True Love--What every Gal wants...

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#43 Dec 11, 2013
true love is none of the BS that people think it is, especially woman.
its not about the Big wedding, not about the Big house, not about how much Sex ur gonna get.
Definitely not about being blissfully happy for 24/7 - not about thinking ur mate can read ur mind as to what u want or need, none of that is love.
that's just selfish crap that You yourself may want out of love.

real love is about being with someone that u can accept - faults and all - its about actually Liking a person and wanting to spend time with, but without smothering them to death with all ur silly stupid needs.
the Me Me Me attitude has to go..

IMO people need to get their head out of the clouds and just remember what it was that first made u notice ur spouse, remember that young couple u use to be and keep that alive - then any problems that happens throughout ur married life can be solved.
but first u have to want it. first u have to remember u are no longer a Me but a WE!

jeez its not that hard either!

:/

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#44 Dec 11, 2013
Nobody 2 Special wrote:
As for his money....If he wants to put a new car in m driveway on Christmas...I will be sure to show my appreciation. If all he wants to give me is a text and a hug, well so be it. I feel that his time and attention are priceless! I don't need much materially, what I want is way more important than money!
I'd be weary of a man who would voluntarily smother you to that degree. There is likely to be a huge downside to all that, that you are not considering. Too much dependence.

I couldn't be with someone who was so dependent upon me to make her happy. You say you are happy ... but if you were truly happy, you wouldn't need someone who is so beholden to you. Someone who compliments you, someone who you enjoy spending time with, and someone who treats you fairly and with love (Not the smothering sort), would not be so awful.

It's not any guys job to make you happy ... make yourself happy. Fix yourself, don't ask a man to fix you or make you happy.

You are a complete contradiction in my assessment.

“I'll just kick me down a wall,”

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And walk outa here!

#45 Dec 11, 2013
Princess Hey wrote:
no such thing as true love..none...oh yes and not every woman is out for your wallet and your money.just treat her like she is a person and somebody..the little things mean alot...
you caught me off guard with that response princess. Not only because I disagree with you about there being no such thing as true love, but mostly because I thought you would of remembered the love of Jesus.
your love for your children is true love, you'll find there aren't any sacrifices you wouldn't make for them.
When I met my wife I knew in my heart that no one would ever love me the way she would. That's what true love feels like when you receive it. I would take her place in any situation to keep her from hurt or pain, that's what giving true love is.
I believe in true love and feel if you search your soul a little more you'll find you do too.
<3

“Standin' In A”

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#46 Dec 11, 2013
PFfff wrote:
true love is none of the BS that people think it is, especially woman.
its not about the Big wedding, not about the Big house, not about how much Sex ur gonna get.
Definitely not about being blissfully happy for 24/7 - not about thinking ur mate can read ur mind as to what u want or need, none of that is love.
that's just selfish crap that You yourself may want out of love.
real love is about being with someone that u can accept - faults and all - its about actually Liking a person and wanting to spend time with, but without smothering them to death with all ur silly stupid needs.
the Me Me Me attitude has to go..
IMO people need to get their head out of the clouds and just remember what it was that first made u notice ur spouse, remember that young couple u use to be and keep that alive - then any problems that happens throughout ur married life can be solved.
but first u have to want it. first u have to remember u are no longer a Me but a WE!
jeez its not that hard either!
:/
lol
Kind of like your job. How many people are truly in love with their job?
I was just thinking about that in the bathroom this morning.

“Standin' In A”

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Since: May 11

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#47 Dec 11, 2013
I'm not very religious, but, if there is a God, it seems like he made somebody for everybody.
Sometimes it's hard to find them though.

“Don't worry about me, I"m fine”

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#48 Dec 11, 2013
razz58 wrote:
<quoted text>
If he wants to put a new car in m driveway on Christmas...I will be sure to show my appreciation.
What might that be.
Since my prince exists only in my mind, there will be no new car. So it doesn't matter. As for those of you out there judging me, the thread is " what every woman wants" that is what I posted, it is not about how I would treat him. This is only what I want.

“Don't worry about me, I"m fine”

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#49 Dec 11, 2013
Sublime1 wrote:
<quoted text>
I'd be weary of a man who would voluntarily smother you to that degree. There is likely to be a huge downside to all that, that you are not considering. Too much dependence.
I couldn't be with someone who was so dependent upon me to make her happy. You say you are happy ... but if you were truly happy, you wouldn't need someone who is so beholden to you. Someone who compliments you, someone who you enjoy spending time with, and someone who treats you fairly and with love (Not the smothering sort), would not be so awful.
It's not any guys job to make you happy ... make yourself happy. Fix yourself, don't ask a man to fix you or make you happy.
You are a complete contradiction in my assessment.
I have said repeatedly that I KNOW this prince exists only in my mind. I am not seeking anybody, nor do I need anybody to be happy. Like I have previously said---the title of the thread is "What women want" NOT "what women get or can expect"
sacrifice

Philadelphia, PA

#50 Dec 11, 2013
To achieve true love, all you need to do is sacrifice yourself to your man.

