***happy, are ya truly ???***

“I'll just kick me down a wall,”

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#23 May 16, 2013
Cindy 3900 wrote:
<quoted text>
Easy? No. There are those who become chronically depressed and I do not believe that to be a choice but more of a condition (and thankfully, in most cases, a treatable one). But for the lucky ones who do not fall into that category, what choice do they have but to move on and find some reason to go on; finding some reason to be happy again? I'm sure it must seem impossible for a time but if you do not make that choice eventually, you are doomed to a miserable life ahead of you.
I know people who have lost children who adapted and seem to have bounced back. One lady I know has her profile picture on facebook set as her deceased daughter's picture. It tears at my heart to look at it because she was a friend of mine but it's how she copes. I think we all have to have coping mechanisms, even if a tragedy doesn't happen in our lives. There's just too much bad in the world around us. Pray about the bad and choose to be happy despite it all.
Am I truly happy? Yes. Everyday? Hell no!
But your comment goes much deeper than that Cindy.
When I look at my oldest daughters pictures of when she was young she seemed so happy, but now in her older pictures I can see her smile has changed. She suffers from OCD and she worries herself into tears almost every night. Breaks my heart and I don't know why she has to go through this.
She's a straight A student, and a beautiful little girl, but suffering on the inside.
I could really really talk about this but my point is, that I agree with you.

“Dancin' in the Rain”

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#24 May 16, 2013
liam cul8r wrote:
<quoted text>Am I truly happy? Yes. Everyday? Hell no!
But your comment goes much deeper than that Cindy.
When I look at my oldest daughters pictures of when she was young she seemed so happy, but now in her older pictures I can see her smile has changed. She suffers from OCD and she worries herself into tears almost every night. Breaks my heart and I don't know why she has to go through this.
She's a straight A student, and a beautiful little girl, but suffering on the inside.
I could really really talk about this but my point is, that I agree with you.
I didn't really think my comment went so much deeper than that. I kinda thought that was the point. No one is happy every day. I get in my depressed moods once in a while. And honestly have been known to stay in them for way too long .. sometimes without even a good reason. It's human nature I think. But underneath all of it, I am happy, too. It's sort of complicated I guess.

But it's true that some people deal with it better or differently than others. I am sorry to hear that about your daughter. I wish I had some words of wisdom to share with ya. Unfortunately, I don't. My daughter went through a long phase of depression, too, though so I have an idea what you're going through. We can talk if you want. Just inbox me. Sometimes talking helps. And you said you could Really Really talk. We can kind of share our stories. If I don't hear from you, just know that you are doing the best you can for her by simply being there for her.

“ROCK ON ROCKERS!!”

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Rockin' USA ;)

#25 May 16, 2013
You BETCHA... I will be as soon. AS I Step into the Shower...Ahhhhhh...

“I know where you are,”

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Right here under my thumb

#27 May 23, 2013
God d*mn it, I'm so f*ckin' happy I could sh*t!!!

Laura Beth

Since: Aug 09

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#28 May 23, 2013
milwaukee69 wrote:
God d*mn it, I'm so f*ckin' happy I could sh*t!!!
Oh no you don't. I am the only one here tht gave a shite. LOL....how are you F*&%er ?

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#29 May 23, 2013
Laura Beth wrote:
<quoted text>Oh no you don't. I am the only one here tht gave a shite. LOL....how are you F*&%er ?
Hey you old c*cks*cker, how've ya' f*ckin' been?!!

Laura Beth

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#30 May 23, 2013
milwaukee69 wrote:
<quoted text>
Hey you old c*cks*cker, how've ya' f*ckin' been?!!
c*cks*cker ? Well yes. I am doing f*69King good. lol

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#31 May 23, 2013
In my 1st marriage I was unhappy and felt trapped. When I divorced him I felt scared, vulnerable and worried for my kids. Now I can say I am HAPPY. I feel content, cared for, safe and free.
I have my church, family, many friends and a good man.
YAHOO!!!

“I know where you are,”

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#32 May 23, 2013
Laura Beth wrote:
<quoted text> c*cks*cker ? Well yes. I am doing f*69King good. lol
Great f*ckin' news!!! I'm so f*ckin' God d*mn happy that you're so f*ckin' good!!!

:o)

Laura Beth

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#33 May 23, 2013
quilterqueen wrote:
In my 1st marriage I was unhappy and felt trapped. When I divorced him I felt scared, vulnerable and worried for my kids. Now I can say I am HAPPY. I feel content, cared for, safe and free.
I have my church, family, many friends and a good man.
YAHOO!!!
Glad to read this.I saw what you said about Your first husband

“I know where you are,”

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#35 May 23, 2013
Well I was really God d*mned f*ckin' happy until "leathery, chaffed and liver-spotted" reared its f*ckin' ugly head.

Who in f*ck left the cage unlocked?

“..i can't STAND her....and”

Since: Jun 08

...i don't want him..WTF?.....

#36 May 23, 2013
...i'm as happy as if i was in my right mind....
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#37 May 23, 2013
Goldfish crackers make me happy because they're the snack that smiles back.
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#38 May 23, 2013
Old Sam wrote:
...i'm as happy as if i was in my right mind....
ignorance and insanity is bliss Sammy..
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#39 May 23, 2013
reebie wrote:
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ignorance and insanity is bliss Sammy..
And chocolate.
Ed Muntin

Huntington, NY

#40 May 23, 2013
milwaukee69 wrote:
Well I was really God d*mned f*ckin' happy until "leathery, chaffed and liver-spotted" reared its f*ckin' ugly head.
Who in f*ck left the cage unlocked?
Bewahahahahaaaaa!!!!!!
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#41 May 23, 2013
Would ya'all please take all the [email protected] cursewords to the [email protected] "who gives a [email protected] thread" ???
its [email protected] offputting ..

:)

“I'll just kick me down a wall,”

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And walk outa here!

#42 May 23, 2013
reebie wrote:
Would ya'all please take all the [email protected] cursewords to the [email protected] "who gives a [email protected] thread" ???
its [email protected] offputting ..
:)
well fu€k!ng said!

“you're not the boss of me!”

Since: Jan 08

the road less traveled.....

#43 May 31, 2013
yep. I am.

“ROCK ON ROCKERS!!”

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Rockin' USA ;)

#44 May 31, 2013
HELL YEAH...Loooooove Sleepovers!!!

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