, and everyone thinks I am crazy. Even my own sister wont believe me. Cutting relations is one of the worst sin's and my parents have done this without regret for forty years. I beleivev some family died of regret for them not even calling them. I try to do go and have good intentions always. I give money to power and try to read and want to help muslims. My grandfater is originally from Iraq and I am heartbroken at what has happened to Iraq. I wish to help my people and hate what has happened to Iraq. My silly mother still thinks with the hope of Allah and still does these things. This is such extreme pain and Its obvious I am not being feed. I have Everyone I see around me and in college has family and friends.I want to ask, why has this befallen me? Why are my parents like this? I have prayed sooo much and my luck has unchanged.Why am I the only one in my family like this? I am burned out, think, and have much regret. I wanted to grow with someone or some Uncle or in Iran where I could learn Islam. I am tired of the U.S the way people dress and act its as if I've been posined. I am extrmeley ashamed of being here as a Muslim but I can't leave. My plan is to finish my bachelors and join the Iranian Millitary. Is this a good plan and will it succede? I wish to free myself from America. Why is this happening what is the point no one else is like me in the family and I'm just suffering from my parents sins? What is the outcome? Also, are there other sites I can use to send this information? If you more info please tell me. Thank you
Hahahaha you're weak and you don't lift that's perfect for the Persian militia.
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Please, I want serious help. I am a Muslim. I will reedit this too.
Salaam,
I have been separated from my family since birth. My parents have done everything they can to separate me from my grandparents, cousins, uncles, etc. I am Iranian and most of my family lives in Iran. I have grown up here in the U.S. and very recently have begun to realize the root of my problems. My parents have cut relations with their families and I am now 21 and a sick, exhasued, and alone. My family is either ill, grown up, or dead.My parents have done nothing to help them and they lie to me and backbite about me. When I was In Iran, they told my family and friends family everything I told them. Me and my parents argued over the phone and I said a few things. My father decided to tell my friends family behind my back. When I arrived at my fiends house, everyone looked at me as if I was some maniac. I was so ashamed and stunned. I have so many regrets and jealousies. My parents have taken everything away from me: Deen, language, culture, Iran. We never visted my famly and only after fighting with my parents I have gone only three times. My father hasent seen his family in almost forty years. Now everyone has adapted and grown up without me and I am as if a stranger especially toward my cousins.I recently had feeling toward one of my cousins and we wanted to be together. My parents from the beginning we furious I was taking to my girl cousin. We chatted on Yahoo Messenger and my parents behing my back, to my email passsoword and looked at what we said. Last year when I went to visit my cousin, whom I had feelings for, everyone bothered her so much. I later found out my parents since the beginning were syping on our emails and wanted tp destroy our relationship. Now she is ashamed and I don't think she likes me anymore. I had feelings for her and I regert much how they hurt her and how we were not together from the beginning. I trusted my parents they wouldn't look at my emails and I didn't make a secret email. I always try to please my paretns, I go to school and come home study. I give them gifts I talks to them. They just crushed me. All my cousins are lean and well feed and around family and grandparents except me whom my parents have not treated me well so I am very thin and sick. of all the grandchildern I am the sickest and weakest even my sister was well feed. When I was little I was always getting sick. I once had a seizure and had meningitis which struck my spine and I was close to being paralyzed. I fell from somebodies arms when I was little and have a huge scar on my head. My head always seems to hurt and I have heart murmur. My cousins and sister are tall, well fed, and have almost no health issues. I am extrmely jealous and do not know whay I am not like them. I am also gooing baldIts is embarrising only these pat two months have I begun eating really well and my eye sight began to improve. I have been bored my whole life and since twelve have been addicted to istimna and zina I had no one to tell me it was bad and am now very burned out.I am burned out I have barley seen my homeland.I have no luck in life. Nothing goes as planned.
I have very bad luck. This year, I went to Iran and some how my cousin joined the millitary, my grandparnt couldnt walk, and when we were about to go a road trip, my grandfathers head hit the door and almost died. The nurse said that if it hit furthur down he would have died. My uncle was moving and I had a misreble time in Iran. Everyone around me believes my parents and blame me for my problmes. I so hurt inside.
On a more serious note, try weight lifting and try not to bang any cousins. Just so you know I do wish you well, but if we ever meet on the field of battle, I will "suplex you, put you in camel clutch, f--k your ass and make you humble, old country way".
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I want help and discussion with Muslims only. Thank you. I want to solve my problem. Its so deep and emotional and I am very confused.
You seem to me that your problem is with your parents primarily and how they relate to your native country, culture and family. I doubt that joining the Iranian military will fix anything. I think that finishing college, establishing your life and finding a group of educated Muslims who are active in dawah would be a good idea for you. Find a active masjid near you and associate with men who are well balanced and who are active in the greater community.

