We care about the babies lives, we have no desire to contron others sexual and reproduction abilities just for the sake of control.<quoted text>
Sure it's too bad for you, since you don't get to make sexual and reproductive decisions for anyone but yourself. The ONLY person who decides whether to continue a pregnancy or not is the WOMAN who is pregnant. So, if it isn't YOUR pregnancy, it isn't your decision. Simple as that.
Go ask your mother and father what they now think of you as their grown up daughter.