Other posters may have had that happened, but IAS is NOT other posters and she takes her vows very seriously as I do.<quoted text>
NorCal I am only going on what has been posted in the past by other posters who end up in divorce and loss everything in that divorce including that posters identity. I have actually read where a divorcee still see the ex every day which is not healthy at all due to the inability to have a sense of self which of course speaks volumes about that poster. I personally see nothing wrong with divorce and age taught me to always be prepared but of course I have a strong sense of self and understand the importance of having a self identity and why I have kept myself involved with the DNC and things I enjoy to ensure moving on is easy. Just my view on what IAS has continuously posted and please keep in mind that those that ONLY identify as married have sever issues within the marriage itself and lack an identity outside of that marriage.
Sorry, but everyone is not the same when it comes to being married, some don't take their vows seriously, some take them to seriously.....in the end......everyone is responsible for their own marriage and unless they specifically are asking for marital advice......don't give it unless ya personally the circumstances.
That's all I was saying!!!