As usual, your assumptions do not wash when applied to my real life.Tony
God did not bring you together Satan brought you together to deceive both of you. Homosexuality is not normal and you been turned over by God to believe it is. You will not listen so God is going to allow you to believe your own lies. I am still praying for you every night.
I have always had a strong relationship with God. God gave me a very strong conscience. If I do something wrong, I know it, and I feel it, and I feel very badly about it.
I have always had an active prayerful relationship with God, even as a child. It has naturally grown and evolved over time as I have learned more and more. But I know how to pray. And I know when prayers are answered.
When you have lived your whole life by faith, you have a pattern of prayer and behavior that is self-evident.
It is by the same process I came to know my husband. I had the same faith in God, just as I knew He would always provide, just as I knew His will would be done and not mine, just as I came to trust Him in every facet of life, I did not settle for any old person to marry. I was getting old(ish) in my mid-30's before we met. And when we did, it was clear that everything I had gone through prior to that moment led me to that moment. Every prior relationship had a purpose to teach me something before I got to this one.
I always knew when the time was right, it would happen. That was one small area of my great faith in God.
And just as I know when I have done something wrong, and see the effects of that, I also know when I have done something well, and followed the path I was meant to follow, and - pay attention - see and feel the positive effects of that all around me. I have led a positively fabulous life since coming to terms with who I am, with God's help and only God's help. And it has only gotten better in the 7 years I've known my husband and the 5 and a half years we've been married.
You can have all the theories you want, but you cannot deny reality.
And I thank God every night for every single thing, every challenge and every reward, including my husband.
You should be so content.