Marriage Equality Wins First Ballot Measures

[I am Servant]

GodSmacked wrote:

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Regardless of the circumstances you plan to keep these vows?

I plan to stay with my husband! Divorce is not in the plans. Why would you think I would change that? I love my husband.

[GodSmacked]

I am Servant wrote:

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I plan to stay with my husband! Divorce is not in the plans. Why would you think I would change that? I love my husband.

IAS, I am not trying to change anything and was simple asking you a question. People change IAS and it is important to keep your options open and not feel trapped.

[Reptile Man]

GodSmacked wrote:

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IAS, I am not trying to change anything and was simple asking you a question. People change IAS and it is important to keep your options open and not feel trapped.

Good advise to IAS. Who knows, someday she could go psycho like you and pretend to be a man on Topix, squandering her days uselessly trolling and making up lies and insults to attack everyone she does not like.

Maybe that's one of your problems psycho guy, you are too narcissistic and self absorbed to ever know what true love is all about. It surely has nothing to do with continuously shopping around for a "better deal".

It must suck being a freaky creep like you.

[Cookie_Parker]

GodSmacked wrote:

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IAS, I am not trying to change anything and was simple asking you a question. People change IAS and it is important to keep your options open and not feel trapped.

It's far more important to define your morals and ethics and values and what you will and will not tolerate. It is far more important to KNOW what you think than to vacillate with what others tell you to think. IT is far more important to gain in wisdom from experiences than to be wish washy and think others may know something better than you do.

But, you're young. And couldn't possibly understand the wisdom which comes with age...even those in their 30's know better than your advice.

[Cookie_Parker]

I am Servant wrote:

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I plan to stay with my husband! Divorce is not in the plans. Why would you think I would change that? I love my husband.

And keep on that track. You don't need to change your values and morals and love just because someone thinks you should "keep your mind open". Only someone youthful who has never experienced love but just loves pretending they are old suggests that changing your opinions, love, values, morals, ethics and character is a good idea.

[GodSmacked]

Funny, Cookie, you have a failed marriage and lost everything and I, on the other hand, had five divorces and lost nothing. In fact my fifth husband recently passed and left me his entire estate even though we had been divorced for over 40 years. Speaks volumes about my wisdom with marriage and divorce. Cookie, I doubt you will ever remarry because you have nothing to offer a man except your egotistical illogical foundation of deception.

My heart weeps for women like you Cookie because you have no character and men do not find that attractive at all. I'd say, from what I have witnessed with you, the divorce devastated you because you did not keep your options open and plan for the possibility of divorce. Your identity was that of being married and codependent and lacking a true sense of self. I'd say you still have continuous constant contact with your ex-husband because you need that identity of marriage.

Your wisdom shows your inability to be flexible and prepared for whatever may happen. My 5 divorces taught me to be flexible and always prepared because I refused to be a victim of divorce where as you are the victim of your divorce. You are always the victim Cookie and never the victorious winner. Experience and wisdom will teach you to not ever be the victim in any situation but I doubt you will ever grasp that concept because you lack the ability to see your own fault which is one ingredient to the recipe for good living.

[I am Servant]

GodSmacked wrote:

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IAS, I am not trying to change anything and was simple asking you a question. People change IAS and it is important to keep your options open and not feel trapped.

Oh that is funny cause unlike you I do not feel "trapped". I believe that it is my duty to keep my vows. I also believe it is the right thing for me to do. When differences come up we work through them not use it as a reason to be able to "get out of" the relationship. There is not on relationship on this earth that has no problems or difference. The difference is I am willing to work at the relationship and not "screw" someone over and take everything from them. My marriage is 100%/100% I give it my all and so does he. We married for life not who has money.
When you grow up you might understand that. When two adult people get married they need to know what they are doing and that marriage is to be for life, that my dear is how I look at it.
For the record if I need help with my marriage I will not ask you because if you are not able to stay married you have no clue about marriage. Again my dear that is how I look at it.

[I am Servant]

Cookie_Parker wrote:

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And keep on that track. You don't need to change your values and morals and love just because someone thinks you should "keep your mind open". Only someone youthful who has never experienced love but just loves pretending they are old suggests that changing your opinions, love, values, morals, ethics and character is a good idea.

Thank you for your words of wisdom!

[Jammercolo]

I am Servant wrote:

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Jammercolo,
For the record, I am married to my first husband as with he is married to his first wife. I disagree with the statement "starting to think is all Christians". Not ALL Christian follow that way of thinking. I am a Christian and I have no plans to DIVORCE my husband. I believe that problems can be worked out. If you ask me is my marriage perfect, I would tell you we have had problems just like everyone does. We chose to out the differences not run away from them. I didn't marry for money. I married for life. We made vows we plan to keep.

Good for you,Still,atheists and agnostics have the lowest divorce rate in the country.

Christians are quick to say gay marriage is evil and want laws against it. Wonder why we have yet to see a law against remarriages of adulterers in America. Hmmm?

How about a $1000 fine to file for divorce and $1,000 tax to state for 2nd marriage. 3rd time $5000 4th $10,000.All to the state.

[Jammercolo]

GodSmacked wrote:

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IAS, I am not trying to change anything and was simple asking you a question. People change IAS and it is important to keep your options open and not feel trapped.

If a divorce is anywhere in someones thoughts that is about to get married don't. He/she is not ready.

I have Never had a divorce plan I don't believe in a god but I do believe in a life long mate.Without her I am not whole.

