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What does it take for a woman feel sexy and desired in her own home?

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“Long and lean and open minded”

Since: Jan 16

Ashland va

#1 Jan 27, 2016
Close the blinds, dim the lights, don't let the neighbors know, and pray the phone doesn't ring! There are so many distractions and worries at home, no wonder a hotel room feels like a vacation.

Is there a list that makes you feel secure and relaxed enough to be intimate in your bedroom?

Since: Jan 16

Rochester, NY

#2 Jan 28, 2016
A] dress that way ...after the children are tucked in bed

“"My Book of Many Shadows"”

Since: Apr 15

Location hidden

#4 Feb 3, 2016
Beverly Jo wrote:
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This right here is really funny.
I think you're lost in Cyberspace
and have lost touch with reality.
BJ, your continued, unwanted person message harassment of me has been BLOCKED !!

People who stalk their former infatuations and intense but short-lived passions and your unsolicited admiration for me are often very emotionally dependent on them. Because you obviously have difficulty letting go,.....they (you) have often decided that if you cannot have the relationship, then no one else will.

Stalkers like you are often jealous and their anger can escalate out of all proportions...and it did and it has.

Common abusive behaviours that occur with the use of technology include monitoring
communications with others, transmitting threats, making false accusations, identity theft, damage to personal data or equipment, solicitation of minors for sexual purposes and other forms of aggression.....YOU ARE GUILTY OF MOST OF THESE !!

Kindly do not reply to this final message, as a further response will not be forthcomming from me at anytime......

LEAVE ME ALONE !

Cordially
~DeVine.

F_R_E_D

Since: Sep 10

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#8 Feb 3, 2016
Beverly Jo wrote:
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I guess I never should have loved you.
Not talking to yourself would have been more prudent. Now, everyone thinks you're NUTS, dude...

F_R_E_D

Since: Sep 10

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#9 Feb 3, 2016
Sweetie-Pie wrote:
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Sheer desperation makes you look stupid.
Makes you and your SOCK "DeVine" look NUTSO!!!! Just saying, dude...

“Long and lean and open minded”

Since: Jan 16

Ashland va

#10 Feb 3, 2016
Beverly Jo wrote:
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I guess I never should have loved you.
BJ, that's a good name to have in my house...

“Understand people,”

Since: Mar 08

do you.

#11 Feb 5, 2016
Firstly, as a man trying to make his lady of his life feel sexy, you must be imaginative and display the innocent side about you.

But before doing this, you must be relaxed and feel like you and your baby are all alone in this world together. You might want to make a few jokes and see how she responds to them.
If she doesnt like your jokes, be a humble man and admit your jokes suck. It shows that you understand where she is coming from, which is an ice breaker.

The idea is to make her feel relaxed to express herself. Afterwards (back to the 'firstly' step), you can make compliments about her mind or her physicality. I love my women so much that I kiss on her neck and whisper in her ear cute stuff. May not seem manly, but it is the job of \you as a man to first display the innocents to see if she is in a playful state.

If she is playful, then say cute things, NOT ALL AT ONCE, but about two or three cute things.
She may have other things on her mind which you have to help her resolve to make her fell comfy.

Secondly, you have to hug her tightly to see if she is ready for step 2, which is to comment on her thoughts. Slip a few kisses to ease her mind. All this does not have to lead to sex, for you as the man has to control those urges (but keep a count on those urges to see if she is reacts to them. If less counts, then she is interested in you).

Whole deal is to make her feel comfy and feel at peace with security, for you as the man who compliments her peaceful state should do this to make her feel at home because to feel at home is to feel free from the irritants that exist in the world that do not understand how she feels.

You, as a man, are suggested to bring her to the point where you understand her... with DIPLOMACY because you both compliment one another (at least that is how the universe had created you two to be: ying and yang as one).
Remember, her sexiness and desire to feel at home is her man being able to understand her.
If she feels real sexy, then make love to her to heighten her positive energy as making love to her is more than just to bust a nut.

