Hello there, I dont know if you read any of our previous comments,<quoted text>
Lots of women can work in a manual job and play sports and go with her everyday life even if she has a period.Life dosent just stop because it's the time of the month.aif you are generally healthy then having her period is of no consequence to her ability to work.And as for a boyfreind saying screw you which might i add no boyfriend has ever said that to me you dont have to get married and by flexible do you mean men can have additional lovers several wives but she has to share you.
that response I gave was the last after more than a week of discussion, so we finally got there, in short words Christine thinks that Islam doesn't give any rights to women and treat them as a second class citizens, I dont agree with her, because Islam take in consideration the differences between men and women,
and there are specific Jobs that may be inappropriate for women,
and By flexible I meant there should be a marriage contract, additional terms can be added to this contract, you can add a term that require the husband not to have any additional wives,
we previously discussed Polygamy in Islam and I think that polygamy may give the chance to all girls to get married since the ratio of females are higher than males, taking in consideration widows and divorced women, marriage is not only about who is responsible of who, marriage can at least give you a partner for the rest of your life.
besides not all men can have 4 wives, there are specific terms , the man should be financially, physically and emotionally capable of taking care of more than a wife, and the most important term is to be fair and treat them equally Quran 4:3
"... But if you fear that you will not be just, then [marry only]one .."
I didnt say its a duty, its the nature of women which noone can deny, as I told you as long as the husband is completely fair no envy would occur, if the husband was not fair there should be something wrong and the wife can go to court to ask for divorce.<quoted text>
If women are so emotional then she wont want to share you envy that your giving your love to another women that an emotion jealousy is a very strong emotion and obviously you cant blame a woman because it's her duty to be emotional right.
I didn't say men dont have emotions but women tend to be more emotional than men, sometimes women make Decisions based on their emotions, the actual reason behind our conversation was why the man can Say "Talliq" to end marriage while the woman has to go to court.<quoted text>
So when you are one of your other wives why cant she take an additional lover has emotional she needs to feel loved and right now your busy giving you love to someone else but that's o.k. because she is also being satisfied at the same time.And as for women being emotional i know lots of women who aren't in the least and a lot of sensitive men you cant say women are emotional and men are not.It's not normal to not have emotion feelings are what makes a person human the only people who don't have feelings are psychopaths because there is something wrong in their brain chemistry and not all psychopaths are dangerous but they don't have a conciense
what I meant by saying a boyfriend can say screw you and leave is that he can end the relationship with no consequences, that take us to the marriage contract, a Muslim cannot say "Talliq" and leave there would be consequences that might stop him, for instance there should be a specific amount of money written down in the Islamic marriage contract, there would be numerous rights to the divorced woman which should be fulfilled.
no matter what you say it is a fact that women are more emotional than men.