Defiant tanning mom plans to move to London because 'life is hell'

[arctic]

Gunner wrote:

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Could very well be. The point I was making was taking an underage child to get a tat, and at the same time putting people down for letting them do things underage. Either you agree with protecting your child or you don't. Seems like if it's some one else, she's agreeable to enforcing the law. If it's her child, not so much.

A tat on a minor child IS a crime.
You can't say: The child wanted it..b/c
a minor child can't make a lifetime decision.
And tats are for life.
Very different than piercing a minors ears.
For one thing ear piercing is not dangerous
and for another you can take the earrings out
and the piercings grow up.
With tat ink the child could very well have
an allergic reaction to it.

[harleyhoney]

arctic wrote:

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A tat on a minor child IS a crime.
You can't say: The child wanted it..b/c
a minor child can't make a lifetime decision.
And tats are for life.
Very different than piercing a minors ears.
For one thing ear piercing is not dangerous
and for another you can take the earrings out
and the piercings grow up.
With tat ink the child could very well have
an allergic reaction to it.

They say after a year or two peircings will grow over, but I went three years without wearing any earings, and bought some recently in South Dakota, and put them in ear, mind you had to push a bit on one ear...lol!

[Denny CranesPlace]

harleyhoney wrote:

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They say after a year or two peircings will grow over, but I went three years without wearing any earings, and bought some recently in South Dakota, and put them in ear, mind you had to push a bit on one ear...lol!

OUCH !

[harleyhoney]

TenderTink wrote:

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You made a funny pun ^.
LOL.

I should have said...No Pun intended..lol!
But she does,,absolutely fried. Wonder if she mixes booze with meds as well?
Oh and thanks.

[arctic]

harleyhoney wrote:

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They say after a year or two peircings will grow over, but I went three years without wearing any earings, and bought some recently in South Dakota, and put them in ear, mind you had to push a bit on one ear...lol!

My daughter will be 15 in July and she's
been harassing me recently for a tat.
That's just not going to happen.....lol

I let her dye her hair. And she always
chooses colors not seen in nature.
It's been purple, pink, right now blue/black,
and if I let her...neon green.

But it fades out b/f she gets a chance to
get bored w/it.
Now she's wanting a piercing on her lip.
Her father and I are still trying to figure
out if we are going to allow this.....?

[phaines]

arctic wrote:

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My daughter will be 15 in July and she's
been harassing me recently for a tat.
That's just not going to happen.....lol
I let her dye her hair. And she always
chooses colors not seen in nature.
It's been purple, pink, right now blue/black,
and if I let her...neon green.
But it fades out b/f she gets a chance to
get bored w/it.
Now she's wanting a piercing on her lip.
Her father and I are still trying to figure
out if we are going to allow this.....?

I thought you "were" a man..you always talked like one...lol

[reebie]

arctic wrote:

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My daughter will be 15 in July and she's
been harassing me recently for a tat.
That's just not going to happen.....lol
I let her dye her hair. And she always
chooses colors not seen in nature.
It's been purple, pink, right now blue/black,
and if I let her...neon green.
But it fades out b/f she gets a chance to
get bored w/it.
Now she's wanting a piercing on her lip.
Her father and I are still trying to figure
out if we are going to allow this.....?

lol,, been there done that...choosing the wars is sticky.. both my girls are in their 20s now...both have tatoos..
but,,before they were 18, I let them color their hair however they wanted.. the piercings , I thot , were stupid, but I let them.. nose, belly, eye,,and one got a lip... they both found on their first jobs, their piercings had to be covered or taken out. so that fixed itself... they bugged me to death about the tatoos. I held my ground... I wasnt making a permanant decision for them.. period... if they got it when they were 17 and 11 months, if I consented, and they ended up hating it,, it would be my fault.. nuff said... wait til your 18...

[arctic]

phaines wrote:

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I thought you "were" a man..you always talked like one...lol

LOl

No sweetie....just a tomboy:)

[arctic]

reebie wrote:

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lol,, been there done that...choosing the wars is sticky.. both my girls are in their 20s now...both have tatoos..
but,,before they were 18, I let them color their hair however they wanted.. the piercings , I thot , were stupid, but I let them.. nose, belly, eye,,and one got a lip... they both found on their first jobs, their piercings had to be covered or taken out. so that fixed itself... they bugged me to death about the tatoos. I held my ground... I wasnt making a permanant decision for them.. period... if they got it when they were 17 and 11 months, if I consented, and they ended up hating it,, it would be my fault.. nuff said... wait til your 18...

You said it.
When you have teens you have to pick and
choose your battles.
Otherwise you'll be fighting All of the time.

[I Am Enzo - The Baker]

harleyhoney wrote:

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They say after a year or two peircings will grow over, but I went three years without wearing any earings, and bought some recently in South Dakota, and put them in ear, mind you had to push a bit on one ear...lol!

Try bathing and cleaning your ears once in awhile...
Disgusting thought, your navel is probably housing more crust than an old catchers mitt...

[Thats Because]

harleyhoney wrote:

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Us Canadians are inventive...lol!

You all share the same brain cell.

[Lynyrd Skynyrd]

harleyhoney wrote:

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My daughter did the same starting at age 14 dyeing the hair, she has no piercings, up until recently. She got her first tat at age 14, but hey, she was working on her own, and it is her life, as I told her. When my son got his at 16, she was 26, and me 50, it was mothers day, and his birthday, so it was a family thing..lol! We all love our tats, and got them with great thought put into them.
My brother took my daughter to get ear pierced when she was four,(I did not approve it), and she was so pissed that only one ear got done, and when she got a moment that one came out, and she has just recently got it re-done.
Tough call when they are teens, girls more so...the biggest tantrum,,,is "you don't let me do anything", then dramatics...lol!
Good luck, and if you are cool with it, stick to your guns, it may be in the long run, something your daughter may thank you for.
Usually is.
With my kids,,,not so,,, as I said, no regrets, we love our tats, I only have one so far, but girl, has four, and son three.
I am going to go get bf initials tatooed on me.

