Honestly everytime he looks at his family he will feel the guilt and pain of that one bad choice he made.<quoted text>
Honestly.....he and this very tight net family have suffered enough! This poor man has to look at his brother & know that he is partially the reason the once love of his life is gone at his fault and on top of it only one month from there wedding date and instead of walking with her down the isle in her white gown he buried her in it...although the adults made that decision themselves to get on that boat...just as a vehicle we have the choice to say NO i'm not riding with you! The children i totally understand and were following the lead of there parents. Now if this had happened to you and you had to live with this decision you made for your children/family for the rest of your life would you also want to be prosecuted & put in jail for a looooooooooong time? No i doubt it. And being a very stong family they will never forget but i'm sure will forgive because accidents do happen. What if u go out & kill someone while driving on accident? would you want to go to jail for a looooooooong time?
I hope that God can help him find the peace to deal with this.