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Who said gay people want to intermingle genders? I've never heard that before.
Also, where do you get this idea that the public universally agrees on what is masculine or feminine? And what public are you talking about? The US? California? The world? Who?
You're in the US. I'm in the US. When you & I are talking and I mention our society, what makes you think in talking about any other society than American?
American society has set up many differences between men & women. We all have our different roles to play and if played correctly, we succeed.
Of course, there are exceptions to every rule. Some women DO take out the trash and some men DO enjoy the ballet....