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lost

Louisville, KY

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#61
Aug 23, 2012
 
I wish I wanted sex with someone else. I just want my husband the thought of someone else touching me makes me sick. He has ED and just does not care if we ever have sex. Seven yr relationship and NEVER had sex w an erect penis, oral only. Sometimes I womder WTF was I thinking ?
Linda

Shrewsbury, MA

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#62
Sep 6, 2012
 
lost, I have you beat by many years, and i don't even get the oral. I do want someone else and had and maybe missed that chance. Don't wait another 10 years, trust me you will regret.
ladiesman

Shrewsbury, MA

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#63
Sep 7, 2012
 
neither of you two need to go without, that is just plain wrong. Go for it already.
eli

North Grafton, MA

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#64
Sep 8, 2012
 
Linda wrote:
lost, I have you beat by many years, and i don't even get the oral. I do want someone else and had and maybe missed that chance. Don't wait another 10 years, trust me you will regret.
The only way I get to go to our town these days is for grocery shopping. I need more than groceries!!!!
eli

North Grafton, MA

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#65
Sep 8, 2012
 
I mean- your town......
Laurie Iagallo

Northbridge, MA

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#66
Sep 12, 2012
 
Are you unemployed or on welfare or disability or something? Why don't you mind your own business?!! This entire post is run by Nazis.'cuse me--MODERN Nazis..."mentalists" --MENTAL, all right...
4ULLou wrote:
Hello Friend, I hope you find this advice of help, I sure did. A sexy mature women like yourself trapped in a sexless marriage is a shame. It does not have to be so. Things are not always black and white, this is a truly grey area. If he can not or simply does not want to provide you what you still desire what's a girl to do. Leave him? If he's a jerk then yes. If he's a decent person who's good to you, not so easy. He wants companionship, you may be all he has. Continue to be that companion, that is the decent thing to do. However, your whole life you have done for others, just because that will continue does not mean you cannot also finally do for yourself! An open marriage? No. That is not the route for you, too public, to in his face, probably hurtful to even suggest. This is not a public decision for you, the bar scene or craigslist is not an option. Your husband may actually understand and want this for you but why do that to him, he does not need to know, spare his feelings. You should consider finding yourself a "Friend With Benefits". Look it up on line for further explaination. You may already have someone in mind, trust me someone has you in mind! Think of your life, your circles, your routine. Chances are there are between 1 to 3 men who may fit the bill. A man you trust, have access to, and most importantly are attracted to. Statistics say one of the three will be interested for sure, one is most likely, and the other probably would but will find a reason to decline although he would be honored and secretive. Narrow it down and trust your instincts. Ever flirted even teased, exchanged that look? If ever even once you had that though, that one of those moments occured, that man is the one. If you were not the one who initiated, it is your turn, do not be scared, you only live once. He will reciprocate. Let me share my story as an example that you can copy or alter, I hope you do, he hopes you do as well.
I am 54 and he is 39, he is a neighbors son that I have known since he was 19. We always flirted a bit, exchanged those glances etc., very hot. He would walk over to borrow then return things, always just after my husband would leave. He still visits and helps his mom often and still pays me his visit on occasion. Finally one day while unloading groceries I caught him checking me out while bending over. He walked to me and smiled, said "caught". Then offered to help me carry them in. My luck, up the street comes my husbands car. God I wonder what would have happened once inside. Drove me crazy thinking of it. A month went by and every minute was spent wanting to recreate that moment. So ladies, I took some initiative. I called him over to help remove a limb from my roof, actually a twig I tossed there. When he came I was in my robe tightly wrapped as I "forgot" he was coming. It took him maybe 30 second to remove the "limb". When he came in I had a beer for him and the robe had loosened considerably. I said, thanks for doing that for me otherwise I may have had to of waited for a slight breeze to do it. He said he was glad I hadn't because he had waited long enough to do this, and with that he leaned in to me and kissed me as he slid his hand beneath my robe. That was the most amazing afternoon of my life. I am finally living for me! His mom would be devestated which is why we both know we can trust each other competely, the pefect scenerio. No one gets hurt. It can happen. make it happen for you. All the best!
bigfan

Shrewsbury, MA

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#67
Sep 19, 2012
 
an age difference is very hot. Great tale, love if were true.
linda

Shrewsbury, MA

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#68
Oct 2, 2012
 
how many years does one need to go without in order for this to be justified?
james

Newton Center, MA

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#69
Oct 8, 2012
 
linda, in the question above here is the answer. if your pluralizing "year" then you have gone without long enough. your husband probably wants you to do so just do not throw it in his face. enjoy, you deserve it.
wantinher

Shrewsbury, MA

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#70
Oct 11, 2012
 
go for it indeeeed.
sweeeeeeet

Shrewsbury, MA

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#71
Oct 22, 2012
 
o baby! hot hot hot.
itsallg

Shrewsbury, MA

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#72
Oct 27, 2012
 
oooooooooooood
peddlin around

North Grafton, MA

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#73
Nov 2, 2012
 
They say you never forget how to ride a bicycle....I believe the same goes for sex. GO GET IT!
THEexSIL

Shrewsbury, MA

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#74
Nov 21, 2012
 
what a hot story, love to live it out with a certain special hot mature women I know.
justadude

Shrewsbury, MA

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#75
Nov 26, 2012
 
that is a shame, nobody whould be in a sexless marriage. Honey if he's not interested and someone else is you have every right to go for it. That whole age diff thingy is very hot as well.
LLou

Shrewsbury, MA

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#76
Nov 29, 2012
 
For me? Still waiting.
sploaded

Shrewsbury, MA

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#77
Dec 5, 2012
 
everywhere! Very hot story. If going without, head out! Sexless, what's the point. Go get it elsewhere.
Lynder

Shrewsbury, MA

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#78
Dec 13, 2012
 
We all have someone we are attracted to and which we trust and have access too. ladies, it's up to us to make the move, well at least a move. The guy as we all know, will then do his part. If you want this you must take some initiative. :)
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Shrewsbury, MA

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#79
Dec 14, 2012
 
for some grrrreat advise. xo
Eli

North Grafton, MA

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#80
Dec 21, 2012
 
You still dallying around, L? Go get some! The drought continues here, hand's doing a lotta chaffing due to dry skin......

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