Marriered and Celibate!

“ ILKS r kewl ”

Since: Apr 09

Conch republic

#21 Feb 17, 2013
Punisher wrote:
...so we talk a lot...even if its silly stuff...
Thats the best kind!
Love you guys!
(par,angelina, punisher et al)
Punisher

Massapequa, NY

#22 Feb 17, 2013
Lordofnuts wrote:
<quoted text> © Copyright 2012 Laura M. Brotherson. All rights reserved.
side bar; why is it that these Marriage, relationship "experts" all seem to look exactly alike...?

They all have that same facial structure, same shark-like smile, near same hair-do, and I bet similar vocal tone and expressions...etc...?

It seems that there might be some sort of genetic link between ones appearance and these sorts of careers...IMHO.

“so tell me......”

Since: Aug 08

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#23 Feb 17, 2013
Troth for Leogere wrote:
<quoted text>Thats the best kind!
Love you guys!
(par,angelina, punisher et al)
Back atcha Troth!
:)

“so tell me......”

Since: Aug 08

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#24 Feb 17, 2013
Welcome to the Topix marriage guidance thread.

“so tell me......”

Since: Aug 08

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#25 Feb 17, 2013
Punisher wrote:
<quoted text>side bar; why is it that these Marriage, relationship "experts" all seem to look exactly alike...?
They all have that same facial structure, same shark-like smile, near same hair-do, and I bet similar vocal tone and expressions...etc...?
It seems that there might be some sort of genetic link between ones appearance and these sorts of careers...IMHO.
I think the best marriage relationship experts are those that have successful relationships themselves rather than the people who have degrees and book learning on the subject.

“ ILKS r kewl ”

Since: Apr 09

Conch republic

#26 Feb 17, 2013
angelinaUK wrote:
Welcome to the Topix marriage guidance thread.
Oh no you didnt!

“so tell me......”

Since: Aug 08

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#27 Feb 17, 2013
Troth for Leogere wrote:
<quoted text>Oh no you didnt!
Didn't what?

“ ILKS r kewl ”

Since: Apr 09

Conch republic

#28 Feb 17, 2013
angelinaUK wrote:
<quoted text>Didn't what?
starting the 'topix marriage guidance thread'.. LMAO! can you imaging what kind of whacko 'guidance' we'd get from some of these 'nuts' in here?

“so tell me......”

Since: Aug 08

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#29 Feb 17, 2013
Troth for Leogere wrote:
<quoted text>starting the 'topix marriage guidance thread'.. LMAO! can you imaging what kind of whacko 'guidance' we'd get from some of these 'nuts' in here?
LOL, I see what you mean.
One Small Bite

United States

#30 Feb 17, 2013
angelinaUK wrote:
<quoted text>Have you asked her why she is giving you the cold shoulder?
How old is she? Maybe her hormones are out of synch and she needs to see a doctor.
She's 58.
One Small Bite

United States

#31 Feb 17, 2013
angelinaUK wrote:
<quoted text>The other thing that occurs to me is to wonder if you have altered very much over the years, maybe let yourself go a bit and that she just doesn't fancy what she sees anymore.
For example have you gained a huge amount of weight or let your personal grooming slip a bit?
Some people, once they have snared their man/woman tend to get complacent and think it doesn't matter how they look anymore.
Make sure you look as good as you can,work on your physical appearance. Dress good, smell nice, not just for your wife but for yourself. Give yourself a make over and your self esteem will get boost and jut maybe the lady will start to sit up and take notice.
That is a good point. I do work out but with age and blown out knees I have gained 25 pounds I'm no longer 6' 185
I am 6' 210. However she is 5'4" 125 where she use to be 110. No one is perfect.

She does not work I still do.
One Small Bite

United States

#32 Feb 17, 2013
Punisher wrote:
<quoted text>So says the man in the dog house.

Did you plagiarize someone elses material...? Which is why your original post is all full of indecipherable script. Or did you not notice...
Now I showed you the web page that it came from. there was no copy write on the page. If you look at the original post you will note the whole thing is in quotes! That is not plagiarize that's quoting! Plagiarize is taking claim of someone else's writing. By using quote makes I am saying I am quoting someone. Sense there was no copy write on the page I did all that is required by law.

Now why? Because this summed up what was going on in my life to a tee.

