My daughter was born a coupla months after my accident. I learned to change a diaper in less that a minute - one-handed.<quoted text>
And many of the past gender roles are changing. For example, most women now have jobs outside of the home. Most men actually interact with their children now.
Many women take out the trash. Many men change diapers. Many men cook. Most women have jobs. None of those are particularly male or female jobs: they simply need to get done any anyone can do them.
Very few activities actually require a particular set of genitals.
Oh, and I can tie little baby shoelaces, while they're on little baby feet. One-handed.