How can you even convince yourself if you are unable to demonstrate the concept. Ahh I get it, faith is the answer, right, what you believe, not what is fact, fair enough it does explain a lot about people like you<quoted text>
Demonstrating one is not the imperative, sweet love. Your finding one yourself is.
You're on a cruise ship, sweetness. You WILL be falling overboard at some time in the journey. All alone as that ship keeps sailing off into the distance.
I dont do cruises so there is no way your guess at a simile is relevant.