“Don't worry about me, I"m fine”

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Since: Aug 13

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#51 Dec 11, 2013
sacrifice wrote:
To achieve true love, all you need to do is sacrifice yourself to your man.
oh, PLLLLLEEAAASE!

I will be so much happier single!

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#52 Dec 11, 2013
Nobody 2 Special wrote:
<quoted text>
I have said repeatedly that I KNOW this prince exists only in my mind. I am not seeking anybody, nor do I need anybody to be happy. Like I have previously said---the title of the thread is "What women want" NOT "what women get or can expect"
It is very odd to want to be smothered to that degree, IMO.

“ IT'S A CHOICE !!!”

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#53 Dec 11, 2013
PFfff wrote:
true love is none of the BS that people think it is, especially woman.
its not about the Big wedding, not about the Big house, not about how much Sex ur gonna get.
Definitely not about being blissfully happy for 24/7 - not about thinking ur mate can read ur mind as to what u want or need, none of that is love.
that's just selfish crap that You yourself may want out of love.
real love is about being with someone that u can accept - faults and all - its about actually Liking a person and wanting to spend time with, but without smothering them to death with all ur silly stupid needs.
the Me Me Me attitude has to go..
IMO people need to get their head out of the clouds and just remember what it was that first made u notice ur spouse, remember that young couple u use to be and keep that alive - then any problems that happens throughout ur married life can be solved.
but first u have to want it. first u have to remember u are no longer a Me but a WE!
jeez its not that hard either!
:/
...well said!:) True happiness comes from J.O.Y

J- Jesus first
O- Others second
Y- Yourself last

Just my way of thinking, that's all...:)

Have a great day PFfff!!!
sacrifice

Philadelphia, PA

#54 Dec 11, 2013
Nobody 2 Special wrote:
<quoted text>
oh, PLLLLLEEAAASE!
I will be so much happier single!
Hi,

It's the Universal Law of Love. Thats just how it works. Similar to how the planets revolves around the sun. What is a little sacrifice to your man to achieve True Love.
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Since: Oct 12

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#55 Dec 11, 2013
sacrifice wrote:
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Hi,
It's the Universal Law of Love. Thats just how it works. Similar to how the planets revolves around the sun. What is a little sacrifice to your man to achieve True Love.
Totally right on. Like my mom would say, while serving fried chicken: Here's your sacrifice for tonight.
I bought it at the alter of Winn Dixie. Now hurry up and eat it. Don't forget to take out the trash before you come to bed.

;)

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#56 Dec 11, 2013
I remember asking when I was a child how I would know when I was truly in love. Over and over I was always told you will know.

Just me! That was one of the first phrases I remember my spouse saying. Let me explain......I started working in an office where my spouse worked. He would yell just me when coming in the front door if neither of the two secretaries were at their desks. He always had some strange reason for coming into my office too.

:)

Thanks for the memory!

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Rockin' USA ;)

#57 Dec 11, 2013
Fisherman 808 wrote:
I'm not very religious, but, if there is a God, it seems like he made somebody for everybody.
Sometimes it's hard to find them though.
BULLCRAP!! HANG THAT MISTLETOE FROOM YOYR NOSE!! AND wear a sign..KISS ME TOAD!!! I AM YOUR TRUE LOVE!!

“Standin' In A”

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#58 Dec 11, 2013
I'm speechless.
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#59 Dec 11, 2013
“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.” —I Corinthians 13:4-8a (NIV)

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Almost Half Way There...

#60 Dec 11, 2013
liam cul8r wrote:
<quoted text>you caught me off guard with that response princess. Not only because I disagree with you about there being no such thing as true love, but mostly because I thought you would of remembered the love of Jesus.
your love for your children is true love, you'll find there aren't any sacrifices you wouldn't make for them.
When I met my wife I knew in my heart that no one would ever love me the way she would. That's what true love feels like when you receive it. I would take her place in any situation to keep her from hurt or pain, that's what giving true love is.
I believe in true love and feel if you search your soul a little more you'll find you do too.
<3
the true love I am referring to has nothing to do with my children or my love for the Lord..its all different..my love for my children is uncondtional love ...the love for my Lord comes first..my number one in my life..with out him Im nothing to no one else...true love I mention is the love for a man..I will not even go there..I have my reasons so I will not even mention it..the only place I would take is the place of my children..
Ami in Miami

Miami, FL

#61 Dec 11, 2013
More like...what every Gal REALLY wants after a Gal didn't get what she really, really wanted.
Ami in Miami

Miami, FL

#62 Dec 11, 2013
Everything returned, in kind, that I give him.

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