Feel her insides and make her relaxed. Massage and suck on her breasts, kiss on her forehead, neck, whatever, to show that you appreciate her physical being.
But if she just wants to cum, you do that, but afterwards, evaluate yourself as a man, how you want the result of love making to be. If there are large differences, talk with her about it. Because if love making is not fulfilling, then, unfortunately, your complimenting energies may be just for you two to be just close friends.

But on the flip side, if she does not appreciate your motives, then find a woman that does.

If sexiness is not in the environment, go see a movie or just kick it as the friends that you two are.
Be yourselves, but make sure you two are for yourselves...always.

“"My Book of Many Shadows"”

Since: Apr 15

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#12 Feb 5, 2016
Sweetie-Pie wrote:
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Sheer desperation makes you look stupid.
My sheer desperation ?
So what's your veritable excuse that makes you look and sound so vacuous ?

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*

The desire of something you used to have will fade,
But the desire of something you've never had never goes away.

Not wanting.
Craving.
No consequences.
Freedom.
Neglecting vows.
Deceiving.
Throbbing.
On fire.
Lusting.
Seeking release.
Bliss.
Craving.
Freedom.
Deceiving.
Lusting.
Attaining bliss.
It is Desire.

“"My Book of Many Shadows"”

Since: Apr 15

Location hidden

#13 Feb 5, 2016
Beverly Jo wrote:
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I guess I never should have loved you.
Correct elucidation ( gotta be a first time for everything)!

“Understand people,”

Since: Mar 08

do you.

#18 Feb 10, 2016
Beverly Jo wrote:
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You're a god damn control freak.
Why so? It is only proposed ideas.
If none of this seems right for you then why should I give a damn about your opinion?
Just scroll by.

“Understand people,”

Since: Mar 08

do you.

#19 Feb 10, 2016
Luckys Mom Beth wrote:
<quoted text> BJ , you make him look like a beautiful person. Just saying BJ Dude
All ideas announced were proposals and strictly based on a pragmatic ending.

Is it that a man cannot practice pragmatism in relationships?
If he doesnt, then, he or his woman of choice would not know where he stands.

Better to think of creative ideas for his woman to agree to than having him be the victim of her ideas which means the man becomes a mousey subordinate of an 'alpha woman' who only wants men to cater to her ideas and emotions. Guess BJ is a fag or a non-alpha male. No problems here.

“Understand people,”

Since: Mar 08

do you.

#23 Feb 10, 2016
Beverly Jo wrote:
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"No problems here."
None here either.
Cool beans.
Live long and prosper.

“Understand people,”

Since: Mar 08

do you.

#27 Feb 12, 2016
Life after Loving wrote:
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"your continued, unwanted person message harassment of me has been BLOCKED !!"
And your words have been copied & pasted
Into my email...to be kept as a reminder that...
A man who disrespects a woman,
doesn't deserve one.
True.
Though, most fellows put most women on a higher pedastool than they deserve to be placed upon.
Sure, there is a few cool ladies who should be upon that high level, but there are others who demand to be placed upon it just because they are women.

I had observed a woman at a bar who had, I guess, was her date. She seemed not interested in him too much. Understood. But soon as he left, I had to get nosy and started a convo with her, not to hit on her, for she didnt look all that cute herself, but because I wanted to see how she truly felt about her assumed date.

Long story short, she viewed him as dispensible. Understood. But...she wasnt all that hot herself.
So what is the borderline between confidence and delirium concerning her case?
She definitely would not be a woman that a guy would want to make feel comfortable at home.

Though, she may demand to be comfy or want her man to profess what he will do to make her feel comfy...just like this thread inadvertantly wants confessions like she does...ahem.

:)

Yea. She made it...or her homo male friend made it.

Anywhooo, to digress...

The only thing to make a woman comfy in her own home is for her to find a peace of mind within herself while at home, which does not have to be sexually related or even have a man involved at all (yep, we men cant do everything for her and hope she knows that, too).

But if he is involved, he can help her create that environment at home such as if she likes hot tubs to relax her muscles, he can help her obtain one. Or if not affordable, he can get her a membership at a spa.
Whatever makes it cool for her mind.

In simpler terms, give her some comfy fluffy house shoes and maybe her a 'woman cave' like we have our 'man cave'.
Then when need being, we will knock on one another's cave to communicate and see what's 'going on'.

