“frequently laughing”

Level 8

Since: Apr 09

Hotel California

#145 Mar 18, 2013
reebie wrote:
<quoted text>good point.. if I took myself seriously, Id be curled up in a little ball of slobber...talking to the shadows in the corners of my ceiling....
this way seems to work best..
:)
I make so many mistakes I have to laugh. I don't think the point is the mistake, it's the getting back up part that counts, moving on or tryin something different. Can't change the past.

“ROCK ON ROCKERS!!”

Level 8

Since: Mar 11

Rockin' USA ;)

#146 Mar 18, 2013
DRESS like ONE!

“Fishin" in the Moonlight”

Level 9

Since: Jul 11

.......¿.......

#147 Mar 18, 2013
Saltpeter,,,and a can of Mace just in case.

Level 9

Since: Nov 10

Powellton WV

#148 Mar 18, 2013
Let them know you like them.

That usually works. lol
phaines

Big Bear Lake, CA

#149 Mar 18, 2013
reebie wrote:
<quoted text>wow, well all fairness to me...I dont know why Im trying to keep up with you..I told you from the beginning, I think Im missing something...one post you are talking cat calls, the next your are talking rape, or harrassment... I give.... your kindof all over the place on this one....and I tend to be a slow reader..Im screwed..
:)
milwaukee69 wrote:
<quoted text>
She's like chasing a herd of cats.
ADD...lol

“Enjoy 3-somes”

Level 1

Since: Mar 13

Columbus, Ohio

#150 Mar 18, 2013
When I hear, "OMG!! MY HUSBANDS HOME!!!" That'll put a limp in the old noddle!

Level 9

Since: Jul 11

Location hidden

#151 Mar 18, 2013
Hit them where it hurts..downstairs.
alice

Los Angeles, CA

#152 Mar 18, 2013
leave the tampon in with the string visible when going to bed.

Level 9

Since: Feb 12

Bronx, NY

#153 Mar 18, 2013
arctic wrote:
Let them know you like them.
That usually works. lol
If a man likes a girl, he should tell all her female friends, especially female friends he suspects has a crush on him.(probably all of them...he's a man remember ?) They really want to know.

“Proud White Woman for life!”

Level 8

Since: Apr 09

Spotted World

#154 Mar 18, 2013
Always Wary wrote:
<quoted text>
Interesting, I see something totally different. I see people that take themselves overly seriously as having no self esteem, they lack the ability to laugh at the mistakes they make, in fact they frequently can't acknowledge mistakes they make, they react with anger instead.(Family member, personal experiences)
As humans that is how we learn, by making mistakes.
People love themselves enough to take themselves seriously in regards to how others treat them. Sure, they would be able to laugh at themselves, but you entered the conversation late and missed the specific context.

Whether others acknowledge their mistakes is not our concern. To me, only a sick person can see mistakes in others. A person's flaws are their private concern only, and nobody has a right to notice them, latch onto them, exploit them, etc.

Yes, we learn from making mistakes, but only when we discover them for ourselves in private. I only benefit from the things I teach myself. If I didn't discover it, and without help, it is no value to me. More people could acknowledge their mistakes if others never acted like they noticed, but would stay out of others ways and allow them to care for themselves their own way, and without interference. Yes, we learn by mistakes, and to do so, others MUST allow us to make as many as possible without trying to fix, correct, bossy, bully, or change us. That is why maybe nagging and codependency should be felonies.

“Proud White Woman for life!”

Level 8

Since: Apr 09

Spotted World

#155 Mar 18, 2013
Colorado Chick wrote:
DRESS like ONE!
But that won't turn off the gay guys...:)

“The..”

Level 6

Since: Dec 12

"..who whating how with huh?"

#156 Mar 18, 2013
If dealing with a hetero male, say you used to be a man.

“Proud White Woman for life!”

Level 8

Since: Apr 09

Spotted World

#157 Mar 18, 2013
reebie wrote:
<quoted text>wow, well all fairness to me...I dont know why Im trying to keep up with you..I told you from the beginning, I think Im missing something...one post you are talking cat calls, the next your are talking rape, or harrassment... I give.... your kindof all over the place on this one....and I tend to be a slow reader..Im screwed..
:)
I never mentioned cat calls, which you seem to be obsessed with discussing here, but ALL unsolicited contact. You might have assumed merely catcalls as you keep trying to trivialize what I am saying into less than what I mean, but I meant ALL intrusions. If you are a piece of trash known as a man, then you are obligated tne never say or do anything to a woman that you would not do to another man. Fair is fair, and no double standards should be allowed. Men and women are EQUAL, and should be treated as such in nearly every context.