Do us all a favor...CLOSE YOUR LEGS!

Ooooo, that smell!!!!

[I Am Enzo - The Baker]

harleyhoney wrote:

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try bathing and cleaning yourself, your filthy!
Are you an adult? If so, you should be ashamed to carry on the way you do. Or should I say are you a simpleton? It would explain why you do carry on as you do.
Watch out,, m69 gets pissy if you go off topic, and don't google topic.

Thank You oh queen of the tarpits for those most kind words. Don't worry about M69, I'll tell him you were suck starting my bagger...he'll understand...

[arctic]

harleyhoney wrote:

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My daughter did the same starting at age 14 dyeing the hair, she has no piercings, up until recently. She got her first tat at age 14, but hey, she was working on her own, and it is her life, as I told her. When my son got his at 16, she was 26, and me 50, it was mothers day, and his birthday, so it was a family thing..lol! We all love our tats, and got them with great thought put into them.
My brother took my daughter to get ear pierced when she was four,(I did not approve it), and she was so pissed that only one ear got done, and when she got a moment that one came out, and she has just recently got it re-done.
Tough call when they are teens, girls more so...the biggest tantrum,,,is "you don't let me do anything", then dramatics...lol!
Good luck, and if you are cool with it, stick to your guns, it may be in the long run, something your daughter may thank you for.
Usually is.
With my kids,,,not so,,, as I said, no regrets, we love our tats, I only have one so far, but girl, has four, and son three.
I am going to go get bf initials tatooed on me.

I have a quarter sized yellow rose on my left
ankle. I got it after my best friend died so
it means something to me and I still like it.
I got it when I was 21.
I'm not a really strict mother and I'm not against
tats and piercings. Some I think are cute.

I got her ears pierced b/f she was a yr old.
But if she really wants a tat she can get it
after she turns 18. Then if she regrets it ..
it's all on her. lol

I'm not sure if I'd get any mans initials/name
tattooed on me. I wouldn't even get my husbands
and we've been married for 23 yrs. haha

[arctic]

harleyhoney wrote:

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PS...I like the meaning of your tat! Well said!

We were childhood bfs and had planned to
get matching roses that summer but she got
sick and w/i a few months was gone. At
21 w/2 young kids.

When I decided to get it I had thought about
an ankle bracelet made of yellow roses but it
hurt so damn bad I stopped at one....lol
I don't know how I had my first 2 kids natural.
I'm such a wimp. haha
I got smart on the 3rd one and yelled for drugs:)

[arctic]

harleyhoney wrote:

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Sorry to hear about the loss of your friend.
I know the feeling.

Thanks
She was one of a kind.

[phaines]

Thats Because wrote:

<quoted text>You all share the same brain cell.

lol...

[reebie]

harleyhoney wrote:

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My daughter did the same starting at age 14 dyeing the hair, she has no piercings, up until recently. She got her first tat at age 14, but hey, she was working on her own, and it is her life, as I told her. When my son got his at 16, she was 26, and me 50, it was mothers day, and his birthday, so it was a family thing..lol! We all love our tats, and got them with great thought put into them.
My brother took my daughter to get ear pierced when she was four,(I did not approve it), and she was so pissed that only one ear got done, and when she got a moment that one came out, and she has just recently got it re-done.
Tough call when they are teens, girls more so...the biggest tantrum,,,is "you don't let me do anything", then dramatics...lol!
Good luck, and if you are cool with it, stick to your guns, it may be in the long run, something your daughter may thank you for.
Usually is.
With my kids,,,not so,,, as I said, no regrets, we love our tats, I only have one so far, but girl, has four, and son three.
I am going to go get bf initials tatooed on me.

wow !! lol !! I CANNOT believe you are going to get your bf's initials ! your a brave girl HH!..lol,,,dont care how much i love a man,, would never do that,, love is toooooo wishy washy to trust permanantly engraving them on my ass!! lol
I have 2, an ankle braclet with charms of my girls and grandbaby..on my right ankle... left foot has " It is well with my soul" with a star of david, and some flowers for fillers... love em both... but doubt there will be more..
Morning,,HH
:)

[tallyho]

reebie wrote:

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wow !! lol !! I CANNOT believe you are going to get your bf's initials ! your a brave girl HH!..lol,,,dont care how much i love a man,, would never do that,, love is toooooo wishy washy to trust permanantly engraving them on my ass!! lol
I have 2, an ankle braclet with charms of my girls and grandbaby..on my right ankle... left foot has " It is well with my soul" with a star of david, and some flowers for fillers... love em both... but doubt there will be more..
Morning,,HH
:)

believe this:........

on the quarter post of my 84 trans/am took the decal off and replaced with hand [professional] paint silver heart outlines entwined with Paula/in one James/in the other ...

and our first name and on the door about and inch in size doors , post were about 4 inches she got mad there went via sanding the script and hearts [ she got mad]$8000 paint job , well she was gone as soon as i could pack her and the T/A at a reduced sale price...

[reebie]

tallyho wrote:

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believe this:........
on the quarter post of my 84 trans/am took the decal off and replaced with hand [professional] paint silver heart outlines entwined with Paula/in one James/in the other ...
and our first name and on the door about and inch in size doors , post were about 4 inches she got mad there went via sanding the script and hearts [ she got mad]$8000 paint job , well she was gone as soon as i could pack her and the T/A at a reduced sale price...

lol,,great one Tally!! 84 Trans Am... awwww......shame it had to go!!