Spreading Salaams
ashkarlives4ALLA H


#1 Feb 14, 2013
"And when you are greeted with a greeting, greet in return with what is better than it, or (at least) return it equally."

(Qur'an, An-Nisa 4:86)

Human interaction is an important facet of any society. In Islam, proper relationships are stressed at all phases of interaction and the common greeting holds a special place in Islamic manners. Allah says in the Qur'an:

"O you who believe! enter not houses other than your own, until you have asked permission and greeted those in them, that is better for you, in order that you remember." (Qur'an, An-Nur 24:27)


"....But when you enter houses, greet one another with a greeting from Allah, blessed and good...."

(Qur'an, An-Nur 24:61)

Too often, we take greetings for granted and attach minimal importance to them. In these verses, however, Allah reminds the Muslims that offering greetings and the manner of the greeting are of upmost importance. Similarly, in a Hadith narrated by Bukhari and Muslim, the Prophet stressed the importance of greetings when he defined the rights of a Muslim:

"The rights of a Muslim upon another are five: returning greetings, visiting the sick, following the funeral procession, responding to invitations and offering 'Tashmeet' for one who sneezes." (Bukhari and Muslim)

The recommended greeting of a Muslim is to say:

"assalaamu alaykum" (peace be upon you)

According to a Hadith related by Bukhari and Muslim, this form of greeting was ordained by Allah from the time of Prophet Adam (peace be upon him).


Exchanging salaam holds a high position in Islam. Not only is salaam equated with many other important deeds, but it is one of the defining criteria of belief. We observe many Hadiths pertaining to the position of exchanging salaam in Islam.

In one Hadith a man asked the Prophet about which aspect of Islam was best. The Prophet replied:

"Feeding the hungry, and saying salaam to those you know and those you don't know." (Bukhari and Muslim)

The Prophet also said:

"You will not enter paradise until you believe, and you will not believe until you love one another:'spread salaam'(the greeting of peace) among you." (Muslim)

The Prophet Muhammad also explained another virtue of salaam in the following Hadith:

"When two Muslims meet (give salaam), and shake hands, they are forgiven their sins before they part (with each other)." (Abu Dawud)

Finally, reflect on another saying of the Prophet , when he said:

"O people! spread salaam, feed the hungry, be in touch with your kin, and pray while people are asleep (at night) you shall enter paradise peacefully." (Tirmithi)
ashkarlives4ALLA H


#2 Feb 14, 2013

There are several forms of exchanging salaam. Each has its grade which corresponds to the extent of the phrase.

There is a Hadith where Imran Ibn Hussayn (may Allah be pleased with him) narrated that:

"A man came to the Prophet and said,'assalaamu alaykum!' The Prophet returned his greeting and when the man sat down, the Prophet said:'Ten.' Another man came and said:'assalaamu alaykum wa rahmatullah.' to which the Prophet also responded, and when the man sat down, He said 'Twenty.' Another man came and said:'assalaamu alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh.' The Prophet returned his greeting, and after the man sat down, he said:'Thirty." (Abu Dawud and Tirmithi)

The Hadith has been interpreted to mean that the minimum form of the Islamic greeting which is acceptable is "assalaamu alaykum" and one is rewarded ten good deeds for saying it. The second grade, adding "wa rahmatullah", raises the reward to twenty good deeds. The best grade of salaam is "assalaamu alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatahu", and this is worth thirty good deeds.

The response to the greeting is similar in form and rewards. The least one could say is "Wa alaykum-us-salaam" and the best response is: "Wa alaykum-us-salaam wa rahmatulahi wa barakatahu".

In the time of the Prophet the Sahabah (companions of the Prophet ) would compete with each other, to see who could give salaams first.

The Prophet said:

"The best of the two persons is the one who begins with salaam." (Related by Nawawi in his book Al-Adkar)

"The Prophet was asked:'O Messenger of Allah ! When two persons meet with each other, who should take the lead in greeting the other? He answered:'The one who is closest to Allah." (Tirmithi)

The Prophet said:

"The person closest to Allah is the one who precedes others in greeting." (Abu Dawud)


Since: Nov 08

The Crusades got it right!

#4 Feb 15, 2013
Thanks. I'll have a pork SALAAMI.

Bowling Green, KY

#5 Feb 15, 2013
Thunder-Girl wrote:
Thanks. I'll have a pork SALAAMI.
Make mine with spicy mustard. Oh, and a cold beer to wash it down with.

Since: Feb 12

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#6 Feb 15, 2013
Thunder-Girl wrote:
Thanks. I'll have a pork SALAAMI.
Don't forget the bacon with your pork SALAAMI!
ashkarlives4ALLA H


#7 Feb 15, 2013
Thunder-Girl wrote:
Thanks. SALAAMI.
u welcome all the time TG 4 u also just my special salaami http://www.google.com/imgres...

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