I'm not in the dog house. I give my wife money and space and food a place to live, medical coverage. She gives me clean cloths and dinner and an ear full. LOL.
One Small Bite

United States

#33 Feb 17, 2013
Troth for Leogere wrote:
<quoted text>starting the 'topix marriage guidance thread'.. LMAO! can you imaging what kind of whacko 'guidance' we'd get from some of these 'nuts' in here?
Maybe something I hadn't thought about yet? LOL

Since: Jun 12

Location hidden

#34 Feb 17, 2013
One Small Bite wrote:
<quoted text>
Another comment on your response.
First this is a Christian form so I figured I could discuss an issue and maybe save a holy thing such as my marriage.
Second there is nothing private about two people living under the same roof.
She lives in the upstairs bed room I live down stairs. No need for privacy there.
There is no good mornings, no good nights, no kisses, no hugs.
Third I'm not hurting her or me here because I might get some good advice but no one needs to know who we are.
So yes what's wrong with my post?(Other then Marriereder. LOL)
What I found wrong with your post, is that it was a copy and paste rant that most likely came from some website, and not your own. The strange special characters are the give away on that. As they can only come from bad web page code that does not translate well when being converted to Topix format.

Second, you obviously are clueless about what it means to be celibate, and the reason for it. Which is at the heart of your alleged problem.

“so tell me......”

Since: Aug 08

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#35 Feb 17, 2013
One Small Bite wrote:
<quoted text>
She's 58.
Menopausal then. Difficult time for women.

Whatever the problem is you need to get the lines of communication open. Talk to her and ask her what the trouble is.
As long as you can talk to each other rationally there is hope.
One Small Bite

United States

#36 Feb 17, 2013
angelinaUK wrote:
<quoted text>Menopausal then. Difficult time for women.

Whatever the problem is you need to get the lines of communication open. Talk to her and ask her what the trouble is.
As long as you can talk to each other rationally there is hope.
I can talk she yells. We've been shall I say separate for over two years now, we've not slept together in 6 years.
And after years of me saying good morning and good night and her never saying it when she went to her room I stopped three years ago. This year I will not give an anniversary gift because the last three were given an nothing was received. In fact I was questioned if I had the date correct.

“ ILKS r kewl ”

Since: Apr 09

Conch republic

#37 Feb 17, 2013
bring a third into it.. ya never know! Spice up the bedroom!

“so tell me......”

Since: Aug 08

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#38 Feb 17, 2013
One Small Bite wrote:
<quoted text>
I can talk she yells. We've been shall I say separate for over two years now, we've not slept together in 6 years.
And after years of me saying good morning and good night and her never saying it when she went to her room I stopped three years ago. This year I will not give an anniversary gift because the last three were given an nothing was received. In fact I was questioned if I had the date correct.
Def sounds like hormones to me.
If she wont talk and wont seek help then it sounds like you're stuck.
Cisco Kid

Columbia, CA

#39 Feb 17, 2013
One Small Bite wrote:
<quoted text>
I can talk she yells. We've been shall I say separate for over two years now, we've not slept together in 6 years.
And after years of me saying good morning and good night and her never saying it when she went to her room I stopped three years ago. This year I will not give an anniversary gift because the last three were given an nothing was received. In fact I was questioned if I had the date correct.
When you find yourself stuck in a hole, quit digging.
Marriage is a commitment, even if it seems one sided at times. Get some counseling, it's way better than living seperate lives.
One Small Bite

United States

#40 Feb 17, 2013
-The Star Reborn- wrote:
<quoted text>What I found wrong with your post, is that it was a copy and paste rant that most likely came from some website, and not your own. The strange special characters are the give away on that. As they can only come from bad web page code that does not translate well when being converted to Topix format.

Second, you obviously are clueless about what it means to be celibate, and the reason for it. Which is at the heart of your alleged problem.
"What I found wrong with your post, is that it was a copy and paste rant that most likely came from some website, and not your own"

I provided a link from where I got it an I posted the whole thing in quotes. And as you should be quite aware quote marks means I'm quoting someone.

"Celibacy refers to a state of being unmarried and, therefore, sexually abstinent"

Let's see if this is a fitting word.....

1) I don't sleep with my wife
2) I don't talk with my wife
3) I go on separate vacations as my wife.
4) I don't have sex.

Seems like a fitting word. I'm sorry you don't agree. I'm also sorry you don't know what a quote mark is. When asked I provided a link showing my quote with no copy write claim.

So you are either dense or you just like attacking people who are down.

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