How to turn off men

Since: Feb 12

Monroe, LA

#97 Mar 17, 2013
Spotted Girl wrote:
But putting down someone's junk doesn't always turn men off. It sometimes just makes them angry or violent. A woman told a man she wasn't feeling anything and asked when he would insert it. So he started fisting her and made sure to injure her a little. What she said was the type of thing probably best told later, not in the heat of the moment. Men don't like to be told they are inadequate.
Yeah, true never thought of it like that!
Sure Bet

United States

#98 Mar 17, 2013
Post a picture of Harley Horny as the pic on your FB profile.

Spotted Girl

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#99 Mar 17, 2013
reebie wrote:
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I agree , in a perfect world we should all be allowed our personal space.. but, its not a perfect world. but I dont see it as a "rape" I would like to walk into work every morning,, and not speak. Im not a morning person.. everyone I work with, KNOWS, I am not a morning person.. there is one individual who will step in front of me, and beller out GOOD MORNING !!..is this a "rape" of me wanting to keep my head down down and stay to myself??.. and an abuse? no, it is silliness, ignorance..etc.. I am her boss.. does that make her inferior to me? no.... its just an annoyance..and I go on about my business...
It just doesnt matter in the long run..as far as the catcalls go..even if ignorant..they are good for the ego..to most..a quick little pick me up...that most will tell you made them feel "appreciated" as long as no lines were stepped over...I guess you just have stronger lines..and thats ok...
You don't like the word I used, either because you don't see it as strongly, or see me trivializing something much worse, and that is fine. I can live with that. It doesn't feel that deeply as a violation to you, but it is to me. If you want to interact sexually with others, then approach those who are known to be professionals in the trade, start out on a more innocent level, or go to venues that are known to be hook up places. I don't go to bars or clubs for this very reason. If I were to, it would only be briefly or early in the day if they were open. If a person is going to work, a store, or to pay bills, they don't expect others to approach them sexually, violate their space, or interfere with the task at hand. Why are men allowed to have one-track, business-only, nerdy, self-absorbed, left-brain minds and not women? Again, why a double standard?

Greeting you is not what I'm talking about here. She was not a man, not unemployed ghetto trash with a prison record. Nor was she there for sex, and what she said was out of respect. Approaching stranger women for sex is ALWAYS abusive.

What I am discussing is nearly always with sexual motives. Most people wave or greet someone and then they LEAVE or go back to their business. That is what normal people do. They don't pursue the person, chase them with their vehicle, turn the topic to sex like they are a common wh*re, ask them if they are a man, accuse them of being a man and asking to suck their junk, expose themselves, demand that you talk to them like they own you, etc. So there is a huge difference here.

Actually, it does matter in the long run if women are so terrified of this to even go out. It is causing loner women to develop agoraphobia or become recluses. Some are just that sensitive, and they keep to themselves, do nothing to suggest they want this, and stay in their own world. When you are minding your own business, others should automatically feel obligated to leave you alone - treat you as an anonymous adult stranger they can never know.
NIX

United States

#101 Mar 17, 2013
Sure Bet wrote:
Post a picture of Harley Horny as the pic on your FB profile.
^^^ Scratch that. We don't want to have a mass run on vows of celibacy.

Spotted Girl

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#102 Mar 17, 2013
flbadcatowner wrote:
<quoted text>In other words, try to churn men stomachs rather than turn men's heads. Most men are hardwired to react positively to a woman who looks and acts feminine and the prettier and more shapely, the better. If a woman has a nice body and doesn't want men to look, perhaps she should be covering up her assets instead of showing them off.
You have some points. On trying to turn stomachs, I don't think that would always work. That would only keep the average and above guys from approaching. In places like out this way, there is so much unemployment and homelessness, and people at rock bottom tend to have few personal standards. In other words, if someone is homeless or have spent many years behind bars, they would be glad for any contact with other and might not care if others are rough around the edges or don't bathe. So maybe if someone doesn't want approached, they should dress up, not down. Then if they are approached, they might at least draw a better quality of person.

I think I have an idea. Try to live where there are lots of jobs and lots of professionals. Men seem less sexual when they are more fulfilled in life and secure. From what I've observed, men are more hard-wired to need to work to feel good about themselves. When that doesn't work for them, they become depressed, disillusioned, and feel powerless within, and they use the sexual realm to replace what they don't feel inside. The more losses they have in life, the more they may try to pursue sex just to have one thing in their life that works where they can feel like men.

So the socioeconomic thing seems to at least partially explain variations in this across ethnic groups. It isn't so much the ethnic groups at it is their legacies of poverty and being raised in ways to hate themselves or feel insecure about themselves. The more insecure, the more desperate, since the more insecure someone is, the more they feel they need others to fill them up or give to them.

Spotted Girl

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#103 Mar 17, 2013
I Am Enzo - The Baker wrote:
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None of them...
Surely some pose greater turn-offs than others.

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#104 Mar 17, 2013
ha

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#105 Mar 18, 2013
Be more intelligent.

65007noogard

“Geaux Tigers!”

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Down on the bayou

#106 Mar 18, 2013
Tell 'em you want to cuddle.

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#107 Mar 18, 2013
Beat them in a game of pool.

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#110 Mar 18, 2013
Talk about the Lord..
Meh

Washington, DC

#111 Mar 18, 2013
Most men are lecherous, sweetie. If you are of child-bearing age and you look reasonably attractive, there is going to be a male sniffing around your butt and trying to give you that "Stick it and squirt it" vibe. At the end of the day, humans are just animals too. Your mistake is assuming that we are above the chimpanzees. If you don't like the way society operates, you really do need to escape to some secluded area of wilderness.
phaines

Big Bear Lake, CA

#112 Mar 18, 2013
threaten to poison their dinner

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#113 Mar 18, 2013
Poison their dinner.

“I know where you are,”

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Right here under my thumb

#114 Mar 18, 2013
Illuminatrix wrote:
Poison their dinner.
LMAO...permanently turn them off.

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#115 Mar 18, 2013
Lol... Depends how much one uses ;)
phaines

Big Bear Lake, CA

#116 Mar 18, 2013
Illuminatrix wrote:
Poison their dinner.
LMAO...permanently turn them off.

that would suck all the fun out of it...lol..they wouldnt take it seriously unless some part of them thinks they might have it comeing...lol

65007noogard

“Geaux Tigers!”

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Down on the bayou

#117 Mar 18, 2013
milwaukee69 wrote:
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LMAO...permanently turn them off.
Doesn't work. I've built up a tolerance to arsenic over the years...

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#118 Mar 18, 2013
65007noogard wrote:
<quoted text>Doesn't work. I've built up a tolerance to arsenic over the years...
LMAO
Paris Hilton

Huntington, NY

#119 Mar 18, 2013
Illuminatrix wrote:
Be more intelligent.
How the heck can I do that?

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