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“Ungood doubleplus duckspeak.”

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Sarcasm is my life ;)

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Juicylu wrote:
Sarcasm is my life ;)
Then...I'm sure you'll do good here...lol!

welcome aboard!

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Cheers :)

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Good boys want bad girls.

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It's always been the same...until they reach adulthood. Course, very FEW reach adulthood....;)
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Juicylu wrote:
Good boys want bad girls.
I was always a good kid...... I always wanted the pretty librarian type woman, kinda mousie but hot in the sack.

I never cared for the bad girls.....I already knew they were bad, it's the ones in the "nice fancy packages" that I wanted to "discover".....lol

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In my youth, I liked the bad boys, then I suddenly switched and got me a good boy.
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QuiteCrazy wrote:
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Leave him alone don't even think about it. One thing about a bad boy, they don't care it's part of the package.
The other would be, look Chica you gotta have more confidence. If this "bad boy" liked you believe me he'd let you know like the birds in the tropics do fluanting all his feathers and same goes for the other girl.
The other thing, bad boys are over-rated!!! Maybe it's just me but, bad boys sound like mucho mucho trouble for what? Maybe you should ask yourself why do you NEED or WANT the heartache? Then maybe you'll look to better horizons for love. Unless love is NOT what you are looking for...?
Thank you so much for your response....It just hurts...I feel like I failed.And I have evaluated more and more recently why I want to be with someone who has these difficulties.....
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Jan 24, 2013
 

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PESCreate wrote:
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Hmmm, What is your name?
I like you. Listen we can't generalize like this. We all don't do anything the same as everyone. I like badboys, but only if they are real men. I'm a bit of badgirl on occasion, but I don't hurt anyone.
Hope you meet the right one -- hope you travel a bit too. Can't hurt.
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PEACE
Thanks! Yeah I feel a little like that too....like on 1 hand I feel I need to stop worrying about it and just let it go for good. But I also have seen that everyone's case is different (kinda like you said)and I'll never know what we could have been if I just, tou know,give up.
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Jan 24, 2013
 
I know such a guy. A friend of mine (has adhd) because we're guys with many similar views. What I totally disagree with him on are some issues in relations to people. Example-he'll steal from his own family, has multiple sex partners using no protection, 2 females went for pregnancy tests, calls most females the "B'word, does'nt work,depends on his mother to support him and she provides for him despite him not looking for work. Supplies him with a cell phone,video games,etc. She's an enabler. He has very good looks, so many females seek him. He smokes weed,plays video games everyday, dtinks alcohol. Yet he has so many friends-male +female. Yep, bad boys make out very well. Especially the ones with good looks. I tell him yhat will stop as he gets older, losses his looks and not have anything of value to support himself later. I'm on the verge of becomming an exfriend due to his ways. He was better when younger with social issued. Females will still flock tp badboys.
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Jan 24, 2013
 
danclark wrote:
I know such a guy. A friend of mine (has adhd) because we're guys with many similar views. What I totally disagree with him on are some issues in relations to people. Example-he'll steal from his own family, has multiple sex partners using no protection, 2 females went for pregnancy tests, calls most females the "B'word, does'nt work,depends on his mother to support him and she provides for him despite him not looking for work. Supplies him with a cell phone,video games,etc. She's an enabler. He has very good looks, so many females seek him. He smokes weed,plays video games everyday, dtinks alcohol. Yet he has so many friends-male +female. Yep, bad boys make out very well. Especially the ones with good looks. I tell him yhat will stop as he gets older, losses his looks and not have anything of value to support himself later. I'm on the verge of becomming an exfriend due to his ways. He was better when younger with social issued. Females will still flock tp badboys.
What is wrong with them!!! LOL do you think it's a lack ofd a father figure always being present100% of the time??
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Jan 24, 2013
 
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What is wrong with them!!! LOL do you think it's a lack ofd a father figure always being present100% of the time??
this young man I speak of, his father died when he was 14. His mother would be in bars while his older sister took drugs (she still does and was recently jailed) and got him hooked on drugs. My nephew use to. Date his sister, stopped when she got addicted. The past 5yrs. I stepped in as a sort of big brother. At times he thanks me for changing his life. I thought "if this is beter,i'd hate to see worse". He goes on facebook to put his info up. The girls se his photo and contact him. All that swooning to him by girls makes it all the more difficult to guide him. He's that handsome. Even old ladies tell him. So he gets the idea he can get away with wrong doing because his looks make exceptions. These young women are so led by appearances (which most men are to) that it seems all that matters. These yoing women work and take him on trips! He went on a 3 day trip at no cost to him. They went snowboarding. I thought that these girls would more want a guy with a goal in life, at least a job to support himself. It all boosts his ego that he intends to continue on that path, despite my guidance. When he views war-gangster-violent videos he "gunho" and these girls like it! Yeah, I think its lack of guidance. My efforts undermined by his enabler mother. Last month he got chlymidia. What did his mothet do? Buy him confoms. He has them before his std. She provides alcohol, gives him some og her zanies. But guode him- no. And girls find this all attractive.

