Do you or have you spanked your child...
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#552 Sep 1, 2013
Susan wrote:
HI
Have just read your thoughts on spanking. This was in 2009 when your little boy was 2 1/2 so now he would be 7 I presume.
Have you found that you still need to spank him sometimes? If so May I ask how you do it, is it still bare bottomed over your knee and is hand only used. To all other moms I am age 32 from Canada where spanking is still legal, have a girl and boy whop are still subject to a firm spanking when needed. I do not use implements but all spankings are to bare bottoms whilst draped across my knee<quoted text>
"I do not use implements but all spankings are to bare bottoms whilst draped across my knee"

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#553 Sep 1, 2013
Big Time wrote:
Whipp them if you want to, just a sign that you have failed as parent,...
whipping a kid is definitely a sign of failed parenting. But I question your comment and wonder if your also referring to spanking your child.
I am in total agreement that if anyone feels using a belt, paddle, switch, or any other instrument to administer punishment upon their child then they need a ass whooping. I will however say that some children need a smack on their ass once In awhile to bring them back to reality. Just like when a child refuses to listen when you tell them not to touch something and you smack their hand. Suddenly you have their attention. And I say some children, because not all children are that way. I can honestly say I have never once had to spank my oldest daughter. She just had the sense to know when enough was enough.
It has always been a last resort after repeated warnings, and I've found that standing them in a corner is usually the best way to get their attention. I wonder though when that also will be questionable as being appropriate or not.
I'm not for whipping kids by any means, and feel there is definitely a fine line between discipline and abuse. Being a good parent is to know when your about to cross that line.
And just so you know Big Time, I'm only replying to your comment, and respect your opinion so I hope I haven't offended you. I enjoy your posts.

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#554 Sep 1, 2013
liam cul8r wrote:
<quoted text>whipping a kid is definitely a sign of failed parenting. But I question your comment and wonder if your also referring to spanking your child.
I am in total agreement that if anyone feels using a belt, paddle, switch, or any other instrument to administer punishment upon their child then they need a ass whooping. I will however say that some children need a smack on their ass once In awhile to bring them back to reality. Just like when a child refuses to listen when you tell them not to touch something and you smack their hand. Suddenly you have their attention. And I say some children, because not all children are that way. I can honestly say I have never once had to spank my oldest daughter. She just had the sense to know when enough was enough.
It has always been a last resort after repeated warnings, and I've found that standing them in a corner is usually the best way to get their attention. I wonder though when that also will be questionable as being appropriate or not.
I'm not for whipping kids by any means, and feel there is definitely a fine line between discipline and abuse. Being a good parent is to know when your about to cross that line.
And just so you know Big Time, I'm only replying to your comment, and respect your opinion so I hope I haven't offended you. I enjoy your posts.



I didn't get whipped, I was talked to, same as I did with my Kids,...Need to be sure and do what you say and always give them the reason behind your actions. Of course I found out in my "When I was young Life was so wonderful" thread I have been dealt a better hand than some. You are correct on getting to what motivates them and of course those values are ones you should have instilled.

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#555 Sep 1, 2013
Yes...but I hated it...I think I cried more than he did...:(
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#557 Oct 24, 2013
Whiskey Tango Foxtrott wrote:
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Dear LOVING parent...
You are joking, right ?
THE BEST WAY TO GIVE A SPANKING IS TO KNOW THE ROUTINE HAVE THEM OR YOU AS PARENTS SPANK THAT BEHIND OVER THE LAP MAKE THEM LAY STILL GIRLS MOVE MORE THAN US GUYS DO TAKE YOUR HAND AND SWATR THAT BARE TUSH HARD 3 FOUR TIMES AND MAKE THEM OBEY AND CRY A LITTLE I KNOW OF PARENTS WHO CRIED WHILE SPANKING SO BOTH CRIED GIRL BOY CRIED WHEN PARENTS CRIED EVEN TEENAGERS GET SPANKED AND CRIED MAKE TYHEM FEEL THE PAIN. j bAKER JR 712912 PEARL COLS IN 47202

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#558 Oct 24, 2013
Can't keep 'em in line 'less you beat them regularly!!

(Just kidding!)

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#559 Oct 24, 2013
Kind of thought you were full of sh!t

liam cul8r wrote:
<quoted text>whipping a kid is definitely a sign of failed parenting. But I question your comment and wonder if your also referring to spanking your child.
I am in total agreement that if anyone feels using a belt, paddle, switch, or any other instrument to administer punishment upon their child then they need a ass whooping. I will however say that some children need a smack on their ass once In awhile to bring them back to reality. Just like when a child refuses to listen when you tell them not to touch something and you smack their hand. Suddenly you have their attention. And I say some children, because not all children are that way. I can honestly say I have never once had to spank my oldest daughter. She just had the sense to know when enough was enough.
It has always been a last resort after repeated warnings, and I've found that standing them in a corner is usually the best way to get their attention. I wonder though when that also will be questionable as being appropriate or not.
I'm not for whipping kids by any means, and feel there is definitely a fine line between discipline and abuse. Being a good parent is to know when your about to cross that line.
And just so you know Big Time, I'm only replying to your comment, and respect your opinion so I hope I haven't offended you. I enjoy your posts.

“I'll just kick me down a wall,”

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And walk outa here!

#560 Oct 25, 2013
Big Time wrote:
Kind of thought you were full of sh!t
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ditto

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