“Understand people,”

Since: Mar 08

do you.

#28 Feb 12, 2016
KNIGHT DeVINE wrote:
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I can sit here daily and read self-righteous, borderline preposterous posts by females I have known for years to just bounce from dick to dick without consequence or regard for the guys they called boyfriends, or in some cases husbands.
Chicks I witnessed take on three dudes in a hot tub now throwing up pictures of their baby and poor husband who has no idea what a selfish slooter his wife once was, and probably still is.
Hell, the majority of women can’t even hold onto any real female friends out of jealousy and envy of one another. There is no loyalty—all that matters is what they want. They are getting away with murder, acting like mother of the year because they are now too old, undesirable and tied down to be worth anything on the market.
“The best thing that ever happened to me,” it boasts under the family picture at Epcot Center.
Wrong, she realized one day she was not the star of the show anymore. She desperately needed to dupe some unsuspecting man into locking her down and dealing with her bullshit for the rest of his life before it was too late for her. Almost anyone with an income of $50,000 or more per year will suffice, literally anyone.
If she still had the ass she had when she was 22, she would still be skating around town, taking advantage of thirsty dudes willing to gamble on the warts she might pass their way, but now she can’t.
Well, that is the case of the ratchet women and not all women are ratchet, money hungry, thirsty hoes.
Many are cool and straight up women.

I am not sure if u had typed that stuff as a rebuttal to the assumed 'angle' of this thread, which I am somewhat skeptical of also, but ying and yang both exist, not just only one exists.

Skanks and true women walk amongst the earth, so generalizing is only half truth.

Since: Jan 16

Location hidden

#29 Feb 12, 2016
Iancook07 wrote:
Close the blinds, dim the lights, don't let the neighbors know, and pray the phone doesn't ring! There are so many distractions and worries at home, no wonder a hotel room feels like a vacation.
Is there a list that makes you feel secure and relaxed enough to be intimate in your bedroom?
If you have the right man a list wouldn't be necessary, and if you need a list to get relaxed, well it would seem that something isn't right to begin with, no list will accomplish what a man should do for his woman to make her feel secure and relaxed enough to be intimate.

“I voted”

Since: Jan 17

Whatever will be, will be

#33 Jan 15, 2017
KNIGHT DeVINE wrote:
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BJ, your continued, unwanted person message harassment of me has been BLOCKED !!

People who stalk their former infatuations and intense but short-lived passions and your unsolicited admiration for me are often very emotionally dependent on them. Because you obviously have difficulty letting go,.....they (you) have often decided that if you cannot have the relationship, then no one else will.

Stalkers like you are often jealous and their anger can escalate out of all proportions...and it did and it has.

Common abusive behaviours that occur with the use of technology include monitoring
communications with others, transmitting threats, making false accusations, identity theft, damage to personal data or equipment, solicitation of minors for sexual purposes and other forms of aggression.....YOU ARE GUILTY OF MOST OF THESE !!

Kindly do not reply to this final message, as a further response will not be forthcomming from me at anytime......

LEAVE ME ALONE !

Cordially
~DeVine.
Years of love

have been forgot,

In the hatred of a minute.

“"My Book of Many Shadows"”

Since: Apr 15

Location hidden

#34 Jan 15, 2017
Kay Sera Sera wrote:
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Years of love

have been forgot,

In the hatred of a minute.
That's not even original.......... It's a Quote by Edgar Allan Poe }

Originality is independence, not rebellion; it is sincerity, not antagonism.

“"My Book of Many Shadows"”

Since: Apr 15

Location hidden

#36 Jan 16, 2017
MarkStvns wrote:
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That's not even original.......... It's a Quote by George Henry Lewes }
Creative people are often found either disagreeable or intimidating by mediocrities.......Only those with no memory insist on their originality !

Since: Jan 16

Yay the True True

#41 Apr 12, 2017
If a man makes his woman feel loved, safe, cherished, and valued...she will build him an empire.

twowheelsforever

Since: Feb 17

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#43 May 11, 2017
Just Bev wrote:
If a man makes his woman feel loved, safe, cherished, and valued...she will build him an empire.
I agree.

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