Marriage Equality Wins First Ballot Measures

[Jammercolo]

I am Servant wrote:

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I agree if divorce is anywhere near thought then DON"T get married!
Marriage is suppose to be for life. I don't support divorce, however I do understand that sometime people do change and things happen. Once divorced just don't get re-married. That is just my opinion of how I see it.

The Bible Even Jesus was clear.

Luke 16:18 Jesus says:
Every one who divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery, and he who marries a woman divorced from her husband commits adultery.

second Marriage in a church = Church sponsorship of adultery sin

[Jammercolo]

-The Star Reborn- wrote:

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The troll GS. "She" is really a guy. The whole GS persona is fake.

your proof is?

[NorCal Native]

Jammercolo wrote:

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Yes,I know.
IMO it's crazy that Christians feel it is there right to force Christians and non Christians to live by the cherry picked parts of the Bible they feel (this week) best fit God's plan while opening a blind eye to other parts of God's plan

Exactly!!

[OKAY]

Jammercolo wrote:

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Who ya talking about?

seen?

[OKAY]

-The Star Reborn- wrote:

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I doubt that any of it will ever sink into my psycho guy's narcissistic thick skull.

I agree.

[Jammercolo]

OKAY wrote:

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seen?

AKA Seen Is Awesome ?

I disapprove of socks puppets.

[Cookie_Parker]

-The Star Reborn- wrote:

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I doubt that any of it will ever sink into the psycho guy's narcissistic thick skull.

I'd have to agree...once your are over the edge on mental illness, as he is, you really can't even grasp enough of reality to have a sane discussion.

He's repeated everything he's said here at for two years...and he's not added a thing to the conversation. He's only trolled IAS.

[GodSmacked]

Jammercolo wrote:

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your proof is?

Good question.

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I am Servant wrote:

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Oh that is funny cause unlike you I do not feel "trapped". I believe that it is my duty to keep my vows. I also believe it is the .

IAS I wish you the best with this. Many poster have posted the exact same thing and in two years are divorced. It is obvious to me when marriages are in trouble on topix because the poster posts about all the time as you are here. I have no desire to help you because it is obvious to me the marriage will end sooner than you realize.

I do not get your posts over and over about money. They make no sense to whatsoever. Do you have issue with being married to a poor man? Do you have more debt than you can handle? My advice is to understand the recipe for good living and stick to it because it works and I am living proof of that.

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Jammercolo wrote:

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AKA Seen Is Awesome ?
I disapprove of socks puppets.

LOL oh he has lost several for this very behavior.

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I am Servant wrote:

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You know Jammercolo I do believe you have a good point! I think that law (if it was a law) in itself would clear up the money issues right there!

Money has nothing to do with marriage. My first 5 husbands where millionaires and they knew no more than my 6th husband who was not a millionaire.

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I am Servant wrote:

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I agree if divorce is anywhere near thought then DON"T get married!
Marriage is suppose to be for life. I don't support divorce, however I do understand that sometime people do change and things happen. Once divorced just don't get re-married. That is just my opinion of how I see it.

You have the right to divorce IAS and do not fear hell and all that nonsense.

[NorCal Native]

GodSmacked wrote:

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IAS I wish you the best with this. Many poster have posted the exact same thing and in two years are divorced. It is obvious to me when marriages are in trouble on topix because the poster posts about all the time as you are here. I have no desire to help you because it is obvious to me the marriage will end sooner than you realize.
I do not get your posts over and over about money. They make no sense to whatsoever. Do you have issue with being married to a poor man? Do you have more debt than you can handle? My advice is to understand the recipe for good living and stick to it because it works and I am living proof of that.

There is NOTHING wrong with Servant's marriage........and for you to think there is, is just ignorance on your part.......she has never really posted that her marriage is in trouble and if you'd taken the time to get to know her......you'd realize that!!!!

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NorCal Native wrote:

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There is NOTHING wrong with Servant's marriage........and for you to think there is, is just ignorance on your part.......she has never really posted that her marriage is in trouble and if you'd taken the time to get to know her......you'd realize that!!!!

