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“Hands across the sea”

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#19173 Nov 25, 2012
Vee wrote:
<quoted text>I think violin lessons would be cheaper. She gets to play a violin (unless she has to bring her own instrument) but hopefully, he could borrow from someone who trusts him to pay back in installments, see if there is a layaway plan,or find out from Harry Belefonte how those scarlet ribbons really did wind up on the bed in gay profusion???? Anyway, happeeeeee SInday, El, Grace, and kitchen helpers.
....:)...She has very little confidence and so going for lessons would be a trial for her. Her father has far too much pride to seek a loan,
in spite of his wife telling him 'pride comes before a fall', he just wont' entertain the idea. He was once a famous concert violinist and is now suffering from clinical depression, he feels if he could buy that violin it would give both him, and his daughter, a new lease of life. A reson d'etre.
He has dreams of playing along to his tapes of Yehudi Menuin..one of the few possessions he has not taken to the hock shop.

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#19174 Nov 25, 2012
Paisley_Posey wrote:
<quoted text>I would wish I could get it for her, but I would also know that the most important elements of the Christmas holiday for her and my family were still well within our reach. I would feel disappointment WITH her, and set about to the first step in the (if you're poor) long process of acquiring a violin. Like learning the scales, saving a little here and there.
I am sure you know well that unavoidable childhood deprivations and hardships aren't necessarily bad for children. I believe that some of what you witnessed and endured as a child became part of your character and mettle, which I esteem to be of the highest order.
That is extremely kind of you to say Paise, and thank you, very much indeed.

But....as for the little girl, she was four when she learnt the scales, her father taught her well, in fact, she learnt on her father's precious violin, which sadly he had to part with on e-bay before they also sold the computer, food on the table being of the highest importance.
Then the depression set in, and rubbed off on the daughter.
A difficult time to learn the rudiments of saving, and waiting, when it could be a life line NOW.

“Hands across the sea”

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#19175 Nov 25, 2012
p.s.

I believe that deprivation in childhood can be either the making, or breaking, of that child's character.
Or possibly both.

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#19176 Nov 25, 2012
How about a nice Irish coffee... with a dash of jamieson's whiskey..

“Hands across the sea”

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#19177 Nov 25, 2012
Groucho AKA Falcon 68 wrote:
How about a nice Irish coffee... with a dash of jamieson's whiskey..
Is it?...no, it can't be...IT IS..It's Falcon....

Welcome back Falcon, you have been sorely missed.

How are you? Grace will be chuffed to see you....

Coffee coming up just the way you always liked it!...:)

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#19179 Nov 25, 2012
eleanorigby wrote:
<quoted text>
There you are Tony.....that is some serious flooding you have down there, I imagine the people at Notter Bridge are thanking their lucky
stars they have been let off lightly..not so the lady killed by a
falling tree, somewhere in Devon I believe. Glad to see you are home
safely, and the 'one who has to be obeyed' in Switzerland, yes?
Quite fortunatge here in comparison but was amazed to see the river rushing down the street in a village a few miles from here..hilly, so
at least it heads for the sea.
I have tickets for 'Skyfall'..was hoping to go tomorrow having had to cancel last week, don't know whether to risk it or not.
Changing the car on Tuesday and our existing car has a three quarter full tank..
It was Exeter the 21 year old was killed - not quite sure why she was sleeping in a tent on that wild a night, but sad nonetheless to see a young life snuffed out.

The boss departs for Austria on Friday. We're thinking of trying to catch Skyfall on Weds (good old Orange Wednesday!).

You better get that syphoning hose out before Tuesday - with petrol the price it is. Just don't swallow any of it!

“ain't she sweet?”

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#19180 Nov 25, 2012
eleanorigby wrote:
p.s.

I believe that deprivation in childhood can be either the making, or breaking, of that child's character.
Or possibly both.
That's "hitting the nail on the head" and spot on. Many things in life that happen at that time affect the choices we make later in life.

