How to turn off men

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#462 May 9, 2013
Sublime1 wrote:
Another night I took her out on my bike (kids were gone with our parents). I got her all liquored up at this Mexican restaurant. We were on my bike ... On the way home she's practically raping me and telling me she loves a bad boy on a bike. Sucking on my neck ... grabbing my d'.
I get her home and we go to town for about an hour. After we are done, I hop in the shower ... She hops in the bath.
We both get out and she just jumps on the bed and is laying there butt naked with no cover on and I'm just looking at her body. Boom we start going at it again right after our shower and bath (not an hour that time ... I'm good, but not that good ... I need a little recovery time ... maybe like 15 minutes that time).
We finish and I say, "mmmmm that was a good round too babe." She's just laying there and she's like, "no, no round two." I said, "but that was round two." She again says, "no, no round two." I'm like, "babe that was round two ... don't you remember we had sex right before this and I took a shower and you took a bath afterwards."
She total did not remember the first romp at all, lol.
LMAO

SUJ

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make me giggle

#463 May 9, 2013
[QUOTE who=">.<"]Let him read topix sat morning after all the drinking sleeze bags have been up all night feelin frogy.[/QUOTE]
Point out his own drunken sleazy and stupid comments he wrote on topix the night before. Then point him to the "Why Im leaving you" thread.

SUJ

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make me giggle

#464 May 9, 2013
^^^^^That's weird.

“Want A Friend, Be One..”

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We All Could Use A Friend!!

#465 May 9, 2013
put him in the cold shower

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Since: Jul 11

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#466 May 9, 2013
Record him and let him hear himself the next day.Cause if you tell him he won't believe you.

Spotted Girl

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#467 May 10, 2013
honeymylove wrote:
Record him and let him hear himself the next day.Cause if you tell him he won't believe you.
You mean like the drunk who used racial slurs?

"I didn't call that n***** a n*****!"

That was some dude after a couple of 40 ounce beers. Had it not been for 5-6 witnesses, he would have never believed he said that.

It is like a couple of cop videos I've seen. In one, a drunk driving woman asked to work it out with sex and she offered to do to the officer what she refused to do to the breathalyzer. They told her about her behavior and she swore they were lying. Then she watched the video. She wasted no time learning about Alcoholics Anonymous and couldn't wait for her first meeting. She knew if she was saying and doing things she didn't remember, that she was in trouble.

“Seriously guys...”

Level 3

Since: May 12

Regina

#468 May 10, 2013
Spotted Girl wrote:
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The public is for business, eating, shopping, going to work, paying bills, etc. It is not for intruding into the lives of others and bothering them when they are looking ahead or down, self-absorbed, and their their own worlds.
That's funny really because there was a time before the internet when IN public was exactly where you met people. I met my wife at university. If I had jsut ignored her and assumed she was there for an education and ONLY an education, I wouldn't have got to spend the last 25 years(and counting) happily married to the best thing that has ever happened to me.

Look, aside from the cat calls by welfare cases, just take it all as a compliment. And when you get guys that are bolder who approach you but don't seem to understand the phrase, "I'm not interested, thank you", then give 'em a little shot of bear mace. Just make sure you check laws for possession and use in your jurisdiction first. lol

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Since: Feb 12

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#469 May 10, 2013
Oh please. I can't think of anything that would keep a man from going after what he really wants.

Level 8

Since: Dec 12

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#470 May 10, 2013
Well I'M awake!!! Don't even need a shower after S1's eye opener lol

Laura Beth

Since: Aug 09

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#471 May 10, 2013
Colorado Chick wrote:
PLAY DRESS-UP...Dress him in YOUR clothes!!
Ummmmm some Men like doing that. Ask Oz and Adrian.
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Since: May 13

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#472 May 10, 2013
"How to turn off men"

I think you just have to wait for their battery to run down.

