You are judging, you are merely rationalizing away your sin in doing so. As for your proof that God says homosexuality is wrong, its tenuous at best, based upon mistranslations of the original text.Acknowledging what God says is WRONG, is NOT judging but of course you don't like God telling you, but you can't tell Him off because you don't accept or believe Him so you do the next best thing. It is meaningless to me as I know I'm NOT judging you, ONLY God judges.
If I see you go through a red light, I can say you are guilty of breaking the law and that doesn't have ANY impact on you until an ACTUAL judge find you guilty. You can deny all you want what I KNOW but you won't be able to deny God. Ultimately He will confirm His Word and laws.
It is obvious you have NO idea what a hypocrite actually is, until you look in a mirror.
You ARE a hypocrite. You claim to be Christian, but you cherry pick what portions of God's instruction that you will follow. You are almost the definition of a hypocrite.
Regardless, I don't care, because I don't believe your beliefs are correct, and you cannot provide positive proof that they are, just as you cannot answer the simple "what if" question, what if you are wrong?