NorCal I am only going on what has been posted in the past by other posters who end up in divorce and loss everything in that divorce including that posters identity. I have actually read where a divorcee still see the ex every day which is not healthy at all due to the inability to have a sense of self which of course speaks volumes about that poster. I personally see nothing wrong with divorce and age taught me to always be prepared but of course I have a strong sense of self and understand the importance of having a self identity and why I have kept myself involved with the DNC and things I enjoy to ensure moving on is easy. Just my view on what IAS has continuously posted and please keep in mind that those that ONLY identify as married have sever issues within the marriage itself and lack an identity outside of that marriage.

[NorCal Native]

GodSmacked wrote:

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NorCal I am only going on what has been posted in the past by other posters who end up in divorce and loss everything in that divorce including that posters identity. I have actually read where a divorcee still see the ex every day which is not healthy at all due to the inability to have a sense of self which of course speaks volumes about that poster. I personally see nothing wrong with divorce and age taught me to always be prepared but of course I have a strong sense of self and understand the importance of having a self identity and why I have kept myself involved with the DNC and things I enjoy to ensure moving on is easy. Just my view on what IAS has continuously posted and please keep in mind that those that ONLY identify as married have sever issues within the marriage itself and lack an identity outside of that marriage.

Other posters may have had that happened, but IAS is NOT other posters and she takes her vows very seriously as I do.

Sorry, but everyone is not the same when it comes to being married, some don't take their vows seriously, some take them to seriously.....in the end......everyone is responsible for their own marriage and unless they specifically are asking for marital advice......don't give it unless ya personally the circumstances.

That's all I was saying!!!

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NorCal Native wrote:

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Other posters may have had that happened, but IAS is NOT other posters and she takes her vows very seriously as I do.
Sorry, but everyone is not the same when it comes to being married, some don't take their vows seriously, some take them to seriously.....in the end......everyone is responsible for their own marriage and unless they specifically are asking for marital advice......don't give it unless ya personally the circumstances.
That's all I was saying!!!

That is your view NorCal, however I see it very differently and will continue to point out my observations. IAS is having issues in my opinion considering her posts and the history of those that have done the exact same thing on topix and have ended in divorce. No one needs to fear getting divorced due to hell and all that nonsense and considering the vows are Christian based I am certain that is the delima at hand from my observation.

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NorCal please note how IAS bring up money over and over which tells me as a poster her marriage may be facing finically difficulties and draw this opinion from my observations of her posts.

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Native from Pa wrote:

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Hope all is well with you Native.

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Jammercolo wrote:

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If a divorce is anywhere in someones thoughts that is about to get married don't. He/she is not ready.
I have Never had a divorce plan I don't believe in a god but I do believe in a life long mate.Without her I am not whole.

I agree. Too many people get married in an attempt to fix a problem in their lives. Some marry thinking the other person will "make" them happy. Some marry for money in the hopes it will make them happy. Too many marry thinking if it does not work, we will just get out. The list of poor reasons to marry goes on and on.

If a person is not able to be happy on their own, another will not "make" them happy and it is unreasonable to put the onus of ones happiness onto another person. When a person realizes (as most people do) that money cannot make them happy, then they realize the unloving marriage merely added another reason to be unhappy into their lives. If one treats their marriage as if it is a bic lighter (when you are done with it or a problem arises you dispose of it) then it is almost assured that marriage will end in divorce.

There is no such thing as a "good" divorce. A marriage ending in divorce is nothing to be celebrated about.

[I am Servant]

NorCal Native wrote:

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There is NOTHING wrong with Servant's marriage........and for you to think there is, is just ignorance on your part.......she has never really posted that her marriage is in trouble and if you'd taken the time to get to know her......you'd realize that!!!!

I just can't get over the fact that some make sure they "have a way out" of their marriage. When I married it was for life. Not for how much money he has. I have a strong marriage and you are right, if they take the time to get to know me they would realize that. As for divorce I'm not thinking about a way out, I don't need one. Divorce is not the right thing just because someone gets tired of their spouse. I for one am not even close to being tired of my spouse! I love my husband more today than the day I married him!!!