I would not encourage relocating to Iran-the govt there is unstable internally and even if it stands as a govt, your cousins are jealous because they know in Iran they have so little freedom. I'm not talking about burkas, I am talking about even THOUGHT. You worry about your parents spying on you? Don't even think that you could live in Iran without there being serious consequences as an American(ized at least) westernized young man.

I lived near there and was invited to visit and every Muslim I know (Shia and Sunni alike!) warned me from going there. You have family roots and you may want to stay, but you do for any length of time and even if Iran lets you leave willingly, no one else will really want you. They will (rightly) be untrusting and worried about it.

I speak as a Muslim who has lived peacefully with Muslims of all "sects", races and nations. I don't think Iran is a good idea for you or anyone at this time.

I know there is a lot of good people and beauty in the country, but there is too much conflict there and you only get one life. Your cousins are jealous FOR A REASON,they all know your parents are full of it and that America is a better bet. If you married your cousin she would want to live in the US, not Iran.You want Iranian culture in your home, marry a nice Iranian girl and live in Houston where you can raise your children in safety.

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You sound GAY....they would hang you in Iran...you better go to San Francisco or Key West instead.
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Sounds like your family hate you. Move out.

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Sounds like you've had a really difficult time growing up and you haven't had a very loving and supportive family. They sound quite toxic. If I were you I'd cut ties with them and focus on myself and my own life. If they have never looked after you. nurtured you and given you the time of day, they are not worth your time. Cut off all contact with them and be a good person and live your own life. Let go of their negativity. You can be happy, but only you can help yourself.

It doesn't seem like it's the environment that's hurting you but your own family.
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Sounds like your family hate you. Move out.
Thanks I plan to finish my education and move to Iran. What do you think?
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Sounds like you've had a really difficult time growing up and you haven't had a very loving and supportive family. They sound quite toxic. If I were you I'd cut ties with them and focus on myself and my own life. If they have never looked after you. nurtured you and given you the time of day, they are not worth your time. Cut off all contact with them and be a good person and live your own life. Let go of their negativity. You can be happy, but only you can help yourself.
It doesn't seem like it's the environment that's hurting you but your own family.
At this point I am quite confused at my direction in life. I have virtually nobody and feel like my only hope is to go to Iran. I cant really explain my feelings its difficult. Really my life is not much more than family. I lost really. Thank you for your support.

“Alea iacta est!”

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<quoted text>At this point I am quite confused at my direction in life. I have virtually nobody and feel like my only hope is to go to Iran. I cant really explain my feelings its difficult. Really my life is not much more than family. I lost really. Thank you for your support.
So sorry for your feelings of pain and loss.

But despite your culture.......you might have to open your mind to new places...new ideas.

You're a human being you do not have to be defined by your culture if it's hurting you. It's ok to branch out and learn new positive ways to live.
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So sorry for your feelings of pain and loss.
But despite your culture.......you might have to open your mind to new places...new ideas.
You're a human being you do not have to be defined by your culture if it's hurting you. It's ok to branch out and learn new positive ways to live.
I find peace in my homeland. I think that's a good place to start. This is beyond ideologies and politics for me. Its in my heart.
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So sorry for your feelings of pain and loss.
But despite your culture.......you might have to open your mind to new places...new ideas.
You're a human being you do not have to be defined by your culture if it's hurting you. It's ok to branch out and learn new positive ways to live.
Thank you. Please lets continue this.
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<quoted text>I find peace in my homeland. I think that's a good place to start. This is beyond ideologies and politics for me. Its in my heart.
Trying getting a hand job. If this task seems impossible remember you can get one behind most major convenient stores for about $10. Tell them mark sent you and you might get one on the house.

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<quoted text> You are loser....Islam will overcome you
Take a look at your self Lad!
Your are grown man and you still don't know the difference between good and evil, right and wrong.
You need to grow up Lad, you still talk like a 5th grade school yard bully!

Is that the way you make a living by bulling people around?
Are you still bulling kids into giving you their lunch Money?

No wonder your brain dead, you probably go around with your nose in the air sniffing for a left over fart left by Muhammad.

Grow up lad! The 7th century came and gone a thousand years ago!

“Alea iacta est!”

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<quoted text>Thank you. Please lets continue this.
I don't know.

To find real peace you might have to leave your comfort zone and experiment.
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<quoted text> Thanks I plan to finish my education and move to Iran. What do you think?
if that will make you happy then its what you should do.
Seriously

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<quoted text> You are loser....Islam will overcome you
Egyptian_lad !
are you still looking for muslim giants in egypt ? living in egypt is like being on death row...

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