Do you or have you spanked your child...

“Eats yer spinichk ?”

Since: Sep 08

CardboardBoxville

#162 Sep 21, 2008
peter wrote:
Parents have to know: dont spank only discipline and disciplining sometimes requires a good few whacks on the Tush and sometimes on the Bare Tush but only save it for the last resort. im a mother of 5 and rarely spanked, maybe 5 to 10 x a yr. but when it was deserved it was done the old fashioned way. my 18 yr. old son recently got it with his pants down after he was warned 3 times. believe me he wont do it again
That's very funny, mother of 5 who has a man's name.

“Eats yer spinichk ?”

Since: Sep 08

CardboardBoxville

#163 Sep 21, 2008
Beware parents...that toddler you spank today might grow up to be a very angry teen who outweighs you by 100 pounds and is a foot taller than you. You might end up getting the real spanking.
SUNSHINE

AOL

#164 Sep 21, 2008
SPANK THE MONKEY.
Robin

United States

#165 Sep 21, 2008
I have two boys 2 1/2 and 7 and a 4yo girl. They all get spanked when needed. It works great,I tried other forms but none worked as well. I decided it would be straight to spanking for my third baby! In fact, my youngest was acting terrible at a pool party yesterday, I marched him in the bathroom and out of his bathing suit and over my lap. I tore his butt up! Now he's back to being mommy's little angel again. Spanking is great when done by a sensible and loving parent!
experienced mommy

United States

#166 Sep 21, 2008
I have two toddlers, a boy and a girl. They are beautiful children and quite well behaved. This is becuase they have been spanked. They get along great as well, they used to fuss with each other until their mommy found a cure...In fact, it is still my favorite correction method, two bare butts side by side over my lap at once. Just bare, position and smack away. It can work wonders;)

“Eats yer spinichk ?”

Since: Sep 08

CardboardBoxville

#167 Sep 22, 2008
Robin wrote:
I have two boys 2 1/2 and 7 and a 4yo girl. They all get spanked when needed. It works great,I tried other forms but none worked as well. I decided it would be straight to spanking for my third baby! In fact, my youngest was acting terrible at a pool party yesterday, I marched him in the bathroom and out of his bathing suit and over my lap. I tore his butt up! Now he's back to being mommy's little angel again. Spanking is great when done by a sensible and loving parent!
Dear LOVING parent...
You are joking, right ?

“Eats yer spinichk ?”

Since: Sep 08

CardboardBoxville

#168 Sep 22, 2008
I've said it before and I'll say it again:
Why is it that a Marine Drill Instructor can take FIFTY of your most unruly and dimwitted teenagers you can possibly find, and within about 2-3 months, turn them into well disciplined, honorable soldiers, standing tall and ready to serve our country. And on top of that, they are able to do this without laying a hand on a single one of them even once.
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Yet, some of you think it's absolutely necessary to smack your 5 year old around because he gets into some mischief.
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Think about it !!!
Cheryll

United States

#169 Sep 23, 2008
have spanked many a naughty children.
ELISABITH ANN

Orlando, FL

#170 Sep 25, 2008
I HAVE FOUR BEUTIFEL GIRLS AND 1 LITTLE BOY AGES OF MY DAUGHTERS 13 6 4 AND 3 AND SON 2 AND THEY KNOW THAT WHENEVER THEY DONT BEHAVE THAT MOMMY WILL BARE THERE LITTLE BEHINDS AND SPANK THEM AND NOW THAT MY 13 YEAR OLD IS OLD ENOUGH TO BABYSIT THEM SHE NOW SPANKS THERE LITTLE BARE BEHINDS WHENEVER THEY DONT BEHAVE AND TOLD ME THAT SHE GROWS UP AND BECOMES A MOM THAT WHENEVER HER KIDS DONT BEHAVE THAT SHE WILL SPANK THERE LITTLE BARE BEHINDS JUST LIKE YESTERDAY WHEN I WAS AT WORK AND MY 13 YEAR OLD WAS BABYSITTING AND MY 3 YEAR OLD DAUGHTER AND 2 YEAR OLD SON WERE NOT BEHAVEING SHE TOOK THEM INTO THE LADIES ROOM INTO ONE OF THE STALLS PULLED DOWN THERE JEAN SHORTS AND PANTIES AND SPANKED THERE BARE BEHINDS AND THEN CALLED ME AT WORK AND WHEN I GOT HOME I SPANKED THERE BARE BEHINDS
no way jose