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It's nothing new under the sun...Good Girl likes Bad boy.Why? perhaps she has sympathy for him or loves him so much she wants to make him an even better man... or maybe she just really really enjoys his company...But he wouldn't be called "bad" for nothing...one of the main things he does is break commitments both in his friendships and full blown exclusive relaionships....So what am I getting at?...say he is friends with a girl who has been somewhat like a sister to him....another female who he might consider the more attractive female, he has previously tried to "talk to" or "holla at" but this female rejects him ...and in a casual conversation mentions it to the girl who is like his sister where the other girl hints towards her own liking of her guy friend....months later, all three happened to be at an event together in which it is clear that the bad boy and his sister-like friend are in constant association with each other and paired off at times during the event ...seeming to not please the other female.Shortly after this point(couple days later) while in close proximity with each other the other female answers a question that someone asks involving the male friend and her hanging out...but when she answers she does so loudly as if announcing news in front of the sister-like friend...within weeks the male friend also vanished from her life for a solid year..only to return not wanting to talk about it when the sister-like friend tried to refer to it...now we know bad bouys will be bad...so should the sister-like friend adjust her feelings torwards him?Leave him alone completely? or should she have tried haarder to explain what happened in hopes to move past with a better friendship than before...??
I think the girl who is like a "sister" to him should realize its never going to happen with him ... not because he's a bad boy, but rather because he's not interested in her in that manner. If she comes to understand this, then what he does with other women or how he feels about other women shouldn't bother her.

The sister friend is in what we guys refer to as "the friend zone." It's a dark desolate space with no hope.
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Jan 25, 2013
 
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I think the girl who is like a "sister" to him should realize its never going to happen with him ... not because he's a bad boy, but rather because he's not interested in her in that manner. If she comes to understand this, then what he does with other women or how he feels about other women shouldn't bother her.
The sister friend is in what we guys refer to as "the friend zone." It's a dark desolate space with no hope.
Wow. Well.....That might be true...and if so than that particular truth really hurts.However, you may know as well as I do that the truth makes a man free. I guess I am really upset at myself for letting the chance to tell him how much I cared about him and how beautiful I thought he was slip away during the time we were talking as friends. Also looking at it now maybe it would hurt his feelings calling him a "bad boy"...and that is the last thing I want to do.God lets everything happen for a reason....and I had absolutely no problems with him choosing what females he wanted to be involved with in any kind of way....you see I respect him enough to make those choices for himself but I dont feel that the other female respected him enough to let him make the decision of dismissing me from his life for himself... without the help of her manipulating the situation by saying something untrue about me.However I wish both of them the best of luck and I think I want to close this forum soon out of resect for my friend...but I reall appreciate everyones input....P.S. If I didnt know any better I would have thout YOU were my friend or the other female...
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Jan 25, 2013
 
My young friend has some old views about women. He says they belong at home doing chores just like the 1950's! I asked him where he got such ideas. He said we all have a role to play. Men work at a job-women work at home. I was very surprised to hear that from a young man. I gave him a short history lesson. Like during. W.W.2, while guys fought overseas, women had to lots of jobs held by men. My grandmother had such a job. I told him women can very well take mens position in many jobs. The girls he dates know his views. Still they flock to him.

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<quoted text>Wow. Well.....That might be true...and if so than that particular truth really hurts.However, you may know as well as I do that the truth makes a man free. I guess I am really upset at myself for letting the chance to tell him how much I cared about him and how beautiful I thought he was slip away during the time we were talking as friends. Also looking at it now maybe it would hurt his feelings calling him a "bad boy"...and that is the last thing I want to do.God lets everything happen for a reason....and I had absolutely no problems with him choosing what females he wanted to be involved with in any kind of way....you see I respect him enough to make those choices for himself but I dont feel that the other female respected him enough to let him make the decision of dismissing me from his life for himself... without the help of her manipulating the situation by saying something untrue about me.However I wish both of them the best of luck and I think I want to close this forum soon out of resect for my friend...but I reall appreciate everyones input....P.S. If I didnt know any better I would have thout YOU were my friend or the other female...
I'm not your friend or the other female. Just a guy giving it to you straight.

I've been around quite a few women who wanted to be more than friends and been around quite a few who sprung stuff on me or made advances, when I thought we were just friends. If you guys hang out as much as you say you do, I'm pretty sure he would have made a move on you if he were interested ... Especially if you party together.. Things just happen when a man and a women are together and attracted to each other ... And come the next day he wouldn't act like nothing happened ... If he wanted you like that he would show it and want to keep you in his life. Seems he has no problems showing it with this other girl. Ask yourself why he can act like that with her, despite her not trying that hard, but not you, despite how much you seem to care for him ... then you'll realize what I say is true.

I understand that it hurts too and that sucks, but that's life. Everyone's been there, sweetie. You aren't alone.

In terms of letting him know how much you care, that's probably not enough. There's a physical attraction component to any relationship beyond friends ... and sometimes that's just not there. And, it's important for you to realize that doesn't mean you aren't beautiful or attractive or that you don't have a lot to offer ... It just means you aren't right for him. And yes that will hurt because you have feelings for him. But you need to realize he can't help who he is attracted to or not attracted to, anymore than you can't help but to be attracted to him. The heart has a mind of its own ... For better or worse.

I would suggest you distance yourself from this guy and give yourself sometime to get over him. Someone else will come along ... I promise. Then you can invest your energy and love in someone who feels the same about you, as you do for him.

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Jan 26, 2013
 
Choices changes person to person.
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Jan 26, 2013
 
Now someone help the girl out and write BS so it's lost under all that jibber jabber... lol

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