Level 9

Since: Jul 11

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#473 May 10, 2013
Spotted Girl wrote:
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You mean like the drunk who used racial slurs?
"I didn't call that n***** a n*****!"
That was some dude after a couple of 40 ounce beers. Had it not been for 5-6 witnesses, he would have never believed he said that.
It is like a couple of cop videos I've seen. In one, a drunk driving woman asked to work it out with sex and she offered to do to the officer what she refused to do to the breathalyzer. They told her about her behavior and she swore they were lying. Then she watched the video. She wasted no time learning about Alcoholics Anonymous and couldn't wait for her first meeting. She knew if she was saying and doing things she didn't remember, that she was in trouble.
Drunk and calls boss late at night.Tells boss he won't be in for work.Boss tells him he better be there..I make sure he goes to work..I also got the neighbor(Manager) while he was over drinking.Talking about someone gay..LOL
That manager is something else..LMAO

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#474 May 10, 2013
quilterqueen wrote:
Oh please. I can't think of anything that would keep a man from going after what he really wants.
Some may try but they will finally give up..Well some will anyway.

Spotted Girl

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Since: Apr 09

Spotted World

#475 May 10, 2013
Whisgean Zoda wrote:
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That's funny really because there was a time before the internet when IN public was exactly where you met people. I met my wife at university. If I had jsut ignored her and assumed she was there for an education and ONLY an education, I wouldn't have got to spend the last 25 years(and counting) happily married to the best thing that has ever happened to me.
Look, aside from the cat calls by welfare cases, just take it all as a compliment. And when you get guys that are bolder who approach you but don't seem to understand the phrase, "I'm not interested, thank you", then give 'em a little shot of bear mace. Just make sure you check laws for possession and use in your jurisdiction first. lol
You miss the point, I don't want to meet others at all. Online is a safe place isolated from others, to be anonymous and to share opinions without consequences. That is all I need out of people, just someone to listen and vent to. Nobody noticing me, nobody trying to "help" or "nurture" (2 ways to control and degrade others), etc. If you want to meet someone for sex, meet them in a bar or where the stupid, sex-saturated women with a drug habit and no self-control hang out. I use EVERY place I go to for its literal intended purpose only. I never have interests nor urges beyond that, and to a small extent feel I am better than those who do. I go to restaurants to eat, not to be hit on, not to have low-income people outside my ethnic group sit in my booth without my permission, etc. I use the streets only for travel, not to make friends nor approach anyone sexually. When I was in school, I went ONLY to learn, not to harass nor bully.

I don't get cat calls, I get poor, drunken, criminal people demanding sex from me, it is not a compliment. A man approaching ANY woman at all that he is not married to is degrading, not a compliment. Men need to learn and see how much this hurts women. Such sexual aggression and neediness needs to be disciplined out at a young age, and out of boys the hardest. Having high levels of testosterone makes a person act like an inferior, so they have to be disciplined so strictly that the "natural" impulses are permanently overridden. Comments like yours only make excuses for disrespecting women.

Since I am obviously White, non-White men are obligated to never approach me on this level at all. Too bad I didn't live in the 50's where even looking at women outside your race would earn you a public beating. I will never date outside my race no matter what, and I will never have ANY kind of sex outside of marriage no matter what. I will stay bound to my politics, beliefs, and faith. My beliefs are more important to me than having "friends." You can get new friends, but you can never undo how you've betrayed yourself. Every White woman with a Black man has betrayed herself, her family, her creator, and I refuse to be such a sellout, traitor, and whore. Yes, a strong word, but it doesn't mean quite what people take it to mean. Prostitution isn't just about money for sex with different men. That is one kind to be sure. But trading ANY part of yourself for comfort or security is just as much a whore thing to do. Staying in a dead-end job, submitting to dress codes to keep a job or stay in school, trading votes for money, taking bribes, keeping silent about a crime, etc., are other ways to sell yourself.

You make a point, but remember everyone was more polite then, took things slower, and didn't lead off with sex. That is the first thing out of these men's mouths, and that is a permanent turnoff, particularly when I have no interest nor use for such.

Spotted Girl

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Since: Apr 09

Spotted World

#476 May 10, 2013
quilterqueen wrote:
Oh please. I can't think of anything that would keep a man from going after what he really wants.
I can, but it is not legal to administer.

Level 1

Since: May 13

Glendale, AZ

#477 May 10, 2013
Well, if she has a penis that would pretty much do it for me!
Marley Money

Huntington, NY

#478 May 10, 2013
DuckDamit wrote:
Well, if she has a penis that would pretty much do it for me!
Drats!!!!!