Johnson City, TN

#171 Sep 26, 2008
I have never spanked my kids, and they are still perfect angels! They never do anything that a "I'll take your wii away faster than you can frown" can't cure, and that is on very rare occasions:). We are a very communicative family and I have never needed to hit them to get them to listen to me just a simple talk. They respect us and I guess thats all it takes for our kids, because it's working for us! That may not work for every one, just saying it works for us
samantha

United States

#172 Sep 28, 2008
my 3 year old was playing in the floor and was not listening well. i gave him several warnings and as he ignored me i walked over and smacked his thigh. he threw a major tantrum...so i pulled a chair over to him, and took off his clothes and folded them neatly over the couch. i put him over my knee and spanked him good. i also paddled him a little with my spoon. he spent the next thirty minutes in the corner. he's been good now for about two weeks. works for me.
Huh

Miami, FL

#173 Sep 28, 2008
David wrote:
I agree that spanking is abuse as someone else said before. In fact, I used to be spanked as a kid (I'm an adult now) and now, I'm living at home, lonely, always depressed, stress out over the littlest things, have problems in the home...hmmm, maybe spanking is NOT a good thing for kids. Obviously, no two kids are exactly the same, but perhaps parents who hit their kids, especially too often, can sometimes teach them that violence is okay. While I'm not a violent person, I do sometimes have a violent temper when I get angry. My family believes I should take anti-depressants because of this. So, is spanking good? I don't know about your family, but it's not good in mine.
I agree that you need to be on medication!!!
Especially if you are blaming all your problems as an adult on being spanked as a child. There is NOTHING wrong with a spanking if it is deserved. Yes, there is a difference in spanking and abuse...but spanking is NOT abuse. At some point you are going to have to grow up and deal with your life and stop blaming everything that happens to you in your life now on something that happened with you were 6. I am not trying to be mean but what you are saying is just insane.
Huh

Miami, FL

#174 Sep 28, 2008
samantha wrote:
my 3 year old was playing in the floor and was not listening well. i gave him several warnings and as he ignored me i walked over and smacked his thigh. he threw a major tantrum...so i pulled a chair over to him, and took off his clothes and folded them neatly over the couch. i put him over my knee and spanked him good. i also paddled him a little with my spoon. he spent the next thirty minutes in the corner. he's been good now for about two weeks. works for me.
Now here is an example of abuse. This is crossing the line. Stipping a child naked and spanking them is not only abuse but would come close to sexual abuse. You have NO reason to take all their clothes off. They can feel it just fine through pants, shorts, whatever. And it is unnecessary to use a wooden spoon on a naked bottom of a 3 year old. A swat or two with you hand through clothes is enough.
samantha

United States

#175 Sep 28, 2008
Huh wrote:
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Now here is an example of abuse. This is crossing the line. Stipping a child naked and spanking them is not only abuse but would come close to sexual abuse. You have NO reason to take all their clothes off. They can feel it just fine through pants, shorts, whatever. And it is unnecessary to use a wooden spoon on a naked bottom of a 3 year old. A swat or two with you hand through clothes is enough.
I don't think this is crossing the line at all. Little boy misbehaves and throws a tantrum after being warned and reasoned with...Mommy tears his butt up! Also he is 3, he doesn't run around in full formal dress every day. He was wearing overalls and undies, thats it. Enough to soften a spanking, and I didn't want them flopping around everywhere if I were to just pull them down. Much easier to remove them completely. Also it makes the spanking more formal, gets his full attention. And the wooden spoon has a great sting, but it is very light weight and perfectly sized for a little baby bottom. This used to be very normal, its how I was raised and my baby will be a respectable man oneday because his mommy loved him enough to paddle his little hiney red. I think that everyone has gotten to paranoid about this issue. If you don't like spanking, no problem but don't tell those that believe in it how to or not to spank. No one knows the love someone has of their child and they shouldn't be labled bad, unloving, mean, abusive, etc. because they choose to spank their children how they see fit. I respect your opinion but do not agree.

