I am sorry too to hear you have a friend<quoted text> Am sorry to hear this, Grace..we all feel helpless.. WHEN someone we love or an acquaintance is I'll and will not recover. All you can do is BE THERE for them..DO NOT IGNORE THEM...they WERE a part of YOUR life, when they were well.
NOW, they need your strength and courage.. to face their fate...YOU are the link to WHAT they will be losing..LIFE!!..I nedx a cup of coffer and a slice of banana bread....to go, I also have a pal dying of cancer..please, heed my words and Grace's...UNTIL you have someone close dying or yourself... YOU VALUE.. ALL THOSE WHO will be left behind....MISSING YOU!!
in the same position, and I offer my sympathy to you..
yet, I found your post to me
you ask me not to IGNORE the person??
and to heed your words..
odd thing to say, when I am attentive [to her]
to a fault and broken, I went into the hospital the other night,
only to be turned away by the nurses,
that hardly indicates 'ignoring'
Well, I'll stop there,
as we are both in the same boat in this regard..
and perhaps I'm not in the humour to be writing about this..
so I'll stop.