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#19181 Nov 25, 2012
tony1003 wrote:
<quoted text>
It was Exeter the 21 year old was killed - not quite sure why she was sleeping in a tent on that wild a night, but sad nonetheless to see a young life snuffed out.
The boss departs for Austria on Friday. We're thinking of trying to catch Skyfall on Weds (good old Orange Wednesday!).
You better get that syphoning hose out before Tuesday - with petrol the price it is. Just don't swallow any of it!
It's really sad...somebody daughter...

You read my mind there Tony, no way is this car going with all that
fuel inside. Fingers crossed the A55 is clear tomorrow.

Off track, but have you seen the price they are charging for tickets
for the Rolling Stones concert? One bloke was on the tv saying he
was quite happy to pay £700 for a £400 ticket..and..he has already seen them 17 times. He looked quite rational as well!

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#19182 Nov 25, 2012
RMQuinn37 wrote:
<quoted text>
That's "hitting the nail on the head" and spot on. Many things in life that happen at that time affect the choices we make later in life.
Makes me wonder if we would make the same choices had things
been different in formative years. Glad you understand!...:)

“ain't she sweet?”

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#19183 Nov 25, 2012
eleanorigby wrote:
<quoted text>Makes me wonder if we would make the same choices had things
been different in formative years. Glad you understand!...:)
I know I could have but fortunately did not. Dad was a violent alcoholic -- I'm aware I would likely have a predisposition toward alcohol as well --- I don't drink, never have, a little on a holiday or my birthday but I've been told that's not even social drinking. Could have gone either way...

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#19184 Nov 25, 2012
tony1003 wrote:
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Cheers ER - it was something of a wild night! We weren't affected (aside from a weekend break in horrendous weather), but there has been severe flooding all over the county in places that normally do not suffer. Millbrook, a village a few miles from us even made Sky News! Land slips, fallen trees and closed roads made the drive back today interesting!
A link:
http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-cornwall...
A friend of mine has photos of torrents of water pouring down the main street of Cawsand, which never normally floods. And we have more forecast in the next 24 hours.
Oh crimony! Muddy water is the worst! And more rain tomorrow, gosh. I hope you remain high and dry Tony!

“guess who Lois?”

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A little hole in the wall.

#19185 Nov 25, 2012
eleanorigby wrote:
<quoted text>
I'm sure I would...I enjoy documentaries, to a point, and am interested in the Native American as I am the original inhabitants of all countries. I firmly believe 'civilisation' has spoilt a lot that was here before...way of life..medicines..the family....
I will look out for it Cuz, you never know, it could be repeated.
I honestly don't know whether or not I would approve of women bishops. I am all for fair play, equality and all that, but I
have no time for the Church as it stands...I find it too dictatorial. God forgive me!
((Makes cross sign)) You are forgiven my child!!!

“guess who Lois?”

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#19186 Nov 25, 2012
eleanorigby wrote:
<quoted text>
I think you are very perseptive for what my opinion is worth...:)
thanks EL, but just watch, any time now I am liable to do the opposite and then go like Homer Simpson "DOH!!"

“guess who Lois?”

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#19187 Nov 25, 2012
Grace Nerissa wrote:
In reply to El and RM's posts,
Yes to a certain degree,
and we all do 'our bit' in different ways,
and not always in the spotlight..
and indeed that is welcome..
but, at Christmas time, at least it seems to me,
there is 'over kill'
Santa appearing everywhere,
visiting hospitals with a sackful of
toys, kind of superficial,
but then again,
if one sees it through a child's eyes,
it can be altogether different,
perhaps, through a child's eyes,
'I remember when I was 4 and ill in hospital
and Santa came to visit me'
and that is a very lovely memory to hold on to.
El,
I was chuffed with your line about
'no turkey for Christmas'
what a blessed thought.
Hey Gracie ...

I think that there are folks who will do charitable works year round, and there are others that need a little extra incentive to push them to that level ... so if soemone can use something like Christmas as that little bit of extra inspiration to get something from that portion of the population that contributes only once in a wile .. then at least it adds something to the total charitable contributions ...

WHile I dislike the commercialism of some of the holidays, I am not against the efforts to use those occasions to encourage a few good deeds.

“guess who Lois?”

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A little hole in the wall.

