“Mrs_E”

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#75 Mar 17, 2013
Spotted Girl wrote:
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If someone is out alone, deliberately looking ahead or down, fully immersed in their own world, then approaching them at all is just another type of rape. Not a legally recognized one, but every bit as damaging and immoral.
We were all meant to function as individuals and to only care about our families and the friends we already have. If a woman by herself wanted others with her, she would have already brought her friends, family, or whatever lover she already has. So if you see someone alone, they value being alone and expect to be left alone. If they are not your friends or family, you have no right to even notice. Just say to yourself, they are JUST another person and move on. People are a dime a dozen and always in the way, but being alone, self-absorbed, in your own world and calling EVERY shot in your own life is priceless and should be protected under law.
Approaching you when you obviously want to be left alone, approaching you when they are from an inferior ethic culture or have lower values and standards than your own, is not a complement. It is a type of abuse. Maybe you don't find it abusive, or even enjoy it, but I do find it abusive. If men can be the authors of their own fates and have fulfilling, single lives, so should women. Women are not worth less than men. The more distance, privacy, and space you give others the more you are showing respect. And who gets the most emotional and physical space when walking alone on a public sidewalk? So which gender is respected more? It is not women.
From our exchanges, I see that the men won't get it until the women band together, learn not to tolerate this, and demand better treatment. Too many women have ridden on the gains made by the first and second wave feminists that they have taken it for granted and failed to be vigilant.
As the US immigration situation worsens, so will the way women are treated. Men from other countries think it is okay to rape women who are not covered up, rape women who are lesbians, grope any woman at random, sexually harass anyone, or hit on 10-year-old girls. They think it is okay to plop themselves into a booth in a restaurant where a woman is already sitting (I mean in parts of the US where that isn't an accepted custom - in big cities, that may be acceptable due to space constraints). Sure, born Americans do enough of these things, but exposure to feminism and US culture has placed some limits on their conduct. But when a bunch of new men from elsewhere flood in, they lack all that culture and training. I've seen too many Hispanic immigrants, mainly the undocumented variety who come here acting like every White woman is a sex worker.
I agree , in a perfect world we should all be allowed our personal space.. but, its not a perfect world. but I dont see it as a "rape" I would like to walk into work every morning,, and not speak. Im not a morning person.. everyone I work with, KNOWS, I am not a morning person.. there is one individual who will step in front of me, and beller out GOOD MORNING !!..is this a "rape" of me wanting to keep my head down down and stay to myself??.. and an abuse? no, it is silliness, ignorance..etc.. I am her boss.. does that make her inferior to me? no.... its just an annoyance..and I go on about my business...
It just doesnt matter in the long run..as far as the catcalls go..even if ignorant..they are good for the ego..to most..a quick little pick me up...that most will tell you made them feel "appreciated" as long as no lines were stepped over...I guess you just have stronger lines..and thats ok...
Lizz

Reading, PA

#76 Mar 17, 2013
Yell out a different mans name while having sexx.

“Never summon "Anything" ....”

Level 7

Since: Feb 11

..... you can't banish, lol

#78 Mar 17, 2013
Fish_sticks wrote:
I'm sure someone has said a good swift kick to the jewels ..... works every time.
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Oh good grief!
lol

Since: Aug 09

Location hidden

#79 Mar 17, 2013
Talk like Rosa , act like Rosa , lie like Rosa ......

Yep that should do it .

Level 9

Since: Feb 12

Bronx, NY

#80 Mar 17, 2013
reebie wrote:
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lol,, and yet you havnt learned your lesson??
ROCK ON DUDE !!!!
:)
...no. I can't seem to break the habit of teasing her, begging her forgiveness then repeat the cycle...

Level 9

Since: Feb 12

Bronx, NY

#82 Mar 17, 2013
Laura Beth wrote:
Talk like Rosa , act like Rosa , lie like Rosa ......
Yep that should do it .
Rosa's back? Vacuum off my pants fer me please Miss Laura, morticia owes me a lap dance...

“you're not the boss of me!”

Since: Jan 08

the road less traveled.....

