Should a Husband Help His Wife With the Dishes?

Created by flbadcatowner on Dec 26, 2012

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Yes

No

Maybe

Only if the meal was good

Only If the wife is stronger (better listen man)

Steph

Sausalito, CA

#387 Jan 3, 2013
reebie wrote:
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Im sorry, I dont really knit.. I was just teasing you....always wanted to learn, but Im left-handed, so I looked at everything backwards, and couldnt get the technique down.......It would be a great release tho.....
I can do that fleece thing, where ya tie the ends,, otherwise, Im not very "crafty"
there are lots of knitting tutorials on Youtube that might help you. Also, the "Stitch and Bitch" book is a great visual aid. when I learned how to knit, actually SEEING it being done was key.
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#388 Jan 3, 2013
Steph wrote:
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there are lots of knitting tutorials on Youtube that might help you. Also, the "Stitch and Bitch" book is a great visual aid. when I learned how to knit, actually SEEING it being done was key.
Stitch n Bitch, lol,,, My sister tried years ago to show me, we faced each other so I could ""mirror" her.. that didnt work at all, I was all jacked up.... She does everything,, quilt, sew, knit , crochet, you name it.. I just think she got all the crafty genes.. and the cooking genes... Im still trying to figure out which genes I got...

“I call it as I see it.”

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#389 Jan 3, 2013
Gallup Poll wrote:
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you're more than seventy one percent femme
how did you vote?
Don't you ever give up with all your multiple identities trolling me relentlessly with your obvious stierscheiss? Let me tell you something. People who troll are obvious losers in life as this link will show.

http://www.dnaindia.com/scitech/report_intern...

Just in case you are to cowardly to read it, here is the text of it:

Internet trolls motivated by 'low self-esteem'
Published: Monday, Jul 9, 2012, 14:24 IST
Place: WELLINGTON | Agency: ANI

Someone who is motivated to troll on the Internet has a very low self-esteem, it has been revealed.

How they feel once they’ve attacked someone online depends on what they were emotionally motivated by as to what the payoff is.

Someone desperate for attention or recognition will get it. It may be bad attention, but for some people that’s better than none at all, Stuff.co.nz reported

Someone with a low self-worth will put others down to build themselves up, will say outrageous things and get approval from others with a low sense of self-worth

Maybe they feel a sense of mastery when they come up with something they think is clever or brave and hit the send button. Maybe it’s that they feel marginalised or victimised in their lives and this is a way of getting revenge.

The problem with this is that all these feelings are transient, they don’t last and so the person will have to do it again and again, trying to get shreds of those positive payoffs to prop up a fragile self-esteem, rather than doing it in a healthy way

In their “normal” day to day lives, bullies tend to have a low level of self-awareness. They will try to convince themselves that they are ok with themselves, but at a deeper level they usually have a sense of being powerless or inadequate.

The bullying is a way of proving to themselves that they are not

According to a critical teacher, our sense of who we are as a person and what we are capable of becoming starts in childhood but it’s a fluid thing, shaped by other influences too, teasing during adolescence or even a controlling lover in your 20’s.

A lot of trolls like to say “you’ve got nothing better to do” to the person they are trolling and they could probably be projecting

Projection is another consequence of a low level of self awareness. It’s when we have awareness of a particular trait, quality or attitude because we actually possess it, but rather than acknowledge it’s a part of us because we feel ashamed of it, we “disown it”

Whatever we disown in ourselves, we are more sensitive to in other people, or we will “read into” their motives or behaviour.

People with lower levels of self-awareness tend to assume that everyone operates the same way they do and have a hard time accepting that they may be different. They tend to blame others for what would normally be their own, internal reaction instead

The best way to deal with a troll is to ignore them

Ignore them just like you would discourage attention-seeking behaviour in children. Give all the attention to the person who has been wronged instead.
Kios

Telford, UK

#390 Jan 3, 2013
The fact someone is asking this question in 2013 is hilarious.

“Maiden of Mayhem”

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OMFUG

#391 Jan 3, 2013
Kios wrote:
The fact someone is asking this question in 2013 is hilarious.
Misogynistic knuckle-draggers still exist.

“I call it as I see it.”

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Retirement City

#392 Jan 3, 2013
Kios wrote:
The fact someone is asking this question in 2013 is hilarious.
It was just meant to create some lively discussion. Stop being such a killjoy.

“I call it as I see it.”

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Retirement City

#393 Jan 3, 2013
victoria1 wrote:
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Misogynistic knuckle-draggers still exist.
And so so a few feminazis.
Kios

London, UK

#394 Jan 3, 2013
It begs the question how are these misogynist knuckled draggers getting a woman.

I dont know any women who would stand for it and I dont know any men who dont want to help their partner.

Since: Aug 08

Buffalo, NY

#397 Jan 3, 2013
... after my ex hit me with a cast iron frying pan ... i decided to do all the dishes ... i also decided to hide all the butcher knives ...

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#398 Jan 3, 2013
flbadcatowner wrote:
If his wife has pms and a loaded pistol, perhaps he would be well advised to help.
Lol I would have to agree.:)

“My posts are MUCH better”

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than your posts!

#399 Jan 3, 2013
I have a magnet on my fridge that says "No man was ever shot while doing the dishes."

“Standin' In A”

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Shaft Of Light

#400 Jan 3, 2013
Depends on what you mean by 'help'.

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#401 Jan 3, 2013
Korny Kat wrote:
I have a magnet on my fridge that says "No man was ever shot while doing the dishes."
Hi KK now" ain't you the funny one. Lol.

“My posts are MUCH better”

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than your posts!

#402 Jan 3, 2013
David0407 wrote:
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Hi KK now" ain't you the funny one. Lol.
Good evening, Mr. Hot Rodder, sir.

I am off to slumber so I hope you have a wonderful evening!

(I have to leave early as it takes a while to remove this caked make-up on my face...)

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#403 Jan 3, 2013
Korny Kat wrote:
<quoted text>Good evening, Mr. Hot Rodder, sir.

I am off to slumber so I hope you have a wonderful evening!

(I have to leave early as it takes a while to remove this caked make-up on my face...)
Lol that's cool, I hope you sleep, well take care. KK.:)
Stan Fishler

Medford, NY

#404 Jan 4, 2013
Yes, he should purchase them for her. It actually makes a nice Christmas or birthday gift.

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Since: Dec 12

Winnfield, LA

#405 Jan 4, 2013
LOL @ Stan...I'd kill him! That's why I got a dollhouse for Christmas...

darn it Stan, now ya got this song stuck in my head!

“Don't Worry Be Happy”

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And Don't Forget To Smile:o)

#406 Jan 4, 2013
well i thinks its sexy for the man and woman to do dishes together..

“I call it as I see it.”

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Retirement City

#407 Jan 4, 2013
Princess Hey wrote:
well i thinks its sexy for the man and woman to do dishes together..
That only woks if you have a large kitchen (LOL).

“I call it as I see it.”

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Retirement City

#408 Jan 4, 2013
I meant works.

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