<3 Could you please answer for me?

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Cincinnati, OH

#1 Feb 8, 2013
I'll try to keep this as short as possible:

Ok. So I've been in an on again off again relationship with this guy because of our situation. We are great together...All the same interests, never fight etc...But the reason it's been on and off is because of his previous relationshp. He is going through a divorce that was filed in the past (Just couldn't afford it yet) and I have had issues with trust because of my past and bc of this.

I just haven't trusted well bc when I first met him the whole family, including his ex, gave me the go ahead to be his first girlfriend in about 13 years! Otherwise I would have run knowing he wasn't completely divorced yet. But as soon as his ex saw that he was happy she guilted him into coming home and he did for his kids. Of course I broke up with him. He was trying to keep it from me as long as he could which I thought was totally wrong. But I can also kindof understand. They still couldn't make it work so he moved back out and this is when we started dating on and off bc I had major trust issues after that but he is very charming!

Well we broke up and I was strong about it this time. Now that we are broken up he has finally stood up to her which proves to me that he's not cheating on me with her. He kicked her out, took his house back and is changing his divorce papers so that they split everything 50/50.

Now that he's got his home back, his kids are ready to meet me and even ok with me moving in. The house would be perfect for me and my 2 animals. I could see this really working out.

My family knows the whole story and they are going to think I'm crazy. I've gone from distrust and I can't be with him bc I don't trust him and he has too much baggage to I want to move in.

What should I do? This is a big decision!

Chatsworth, CA

#2 Feb 9, 2013
How old are you?

How old is he?

What's your work history?

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