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Zachary31

United States

#22 May 8, 2012
a friend of many years sponsored myself and family into a private naturist resort he belongs to, it was really weird to go into a common dressing room all open with no cubicles or anything but we (the wife, her son and my daughter) new what to expect beforehand so we just did it, and then walked with our friend out into the yard. It felt uncomfortable for about 5 min., and then just like everyone says suddenly it was as normal and natural feeling as could be! Well anyway now we are converts, thoroughly addicted all of us. There is no feeling as natural and free and just plain right as naturism, what some people call nudism or being a nudist. we are researching local public areas where even if it's not official, where people go for that freedom. And they're also right, it certainly has brought us closer together as a family!
salute

Santa Fe, NM

#23 May 8, 2012
karmalyzed wrote:
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I know a couple who go to places like this regularly. They invited me once and although I did some modeling in my younger days my time in the military provided me with some pretty ugly scares on my body due to surgery that saved my life after being injured severely while serving. I know what it is like to be judged from modeling and I just didn't feel like being judged again because of my scars, nor did I feel like explaining them over and over again.
The couple assured me that it just isn't like that, in fact they told me that anyone who acts like a jerk is quickly quieted by all the others and if they continue they are promptly removed from the facility rather it be an open or closed location. They went on to tell me that they have been attending such sites for the past 13 years ( this was about a year and a half ago) and not once have they seen anything that would make them not wish to go again. They said it is much more relaxing and social than any other vacation they have ever taken.
I never went and don't suppose I ever will but I do believe my friends. I know them well and I know they don't tolerate nonsense of any sort. I know they would not continue going if there were rude or obnoxious people to deal with.
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Salute to a fellow Purple Durple Vet.
Melinda_W

United States

#24 May 9, 2012
UPDATE we went back to the same clothing optional area yesterday afternoon because it was so warm, and the same family we had met the last time was there again! They also had a couple of more friends with them and their daughter, and they invited us to join them. It was so great hanging with these new friends again! It's only the third time we've been there, and already it feels like the most natural normal thing in the world to spread out your blanket, remove all your clothes and be wonderfully free and nude among other like minded people. Everybody who thinks this is wrong is just ignorant and needs to give it a try! while I stayed up with the group and visited with the other guys and their wives, my hubby got into a game of Frisbee catch with the kids, it didn't take them long to wear him out. he came back and crashed on the blanket in the shade, and me and a couple of the other guys decided to take a walk down the sand. It was such a wonderful fantastic day! I can't wait for the rest of the summer. We're going to be there a lot I can tell, and some other new areas where some of the people said they knew we could go and have naturist hikes through the forest. That's going to be so great!
Pragmatist

Huntington, NY

#25 May 9, 2012
Question:
While at the clothing optional area, when you have to pee, do you just do it nonchalently (possibly in the middle of a conversation with someone) as if nothing is happening?

“All power to the people.”

Since: Mar 07

San Diego, CA

#26 May 9, 2012
Pragmatist wrote:
Question:
While at the clothing optional area, when you have to pee, do you just do it nonchalently (possibly in the middle of a conversation with someone) as if nothing is happening?
No, you go to the restroom.
Pragmatist

Huntington, NY

#27 May 9, 2012
CitizenX wrote:
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No, you go to the restroom.
Are their doors? Or is it all out in the open?

Since: Jun 09

Location hidden

#28 May 9, 2012
Pragmatist wrote:
Question:
While at the clothing optional area, when you have to pee, do you just do it nonchalently (possibly in the middle of a conversation with someone) as if nothing is happening?
The pee is silent as in swimming.

“All power to the people.”

Since: Mar 07

San Diego, CA

#29 May 9, 2012
Pragmatist wrote:
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Are their doors? Or is it all out in the open?
I've never been to a formal clothing optional place but I would think a club or public beach would have restrooms. Where I was up in NoCal it was a behind the bushes situation.