#19188 Nov 25, 2012
Deer Whisperer wrote:
<quoted text>
:)... I do.
My dad being frugal had not bought a color TV by the time I left the house. To view color TV, I would have to at friends or at my girl friend's house. Even when his console TV quit later on when I was on to my life, he bought a black-and-white portable for replacement.
I bought him a color TV a bit later when I sensed he wouldn't fuss much about it.
But the reason I use the term ... it's an homage to a posting buddy on Yahoo! message boards when I plied them. A witty fellow with a unique humor. For some reason he would use the term with mixing up the cases of the characters. I often mix them too, but sometimes don't.
He disappeared from the forum boards and it was subsequently learned he had passed from a cancer. He was in his 50s.
interesting explanatoin ... sorry to hear about your freind's passing.

“guess who Lois?”

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#19189 Nov 25, 2012
RMQuinn37 wrote:
<quoted text>
Whole heartedly agree with you especially after spending 4 years working at Macy's. It's crazy. And every year at least one person or more gets killed, trampled in the throngs at Walmart.
when yuo think about it ... the least they can do is let in 5 at a time at a controlled rate (5 SECOND INTERVALS) so the folk can disperse through the store in an organized manner.

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#19190 Nov 25, 2012
eleanorigby wrote:
<quoted text>
It's really sad...somebody daughter...
You read my mind there Tony, no way is this car going with all that
fuel inside. Fingers crossed the A55 is clear tomorrow.
Off track, but have you seen the price they are charging for tickets
for the Rolling Stones concert? One bloke was on the tv saying he
was quite happy to pay £700 for a £400 ticket..and..he has already seen them 17 times. He looked quite rational as well!
The most expensive at a re-sale site according to BBC News last night was £37,000! Madness to my mind, but guess they expect someone will pay it. Not sure I can see the point of paying that much to watch a bunch of OAPs, however good they once were.

“Power to the people”

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#19191 Nov 25, 2012
tony1003 wrote:
<quoted text>
The most expensive at a re-sale site according to BBC News last night was £37,000! Madness to my mind, but guess they expect someone will pay it. Not sure I can see the point of paying that much to watch a bunch of OAPs, however good they once were.
Hi Tony, good to see you again. I've seen alot of mark up in the re-sale price of tickets but not that bad, however I was not trying to buy a top of the line ticket. I went to Chicage and tried to buy a Chicago Cubs Baseball ticket. If I remember right they wanted about $150 per ticket. I told the guy I didn't want to "buy the team" just watch a game, and I walked off.

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#19192 Nov 25, 2012
Paisley_Posey wrote:
<quoted text>Oh crimony! Muddy water is the worst! And more rain tomorrow, gosh. I hope you remain high and dry Tony!
Cheers PP - we haven't had a problem - aside from the drive back yesterday when we had to divert as part of the road was washed away! We're lucky - although we have a gorgeous view overlooking the river, we are up above it by about 300 feet, so no difficulty with flooding. Little local villages suffered flash floods - the problem with Cornwall is that quite a few are built at the bottom of sttep-sided valleys as they began life as fishing villages. When we get heavy prolonged rain, a torrent can develop. Here's a couple of links from previous floods, one in Lynmouth in the 1950s, one from Boscastle in 2004:

http://www.google.co.uk/imgres...



Lynmouth is actually in North Devon, but the topography is the same.

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#19193 Nov 25, 2012
Concerned_American wrote:
<quoted text>
Hi Tony, good to see you again. I've seen alot of mark up in the re-sale price of tickets but not that bad, however I was not trying to buy a top of the line ticket. I went to Chicage and tried to buy a Chicago Cubs Baseball ticket. If I remember right they wanted about $150 per ticket. I told the guy I didn't want to "buy the team" just watch a game, and I walked off.
Hi CA, good to see you. We have the same problem with tickets for international rugby matches: what once cost less than £1 when I was a lad are now over £400 per game. Part of the problem is that corporate money for entertaining has pushed up the price of tickets. I now watch it on TV - I am neither willing nor able to pay those sort of prices to go to the match, especially when you factor in travelling up to London from the West Country.

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