[-The Star Reborn-]

Seems that the psycho guy pretending to be an evil old hag is having some more delusions. And cannot even keep his lies straight. But it all makes for some good laughs, doesn't it folks?

I guess some people like to be laughed at.

[Jammercolo]

-The Star Reborn- wrote:

Seems that the psycho guy pretending to be an evil old hag is having some more delusions. And cannot even keep his lies straight. But it all makes for some good laughs, doesn't it folks?
I guess some people like to be laughed at.

Who ya talking about?

[NorCal Native]

Jammercolo wrote:

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Good for you,Still,atheists and agnostics have the lowest divorce rate in the country.
Christians are quick to say gay marriage is evil and want laws against it. Wonder why we have yet to see a law against remarriages of adulterers in America. Hmmm?
How about a $1000 fine to file for divorce and $1,000 tax to state for 2nd marriage. 3rd time $5000 4th $10,000.All to the state.

Did ya know that religious folks have some of the highest divorce rates in the Country? Also religious folks count for higher abortion rates as well......seems maybe they should clean up their own houses before worrying about others!!!

[-The Star Reborn-]

Jammercolo wrote:

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Who ya talking about?

The troll GS. "She" is really a guy. The whole GS persona is fake.

[Cookie_Parker]

-The Star Reborn- wrote:

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The troll GS. "She" is really a guy. The whole GS persona is fake.

Many believe a sock, as well.

[Cookie_Parker]

GodSmacked wrote:

Funny, Cookie, you have a failed marriage and lost everything and I, on the other hand, had five divorces and lost nothing. In fact my fifth husband recently passed and left me his entire estate even though we had been divorced for over 40 years. Speaks volumes about my wisdom with marriage and divorce. Cookie, I doubt you will ever remarry because you have nothing to offer a man except your egotistical illogical foundation of deception.
My heart weeps for women like you Cookie because you have no character and men do not find that attractive at all. I'd say, from what I have witnessed with you, the divorce devastated you because you did not keep your options open and plan for the possibility of divorce. Your identity was that of being married and codependent and lacking a true sense of self. I'd say you still have continuous constant contact with your ex-husband because you need that identity of marriage.
Your wisdom shows your inability to be flexible and prepared for whatever may happen. My 5 divorces taught me to be flexible and always prepared because I refused to be a victim of divorce where as you are the victim of your divorce. You are always the victim Cookie and never the victorious winner. Experience and wisdom will teach you to not ever be the victim in any situation but I doubt you will ever grasp that concept because you lack the ability to see your own fault which is one ingredient to the recipe for good living.

Obviously, you lost everything. You lost your ability to discern who to love and how. You repeated a mistake 6 times.

I have more in my life than you do. I have people who trust me and an income I can live on. I have grandchildren and a large family that interacts with me. YOU believe, being a man, that when a woman divorces, SHE loses. Nothing could be further from the truth. I have lost nothing. I have gained everything. But being a man, you will never understand.

Please note, YOU are spreading around personal information and ALL should be weary of responding to ANY of your PMs for personal information. YOU are the one who gathers information on people and then spreads it around peppering it with lies and false accusations to try to discredit those you are jealous of.

So, YOU can't be trusted...and THAT is a HUGE loss for a human being.

[I am Servant]

Jammercolo wrote:

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Good for you,Still,atheists and agnostics have the lowest divorce rate in the country.
Christians are quick to say gay marriage is evil and want laws against it. Wonder why we have yet to see a law against remarriages of adulterers in America. Hmmm?
How about a $1000 fine to file for divorce and $1,000 tax to state for 2nd marriage. 3rd time $5000 4th $10,000.All to the state.

You know Jammercolo I do believe you have a good point! I think that law (if it was a law) in itself would clear up the money issues right there!

[I am Servant]

Jammercolo wrote:

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If a divorce is anywhere in someones thoughts that is about to get married don't. He/she is not ready.
I have Never had a divorce plan I don't believe in a god but I do believe in a life long mate.Without her I am not whole.

I agree if divorce is anywhere near thought then DON"T get married!
Marriage is suppose to be for life. I don't support divorce, however I do understand that sometime people do change and things happen. Once divorced just don't get re-married. That is just my opinion of how I see it.

[-The Star Reborn-]

Cookie_Parker wrote:

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Obviously, you lost everything. You lost your ability to discern who to love and how. You repeated a mistake 6 times.
I have more in my life than you do. I have people who trust me and an income I can live on. I have grandchildren and a large family that interacts with me. YOU believe, being a man, that when a woman divorces, SHE loses. Nothing could be further from the truth. I have lost nothing. I have gained everything. But being a man, you will never understand.
Please note, YOU are spreading around personal information and ALL should be weary of responding to ANY of your PMs for personal information. YOU are the one who gathers information on people and then spreads it around peppering it with lies and false accusations to try to discredit those you are jealous of.
So, YOU can't be trusted...and THAT is a HUGE loss for a human being.

I doubt that any of it will ever sink into the psycho guy's narcissistic thick skull.

[Jammercolo]

NorCal Native wrote:

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Did ya know that religious folks have some of the highest divorce rates in the Country? Also religious folks count for higher abortion rates as well......seems maybe they should clean up their own houses before worrying about others!!!

Yes,I know.

IMO it's crazy that Christians feel it is there right to force Christians and non Christians to live by the cherry picked parts of the Bible they feel (this week) best fit God's plan while opening a blind eye to other parts of God's plan