You are confused on how words are defined. Definitions are not selectively applied for use with certain segments of people. And words are not defined by personal whim.<quoted text>
Here we have a non atheist trying to define what an atheist is to an atheist, what a dipstick.
If the term "atheist" has a meaning, we are able to discern it from the word, not from the feelings of those who want it to apply to them.