Okay, so you think you could have been turned gay when you were 12 or 13. So what would it have taken?$10 or 10"?<quoted text>
In our youthful years we are most vulnerable and easily distracted or persuaded in one direction or the other. You asking a heterosexual in his 40's to turn gay is preposterous. Sexual identity occurs sometime before puberty and into your early teens. FACT!
Drugs and alcohol can hinder or deviate sexual patterns or behavior.
You have ZERO proof otherwise.
Zero the hero!
It's just as preposterous to ask a gay man or lesbian in their 40's to turn straight, like many of you anti-gays insist can happen.
You're right, it's ALL preposterous.
Actually I DO have proof, because the overwhelming majority of gays & lesbians- myself included- were never sexually molested or enticed into homosexuality drugs or alcohol. We simply realized our natural sexual attraction was to someone of the same gender; just as heterosexuals realized their natural sexual attraction was to someone of the opposite sex.
Sexual orientation becomes EVIDENT around puberty. Exactly when it is determined is still unknown.
Your continued claims that children are lured into homosexuality in spite of all the evidence to the contrary is a BIG RED FLAG that you're dealing with some guilt over a same-sex experience in your youth. Were you molested by an older man? Did he ply you with alcohol or drugs to get you to have sex with him?
I'm sorry you went through such a traumatic experience. Regardless of your sexual orientation, obviously it has scarred you. I'd suggest some counseling; it's never to late to get help.