Things men should not do

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#9721 Mar 10, 2014
Petal Power wrote:
<quoted text> Nah.. Don't agree with THAT!! When two people in LOVE..Get Married... They are STARTING out Fresh..Which Means..Together they Will Create their Life together.. By Pooling the earned money to Furnish the house, Buy Food, etc.
Marriage takes Two to Tangle.. Doing things TOGETHER Makes a Marriage LAST through the UP'S and DOWN'S of LIFE Itself!!
;)
It's suppose to work like that but it doesn't all the time..An elder man(my neighbor) once said to me..so-so(my husband's name) has it made and doesn't realize it.That I put 90 % into the marriage and hubby only 10 %...another even said I thought she would leave you since you quit your job.....you better keep her...Things happens in a marriage that makes things different and difficult..I say..take care of yourself even if you are married..

“Hippie Single DAD, vet, Honest”

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#9722 Mar 10, 2014
Hmmm. I agree with most everything above about split property & TOGETHER property.
Now I think most of use saying anything here are probably working folks also. IF we were discussing VERY lg. assets then no doubt A LOT is different. & that depends on what state you live in also.
I liked the neighbors view on things :).
I was married for 20 plus yrs. & ALWAYS split EVERYTHING,
worked non stop for 25 yrs.,BUT just the opposite ,in a very short time ,third parties somehow convinced my former spouse, I WAS controlling EVERYTHING ? LOL LOL LOL ,still funny,
I HAD DIRECT DEPOSIT ON A JOINT ACCOUNT ,OFTEN WITH 3 JOBS,plus side work,& in the end owned 3 properties, 4 vehicles & never even had a drivers licence lol.,used a 20 thousand $ ins. payout to set up a college fund & fund to cover all further property taxes & ins. "just in case" plus MY 401 k .
I leaned ONE thing "just in case " DOES happen & real fast sometimes.
On topic ,just for men ? Being A MAN & having manners,I guess there might still be a place for a John Wayne or two in the world. Rick

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Here, There, and Everywhere,..

#9723 Mar 10, 2014
Like Pull "IT" Out Before The Swelling Goes Down,...

“Hippie Single DAD, vet, Honest”

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#9724 Mar 11, 2014
I know I rambled a bit. BUT left out a lot. I know what being A MAN
is all about though. For those other connections that were discussed. I "feel" this sums it up pretty good. Rick
In Spite Of Ourselves - John Prine, Iris DeMent

http://youtu.be/fRb1h989_jk

Enzo49

“Vintage 1949”

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...lightly salted...

#9725 Mar 11, 2014
...suppress their animal instincts...

Petal Power

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#9726 Mar 11, 2014
Tug at a Woman's Arm..To Hurty her along.

GET YOUR FREAKIN' HOOKS OFF ME, DUDE!!

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#9727 Mar 11, 2014
Sublime1 wrote:
<quoted text>
What if he comes into it with a lot more than you have? Sounds like you've been with losers.
My wife and I have one bank account that we share. What's mine is hers.
If he came into the marriage with more than me..than he can keep it...But if I bust my azz to have what WE have you better believe I'm getting my share especially if we had problems before and I was gonna give it all to him just for him to be on this way...Even what I had before we got together....But he says that is way too easy..Hell,he ask for it..He will have a fight on his hand.....LMAO..we have 2 joint account and he doesn't even know how to write a check out or do anything else.I take care of everything.....I'm not as dumb as I may look..He knows that...It would be nice to share things equally.
babygotback

Vinton, VA

#9728 Mar 11, 2014
push their luck..

Petal Power

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#9729 Mar 11, 2014
honeymylove wrote:
<quoted text>If he came into the marriage with more than me..than he can keep it...But if I bust my azz to have what WE have you better believe I'm getting my share especially if we had problems before and I was gonna give it all to him just for him to be on this way...Even what I had before we got together....But he says that is way too easy..Hell,he ask for it..He will have a fight on his hand.....LMAO..we have 2 joint account and he doesn't even know how to write a check out or do anything else.I take care of everything.....I'm not as dumb as I may look..He knows that...It would be nice to share things equally.
Chick..Did ya EVER think to SHOW him HOW to write a CHECK or use a Credit Card?? Material things CAN hold a spouse back..IF they are UNHAPPY in the Marriage..If you are RENTING.. LEAVE IT!! If you both OWN the Home Abd WANT out of the Marriage..Get new places to live..DIVIDE all the possessions and SELL the House!! And START your NEW Lives...Separately!!

Petal Power

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#9730 Mar 11, 2014
...GO through LIFE..NOT knowing HOW to Write a Check,!

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#9731 Mar 12, 2014
Petal Power wrote:
<quoted text> Chick..Did ya EVER think to SHOW him HOW to write a CHECK or use a Credit Card?? Material things CAN hold a spouse back..IF they are UNHAPPY in the Marriage..If you are RENTING.. LEAVE IT!! If you both OWN the Home Abd WANT out of the Marriage..Get new places to live..DIVIDE all the possessions and SELL the House!! And START your NEW Lives...Separately!!
I've tried to show him how to write a check....and that's not all.

Petal Power

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#9732 Mar 12, 2014
honeymylove wrote:
<quoted text>I've tried to show him how to write a check....and that's not all.
Does he REALLY need to know that? Perhaps, You should take him to the Bank..And maybe, he'll GRASP it better.

WHAT is this Thread again..oh Yeah!!

FLASH...Teenage Girls!!!

GROSS!!

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#9733 Mar 13, 2014
Petal Power wrote:
<quoted text> Does he REALLY need to know that? Perhaps, You should take him to the Bank..And maybe, he'll GRASP it better.
WHAT is this Thread again..oh Yeah!!
FLASH...Teenage Girls!!!
GROSS!!
Got it girl and he kinda does now..LMAO

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#9734 Mar 13, 2014
Play games with a woman...especially one who know how to play the game better.
and angel said to him

Castroville, TX

#9735 Mar 13, 2014
things men should not do.... they shoud always believe you even if you are crazy because the woman is just trying to prove that she is the real deal ! thank you milk and honey

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#9737 Mar 13, 2014
Men should not tell a woman that he loves her unless he really does.

“Understand people,”

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you must, understand people.

#9738 Mar 15, 2014
Petal Power wrote:
Take ADVANTAGE of ANY Woman..and Make her CRY!!
PR!CKS!!
Now she would know what to be watchful for. Advantages only come to how much was laid on the shelf. Only put in 3 ounces instead of 10. Make it a good 3 ounces with child proof opening. Takes longer for the curious one who would take advantage of ten. Next, she can watch the shelves empty as she plans her inventory of 4 ounces to put on the shelf. After a while she will be so good that she can offer bozos BOGOs.

Keep track of inventory and be inventive instead of selling so much so quick.

“Understand people,”

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you must, understand people.

#9739 Mar 15, 2014
honeymylove wrote:
Men should not tell a woman that he loves her unless he really does.
Actions speak louder than words. The words are the rebates after the sell. Doesnt make since to offer a rebate on what did not sell.

Double check those receipts, you sexy creatures...and make a tax write off with them.

“Understand people,”

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you must, understand people.

#9740 Mar 15, 2014
I spelled sense wrong again...
a man should not forget how to spell correctly.
and a man should not be afraid to mention his mistakes. It shows he is thinking. ;)

Enzo49

“Vintage 1949”

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...lightly salted...

#9741 Mar 15, 2014
...anything... cause deep down we all know that no matter what we do, we're gonna hang for it someday...

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