....another one lost.

Spotted Girl

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#479 May 10, 2013
DuckDamit wrote:
Well, if she has a penis that would pretty much do it for me!
Other guys would be turned on more. One woman told about how men would approach her and say things like, "I know what you are, so how about I pay you to get to s**k your d***?" She had to put up with guys exposing themselves to her and stuff, and she always had the phone handy. Too bad it wasn't a camera phone, since she could have collected evidence. One guy was a passenger in a pickup and thought she'd like to see something pink/beige and purple. The way guys there are sex-saturated beyond what is typical in the most of the US, no wonder local STD rates are so high. They used to have health workers walking the streets with phlebotomy kits and asking for ID and blood specimens. The ones agreeing to the tests would get a tracking number and a business card, and then they could call and ask for the disease status of the specimen.

“Seriously guys...”

Level 3

Since: May 12

Regina

#480 May 10, 2013
Spotted Girl wrote:
<quoted text>
You miss the point, I don't want to meet others at all. Online is a safe place isolated from others, to be anonymous and to share opinions without consequences. That is all I need out of people, just someone to listen and vent to. Nobody noticing me, nobody trying to "help" or "nurture" (2 ways to control and degrade others), etc. If you want to meet someone for sex, meet them in a bar or where the stupid, sex-saturated women with a drug habit and no self-control hang out. I use EVERY place I go to for its literal intended purpose only. I never have interests nor urges beyond that, and to a small extent feel I am better than those who do. I go to restaurants to eat, not to be hit on, not to have low-income people outside my ethnic group sit in my booth without my permission, etc. I use the streets only for travel, not to make friends nor approach anyone sexually. When I was in school, I went ONLY to learn, not to harass nor bully.
I don't get cat calls, I get poor, drunken, criminal people demanding sex from me, it is not a compliment. A man approaching ANY woman at all that he is not married to is degrading, not a compliment. Men need to learn and see how much this hurts women. Such sexual aggression and neediness needs to be disciplined out at a young age, and out of boys the hardest. Having high levels of testosterone makes a person act like an inferior, so they have to be disciplined so strictly that the "natural" impulses are permanently overridden. Comments like yours only make excuses for disrespecting women.
Since I am obviously White, non-White men are obligated to never approach me on this level at all. Too bad I didn't live in the 50's where even looking at women outside your race would earn you a public beating. I will never date outside my race no matter what, and I will never have ANY kind of sex outside of marriage no matter what. I will stay bound to my politics, beliefs, and faith. My beliefs are more important to me than having "friends." You can get new friends, but you can never undo how you've betrayed yourself. Every White woman with a Black man has betrayed herself, her family, her creator, and I refuse to be such a sellout, traitor, and whore. Yes, a strong word, but it doesn't mean quite what people take it to mean. Prostitution isn't just about money for sex with different men. That is one kind to be sure. But trading ANY part of yourself for comfort or security is just as much a whore thing to do. Staying in a dead-end job, submitting to dress codes to keep a job or stay in school, trading votes for money, taking bribes, keeping silent about a crime, etc., are other ways to sell yourself.
You make a point, but remember everyone was more polite then, took things slower, and didn't lead off with sex. That is the first thing out of these men's mouths, and that is a permanent turnoff, particularly when I have no interest nor use for such.
Ok, your last paragraph there I get completely. The rest of your post it is just sexist, classist and racist garbage. You could have simplified your post by merely stating you hate not just men, but poor people and those who ain't White, and wish they'd just stay away from you.
What's really sad is all the religious condemnation towards gay people, lesbians included, and yet you dare invoke The Creator's name in your racist diatribe?
You come in here looking for advice for your stupid little problem and we find out that's not really your problem. Your problem is you're an ass.
Well good job toots, you just trashed a whole bunch of people's mothers and sisters calling them traitors and whores while whining about your pathetic, little problem.
Maybe the "trash" that keeps bugging you merely mistook you for an already existing garbage pile.
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#482 May 10, 2013
Why would you want to turn your man off?

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