How did you know? Good guess. My husband found a bimbo that he liked more than me. I am not bimboish. As it turns out, the bimbo has a heart of gold etc and my kids liked her more than me. Actually, I am glad she took them off my hands. Damn kids. Never liked them anyway.<quoted text>
I disagree; you clearly have lots of life experience. Seems to me, however, that your life experience is concentrated on the fact that your ex found a "bimbo" and it pisses you off that your child(ren) displya some affection towards that "bimbo."
Besides, since you admit you have little or no life experience, and the one you have is limited to listening, reading and seeing, who are you to make a statements like "Kids want to stay with their original family. They want the same mother and father[?]"
Don't be such a "guppy," Guppy. Guppies get fed to Oscars and fresh water turtles.
FYI - Social workers do everything in their power to return the kid to it's parent/s. Meaning, that is the best solution for all. KIDS WANT THEIR MOM AND DAD. Period end of story. If you say otherwise, you are either a liar or a fool or both.