“Standin' In A”

Level 8

Since: May 11

Shaft Of Light

#30 May 9, 2012
Pragmatist wrote:
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Are their doors? Or is it all out in the open?
Yeah, they just take a big dump anywhere.
It sounds like you ought to hang out in the 'random erections' thread.
Melinda_W

United States

#31 May 14, 2012
UPDATE 2 OMG what a wonderful weekend we had back at that beach again Saturday and Sunday (May 13 and 14)! we've already made several new friends on the sand, and while we don't spend all the time in the sun that's just not healthy my husband and I are both developing really nice allover tans. He finds the no-tan-lines on me very sexy! We were talking about it Sunday night after coming home and showering together, how for the first time in our lives we have like six new friends we've never seen with close on! Of course that's a two-way street, they've never seen us dressed either. I just regret all the years I spent not giving that a try, and now I marvel at people who say it's wrong or whatever it's just the most natural healthy way I watch people bring up their kids and they're all so friendly and genuine. Thank you to my friend who shall remain nameless here, who introduced us to the clothing optional life!

Since: Jul 09

Location hidden

#32 May 14, 2012
Chatty Kathy wrote:
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Hi Darren31, unfortunately we don't live in a world that there are no predators so how can you be sure there wouldn't be one there. I have no problems with adults doing this I just feel it isn't safe for children. just my opinion.
Chatty Cathy, apparently, you have never been to an optional clothing, family oriented gatering. If so, you would not be running your mouth and letting everyone know that you don't know what you are talking about. First, predators or perverts don't last at one of these places. We are very protective of the children at one of these places. It is one of the safest places to take your children. No-one stands for any unethical conduct at one of these places. Before you keep running your mouth and showing just how uneducated you are on the subject, why don't you go on line and google some of the nudist websites, and read up on what goes on at these resorts. There is a list of rules you are expected to abide by at these places or resorts. These rules can be found on the listing for each resort or area. It also, has listed if the place is family oriented, recommended adults only, or a swingers resort or gathering place.
After you read up on the nudist practice and what's expected of you, try going to visit one and get the surprise of your life. You will find out that nothing goes on here that doesn't go on at a regular swimming pool or resort. After you have done the above, then you will be qualified to get on this thread and give you opinin. Before I took the time and went to the troube to do what I have recommended, I was just like you. I thought it was nothing more than a sleez hagout. I found out that it is one of the most decent places to have clean fun that exist. Besides, being nude does not equal sex. The Victorian way of thinking is that nudty is dirty and wrong. The ludeness of nudity exist in the minds of uneducated people that knows nothing about nudism. I have also, checked and found that it does not conflict with a person being a christian. So, check it out and come back and let everyone know what you think then. It will take you a little time to get used to being nude and used to seeing yourself nude. After you read up on nudity and nudist, start going around your house nude. Do your house work nude, sit and watch tv nude, and when you get used to it, take your other half in to sharing this faze of life with you. Also, try sleeping nude. You will be surprised at how comfortable you will be and how much more restful your sleep will will be. This will cut down on an amazing amount of laundry that you will have to do. Just in case someone knocks on your door, keep a house coat or a set of sweats to jump in so you can answer the door.

Since: Jul 09

Location hidden

#33 May 14, 2012
Harley Homey wrote:
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Well maybe it's good for you..... I don't want to walk around naked and have people pointing at me and laughing.
HH, that doesn't happen! First of all, we realize that we are all human and that none of us is perfect. We try to treat others as we want them to treat us. You will not find a nicer group of peopl to be around.
Fully clothed and happy

Downers Grove, IL

#34 May 14, 2012
The Ghost Rider of NM wrote:
<quoted text>HH, that doesn't happen! First of all, we realize that we are all human and that none of us is perfect. We try to treat others as we want them to treat us. You will not find a nicer group of peopl to be around.
Yeah, right. You proved that by being a jerk to Chatty Kathy. PUT YOUR G-DAMNED PANTS ON, FREAK.

Since: Jul 09

Location hidden

#35 May 15, 2012
Fully clothed and happy wrote:
<quoted text>Yeah, right. You proved that by being a jerk to Chatty Kathy. PUT YOUR G-DAMNED PANTS ON, FREAK.
Dude, I only pointed out that before she voiced her opinion, she should know what she is talking about. Frankly, I am confortable with or without my pants. Incidentally, pot calls kettle a jerk. lol
Dad

Chicago, IL

#36 Aug 15, 2012
Chatty Kathy wrote:
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No way should children be there. Otherwise with adults fine if that is what they enjoy. But it was wrong in my opinion to be exposing children in that environment.
You obviously have never been to the beaches in the Netherlands, Germany or Austria. Shame on you for having a dirty mind. Children think nothing about being nude at the beach with their parents.

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