anyone feel desperate about your kid

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Caroline126

San Francisco, CA

#1 Mar 9, 2013
I feel desperate even regretful. My kid makes me crazy very often,he doesn't obey my saying and does bad things.
For example, he seems to be addicted to pixar cars and always refuses to eat dinner with us, if we reinforced him, he will cry and shout very loudly.
He pretends his finger as a gun and "shoot" to others even adults around us. These kinds of things make me feel I didn't teach him well.

“ROCK ON ROCKERS!!”

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Since: Mar 11

Rockin' USA ;)

#2 Mar 9, 2013
Caroline126 wrote:
I feel desperate even regretful. My kid makes me crazy very often,he doesn't obey my saying and does bad things.
For example, he seems to be addicted to pixar cars and always refuses to eat dinner with us, if we reinforced him, he will cry and shout very loudly.
He pretends his finger as a gun and "shoot" to others even adults around us. These kinds of things make me feel I didn't teach him well.
Chick, Just HOW "OLD" is your kid?? If he is that age, or close.. Reprimand him...YOU are the FREAKIN' parents!! That's Is WHAT is wrong with today's children raising children..YOU..are NOT his playmate.. YOU are his PARENT!! START acting like one!!
Caroline126

San Francisco, CA

#3 Mar 9, 2013
Three years old. Please allow me ask specifically. His interests became very narrow since met with those cars(pixar).He always asks to watch that on youtube. And once he starts, he doesn't care about anything else. Although I spent time to play with him, it didn't work.
what' the problem?

“ROCK ON ROCKERS!!”

Level 8

Since: Mar 11

Rockin' USA ;)

#4 Mar 9, 2013
Caroline126 wrote:
Three years old. Please allow me ask specifically. His interests became very narrow since met with those cars(pixar).He always asks to watch that on youtube. And once he starts, he doesn't care about anything else. Although I spent time to play with him, it didn't work.
what' the problem?
Guidelines, Chick!! THREE FREAKIN' YEARS OLD!!!... Just don't give in to his every whim!! He is STILL in training pants... He's A Toddler!!!!! ACT LIKE the PARENT!!
Onacrackerwchees e

Denton, TX

#5 Mar 9, 2013
Caroline126 wrote:
Three years old. Please allow me ask specifically. His interests became very narrow since met with those cars(pixar).He always asks to watch that on youtube. And once he starts, he doesn't care about anything else. Although I spent time to play with him, it didn't work.
what' the problem?
Your too stupid to breed. it is clear you have passed on the retarded gene to your spawn. go get yourself and your future welfare recipient sterilized. Along with the monkey that donated enough sperm to swim through your infected pus filled vagina to find that rotten egg and turned it into a semblance of a humanoid life form.
Caroline126

San Francisco, CA

#6 Mar 9, 2013
Onacrackerwcheese wrote:
<quoted text>Your too stupid to breed. it is clear you have passed on the retarded gene to your spawn. go get yourself and your future welfare recipient sterilized. Along with the monkey that donated enough sperm to swim through your infected pus filled vagina to find that rotten egg and turned it into a semblance of a humanoid life form.
It sounds like you never got into any problems. Do you really enjoy your life? Are you the only wise person just needs to laugh at the clueless ones?
Caroline126

San Francisco, CA

#7 Mar 9, 2013
Colorado Chick wrote:
<quoted text> Guidelines, Chick!! THREE FREAKIN' YEARS OLD!!!... Just don't give in to his every whim!! He is STILL in training pants... He's A Toddler!!!!! ACT LIKE the PARENT!!
You are right. I should change myself more. Thanks.

Since: Feb 09

Location hidden

#8 Mar 10, 2013
Caroline126 wrote:
Three years old. Please allow me ask specifically. His interests became very narrow since met with those cars(pixar).He always asks to watch that on youtube. And once he starts, he doesn't care about anything else. Although I spent time to play with him, it didn't work.
what' the problem?
hes only 3?
u aint seen nothing yet.
lol

i agree with Chick - ur the parent, act like one.

“near Halloween.”

Level 8

Since: Dec 06

#9 Mar 10, 2013
Caroline126 wrote:
I feel desperate even regretful. My kid makes me crazy very often,he doesn't obey my saying and does bad things.
For example, he seems to be addicted to pixar cars and always refuses to eat dinner with us, if we reinforced him, he will cry and shout very loudly.
He pretends his finger as a gun and "shoot" to others even adults around us. These kinds of things make me feel I didn't teach him well.
Mothering is such an important role,
and it's something there is NO specific
training for in advance;
I know a lot comes from instinct but
another lot comes from how one has
been reared oneself .. which may, not
always, have been ideal [speaking generally]

You were right to ask for opinion here,
and I, personally think, verbally abusive posts
like #5 her, are of no help whatsoever..

We are all open to learning 'all the time'

here's a link that you 'might' find somewhat useful..

and

All the very best in the future for YOU and your
child.

Dr Fill

Medford, NY

#10 Mar 10, 2013
No Pixar anything until he starts behaving.

You act nicely, you listen, you act nice to others......you get some Pixar. If not, no Pixar.

OK, done.

Next!!!
phaines

Big Bear Lake, CA

#11 Mar 10, 2013
no,mine are adults....they've made their choices.
unfortunately , they are going to have to learn "life lessons" through experience.{which I'm sure they are....lol}
phaines

Big Bear Lake, CA

#12 Mar 10, 2013
I dont have time to play "mother matriarch" because ' then their problems will become mine ..and I'll get the "privilege" of being "grandma babysitter" ....lol

Level 9

Since: Nov 10

Powellton WV

#13 Mar 10, 2013
Caroline126 wrote:
Three years old. Please allow me ask specifically. His interests became very narrow since met with those cars(pixar).He always asks to watch that on youtube. And once he starts, he doesn't care about anything else. Although I spent time to play with him, it didn't work.
what' the problem?
Nothing to be desperate about yet.
He's three...now the real training begins.

He is getting to be old enough to understand
discipline and respecting his parents.
Be firm and consistent.
Don't hit him but correct him. Let him know
there are consequences for his actions.

Kids don't come w/an owners manual. You go
to the hospital pregnant and they send you home
w/this tiny little thing and say.. good luck:)
But you figure it out as you go.
After the second one things get much easier. lol

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