When you are a man and a woman is obviously in her own world looking ahead or down, then making ANY advance at all or intruding in her world is a VIOLATION, just like rape. It doesn't matter if you call out and demand that she drops what she is doing, make a cat call because you arrogantly assume she is there for your sexual pleasure and exploitation, or whether he chases you around the block with his car, whether he touches you without your permission, if he drugs your drink, or if cloroforms you and has his way with you. A violation is a violation. The amount of physical harm is not the issue, but the emotional violation.

I am not all over the place as you keep lying and accusing. It is ALL the same thing. EVERY THING a man does to a stranger who is looking ahead or down is a violation no matter what. When a person is a stranger, it means never to notice them nor speak to them, but to treat them as a self-contained adult who needs nothing and can manage their own affairs.

It is YOU who keeps trying to turn everything I say into mere catcalls, as disgusting as that is. If a man can go outside without another man looking at him in a sexual context or approaching him in a sexual context at all, the EVERY woman should have that same right.

Speaking to a woman in her own world when she is not expecting you to do so and who didn't give you permission is just as much rape as beating her half to death and causes all the SAME emotional damage and makes her damaged goods for life.

To fix all these unsolicited contacts, here is what we need. We need a group of 1500 women to walk the streets in major cities and physically attack every man they see. Make them fearful for their lives and make them feel what we feel when they make any unsolicited contact and thus rape our inner sanctum. Make them late to work, like men want to do to women who are walking or cycling to work. Make them miss court appearance, cause their frozen food to spoil, make them miss paying their bills, and interfere with every thing they do, and tell them they are stupid and nothing without you and that they have no ability to run their lives. Totally harass them until their self-esteem takes a permanent hit.

ANY unwanted approach from the opposite sex when you are a lesbian or asexual causes the SAME damage as the most brutal rape to the parts of you that matter most. If men can be the authors and masters of their own fates, so should women, and given the same opportunities of distance to do so.

I don't know how to make it any clearer to you. You'll still pretend I'm speaking about the cat calls you keep changing the topic back to, though I never mentioned those once before this post. Why they want to call them cat calls is beyond me. They are "rude noises from men who want to rape you and who are too stupid to see women as anything but sexual beings."

So lets get back on topic. How can women walking or cycling dress or carry themselves so men from a distance can see that ANY advance to them is unwanted?

“Proud White Woman for life!”

Level 8

Since: Apr 09

Spotted World

#158 Mar 18, 2013
reebie wrote:
<quoted text>good point.. if I took myself seriously, Id be curled up in a little ball of slobber...talking to the shadows in the corners of my ceiling....
this way seems to work best..
:)
I take myself seriously enough to not be like that.

“Proud White Woman for life!”

Level 8

Since: Apr 09

Spotted World

#159 Mar 18, 2013
Illuminatrix wrote:
If dealing with a hetero male, say you used to be a man.
But what if they suspect that and that is what is turning them on?

“The..”

Level 6

Since: Dec 12

"..who whating how with huh?"

#160 Mar 18, 2013
Spotted Girl wrote:
<quoted text>
But what if they suspect that and that is what is turning them on?
run...

Level 9

Since: Feb 12

Bronx, NY

#161 Mar 18, 2013
Spotted Girl wrote:
<quoted text>
But what if they suspect that and that is what is turning them on?
...take him to the freezer section and buy him a box of genos pizza rolls...

“The..”

Level 6

Since: Dec 12

"..who whating how with huh?"

#162 Mar 19, 2013
Start talking about his grandma in the middle of making out/hooking up/whatever.

Level 9

Since: Feb 12

Bronx, NY

#163 Mar 19, 2013
Pick out our clothes to wear. All our friends at the bar will know therefore we prefer not to wear anything that matches...

“The..”

Level 6

Since: Dec 12

"..who whating how with huh?"

#164 Mar 19, 2013
Tell him you love him.

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