Perhaps. I'm not that graceful, I guess. I find it difficult to forgive and forget--especially when the poster in question only shows up now and again, to dump on me, without me having said one thing about that poster for months.<quoted text> The flip side of that is that there is no reason not to treat nano with kindness and courtesy. It seems that there are some people who just get dumped on even when their posts are reasonable. Kitten Koder gets that, too. I wish more people would respond to the actual words in each post instead of using each one as an excuse to continue older arguments with their attendant abuse and insults.
That is what nano does, from my perspective--- every so often, she shows up, puts peanuts on all my posts, then posts some ugly comment about one of them at the bottom.
And then leaves.
There really is no excuse for being such-- but it's worse: she is a liar, through and through.
I find I have no empathy or tolerance for liars. Period.
In my book, because of that, she deserves no consideration.