#83 Mar 17, 2013
I Am Enzo - The Baker wrote:
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Rosa's back? Vacuum off my pants fer me please Miss Laura, morticia owes me a lap dance...
she/it bites

“Mrs_E”

Level 7

Since: Apr 08

Location hidden

#84 Mar 17, 2013
I Am Enzo - The Baker wrote:
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Rosa's back? Vacuum off my pants fer me please Miss Laura, morticia owes me a lap dance...
Morticia...!! LMAO!!!
gaurd your "jewels"
she likes to swipe those...
just sayin

Level 9

Since: Feb 12

Bronx, NY

#85 Mar 17, 2013
Debra27 wrote:
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she/it bites
...so do I...;o)

“Be obscure ”

Level 2

Since: Apr 12

clearly

#86 Mar 17, 2013
marry them

Level 9

Since: Feb 12

Bronx, NY

#87 Mar 17, 2013
reebie wrote:
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Morticia...!! LMAO!!!
gaurd your "jewels"
she likes to swipe those...
just sayin
..always...won't wear any jewelry either just in case I die from excitement...don't want to be one more in a long line of corpses she's picked clean...

Since: Feb 12

Kennett, MO

#88 Mar 17, 2013
You could tell them that you use to be a man or you have an STD or even aids, worked for me! Then you can also say that it's not big enough to please you....idk

Level 3

Since: Jul 12

Location hidden

#89 Mar 17, 2013
Men don't have an "off" switch ... Unless you tase them. That causes them to short circuit temporarily.

Level 9

Since: Feb 12

Bronx, NY

#90 Mar 17, 2013
... piercings and facial hardware usually does it for me...

“Proud White Woman for life!”

Level 8

Since: Apr 09

Spotted World

#91 Mar 17, 2013
Happy Dreams wrote:
It's not just men approaching women though is it... The same happens to men also (maybe not as much I'm not sure)...
Don't wear bright clothes, wear a hat to cover your face a bit.. If on a bike then RIDE FAST.
Blend in and don't draw attention to yourself, or move so fast that it would be hard for anybody to stop you. A to B. In and out..
It seems you should not wave at anyone, particularly not if they are African-American. They may assume a friendly wave means more than just being polite. Most people wave and continue on, but some think it means you want continued contact.

“Proud White Woman for life!”

Level 8

Since: Apr 09

Spotted World

#92 Mar 17, 2013
I Am Enzo - The Baker wrote:
... piercings and facial hardware usually does it for me...
Which specific facial piercings or other body mods do it for you? And what about tattoos on the face or otherwise?

“Proud White Woman for life!”

Level 8

Since: Apr 09

Spotted World

#93 Mar 17, 2013
Connie22 wrote:
You could tell them that you use to be a man or you have an STD or even aids, worked for me! Then you can also say that it's not big enough to please you....idk
STDs don't always work. Reminds me of a prison story I was told. On the first day in, the guy loudly announces that he has HIV and not to try to rape them or anything. Anyway, a guy with AIDS hit on him, saying they could have sex and it wouldn't matter, since they both had it.

As for size, that would generally not work from a distance, unless the person in question was exposing themselves to you. In that case, maybe ask them where the rest of it is or act like there is something wrong with it.

“Proud White Woman for life!”

Level 8

Since: Apr 09

Spotted World

#94 Mar 17, 2013
But putting down someone's junk doesn't always turn men off. It sometimes just makes them angry or violent. A woman told a man she wasn't feeling anything and asked when he would insert it. So he started fisting her and made sure to injure her a little. What she said was the type of thing probably best told later, not in the heat of the moment. Men don't like to be told they are inadequate.

Level 9

Since: Feb 12

Bronx, NY

#95 Mar 17, 2013
Spotted Girl wrote:
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Which specific facial piercings or other body mods do it for you? And what about tattoos on the face or otherwise?
None of them...

“I call it as I see it.”

Level 8

Since: Jul 09

Retirement City

#96 Mar 17, 2013
Pointers wrote:
Chop off your hair. Get fat.
In other words, try to churn men stomachs rather than turn men's heads. Most men are hardwired to react positively to a woman who looks and acts feminine and the prettier and more shapely, the better. If a woman has a nice body and doesn't want men to look, perhaps she should be covering up her assets instead of showing them off.

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