“THE DEVIL DOGS ARE GOING TO DC”

Since: May 08

Portland, Oregon

#176 Sep 28, 2008
Spanking a child can be done in a way to merely divert his/her attention. Pain need not be a factor. Worked just fine with my two. They learned early, so remedial spankings were no longer necessary past the toddler age. Communicating on a level they understand and respect is important.

“losers nit pick on topix”

Since: Jul 07

Earth

#177 Sep 28, 2008
in my day, you got hit with whatever was loose, handy and within throwing distance. there was no calling cps or telling the teacher. kids these days work the system to their advantage.

i don't whoop, spank, or beat my 3yr old, but a nice pinch on his butt or thigh and he gets the point. these days children need "demonstrations" not "presentations"
Grandma Rebecca

United States

#178 Sep 30, 2008
I am a grandma that has two grandchildren, a boy and a girl, both are toddlers. They live in the city and I live out on a large ranch that I own and operate. I had my two grandbabies come and stay with me through the summer. I was excited to keep them. But I insisted to their mother not to pack them to many clothes because I wanted them to be able to play naked while they were on the farm with me. Since they're from the city, I knew they didn't get to do this and so I kept them all natural most of the time. They loved it and it came in handy for me to. Something else they were not used to was discipline. Whenever they misbehaved, grandmommy put them over her lap and spanked their little bare behinds! And I mean I spanked, not a little pop or swat...I put them over my lap(mostly naked) and smacked their butts until I was satisfied. If we were near the house I would use a spoon to paddle them, if not just my hand. They cried and cried but they were fine once it was over. By the time they left their behavior was great, and we were very close. They didn't want to leave! I think spanking works great!

“STUPIDITY HAS NO PREJUDICE”

Level 1

Since: Jul 08

Location hidden

#179 Sep 30, 2008
I believe in spanking when it is necessary. There are other ways to discipline kids that can work better than spanking but sometimes a good old fashioned spanking is required.

“losers nit pick on topix”

Since: Jul 07

Earth

#180 Sep 30, 2008
Whiskey Tango Foxtrott wrote:
I've said it before and I'll say it again:
Why is it that a Marine Drill Instructor can take FIFTY of your most unruly and dimwitted teenagers you can possibly find, and within about 2-3 months, turn them into well disciplined, honorable soldiers, standing tall and ready to serve our country. And on top of that, they are able to do this without laying a hand on a single one of them even once.
-
Yet, some of you think it's absolutely necessary to smack your 5 year old around because he gets into some mischief.
-
Think about it !!!
spare the rod, spoil the child. better you teach them than the law. i wouldn't say "smack" per say, but a good swat on the behind won't hurt, kill, or abuse the child.
WantingTruth

Zephyrhills, FL

#181 Oct 6, 2008
My dad spanked me till I was 16. Up to age 10 it was always bare-bottom, you know pants/undies down around your ankles. I hated it. It was embarrassing. My dad would give me a speech before the spanking, of course while I was standing there bare-bottom and it was humiliating...I would rather for him to just spank me and then talk to me after my pants were back up. But although I hated it back then, I see it was the best thing for me. I learned to follow his rules and stay away from drugs and alcohol. I learned obedience. I would never think about disobeying him because not only did I have the spanking to dread, but also the whole standing there with my pants/undies down in front of him while listening to him give me a lecture.
At age 10 I got my last bare-bottom spanking. After that and up till age 16, I kept my pants up but the spankings were more severe. My dad made a paddle with holes in it and the swats were increased to about 20. Looking back I thank my parents for what they did because it saved me from a lot of trouble.

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