Guys: do you prefer over-definition or softness in a woman? read 1st comment!

Created by queenanne93 on Mar 5, 2012

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Yeah, I like 'em buff

Soft is so much better

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“the posterchild of awesomeness”

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#1 Mar 5, 2012
Yes, I already tried making this a thread, but people didn't seem too interested, so I thought they might be more receptive to a poll. My arms are the type that if I work them out to get definition, they will be pretty buff, but if I don't work them out, they will look and feel round and soft, with some muscle underneath. What is more attractive?
60s chic

Allentown, PA

#2 Mar 5, 2012
Even though I'm not a guy, I hope you don't mind me commenting. I personally don't like to see too much muscle on a woman's arms. Madonna is an example of what too much "working out" can do to your appearance. I just don't like the look. But a little isn't bad. We all want round, but slim and soft arms, unfortunately with age or losing weight, they begin to sag. I know my hub personally does not find it appealing for a woman to have muscular arms, but there are probably a lot of men who like it because it demonstrates self confidence and self discipline with trying to stay healthy and fit.

“the posterchild of awesomeness”

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#3 Mar 6, 2012
60s chic wrote:
Even though I'm not a guy, I hope you don't mind me commenting. I personally don't like to see too much muscle on a woman's arms. Madonna is an example of what too much "working out" can do to your appearance. I just don't like the look. But a little isn't bad. We all want round, but slim and soft arms, unfortunately with age or losing weight, they begin to sag. I know my hub personally does not find it appealing for a woman to have muscular arms, but there are probably a lot of men who like it because it demonstrates self confidence and self discipline with trying to stay healthy and fit.
lol of course I don't mind.:) I agree with you, and some of my guy friends do too, but at the same time, like you were saying, I don't want guys to think that I don't work out. So there's the dilemma.

“ROCK ON ROCKERS!!”

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#4 Mar 6, 2012
WHAT'S THE SCOOP? Soft or muscle? Those that are soft, don't freakin'care what their bod looks like..they figure you menfolk will love them any ole' way they llik, bat their eyelashes at ya..but a woman who has muscles cares about her body tone..she could care a FREAK about how you view her, she is self-confident...and if she ain't your cup of tea..there are a few more leaves in the bottom of te pot to fulfill her desires...Ya want your woman to be soft as a pillow or a Spartan partner to watch your back? Your choice, MEN!
60s chic

Allentown, PA

#5 Mar 6, 2012
queenanne93 wrote:
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lol of course I don't mind.:) I agree with you, and some of my guy friends do too, but at the same time, like you were saying, I don't want guys to think that I don't work out. So there's the dilemma.
Whatever you do; do it for you, and not for someone else. You don't want to go through life feeling like you always have to please others first, or you'll never be happy or content. So I hope that takes the dilemma out of what you want or think you need to accomplish and/or achieve. Personal satisfaction is the way to self fulfillment.
60s chic

Allentown, PA

#6 Mar 6, 2012
Good morning CC! Have a great day!

“...sigh”

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#7 Mar 6, 2012
Cool topic

“I care more about my character”

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...... then my reputation

#8 Mar 6, 2012
Different men have different taste in women, it makes the world go round.

“the posterchild of awesomeness”

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San Lorenzo, CA

#9 Mar 6, 2012
Colorado Chick wrote:
WHAT'S THE SCOOP? Soft or muscle? Those that are soft, don't freakin'care what their bod looks like..they figure you menfolk will love them any ole' way they llik, bat their eyelashes at ya..but a woman who has muscles cares about her body tone..she could care a FREAK about how you view her, she is self-confident...and if she ain't your cup of tea..there are a few more leaves in the bottom of te pot to fulfill her desires...Ya want your woman to be soft as a pillow or a Spartan partner to watch your back? Your choice, MEN!
Lol! Couldn't have worded it better!:D
Xer Recar

Lithia Springs, GA

#10 Mar 6, 2012
All women can be sexy - just depends on their attitude. In general though, I prefer women with curves.

“I love to gamble”

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#11 Mar 6, 2012
I like my women soft, like banana pudding.

“the posterchild of awesomeness”

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San Lorenzo, CA

#12 Mar 6, 2012
Xer Recar wrote:
All women can be sexy - just depends on their attitude. In general though, I prefer women with curves.
Hmmm... never really thought of it that way before. Thanks for your input!:)(and bravery to be the first guy on the thread ;D)
Xer Recar

Lithia Springs, GA

#13 Mar 6, 2012
queenanne93 wrote:
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Hmmm... never really thought of it that way before. Thanks for your input!:)(and bravery to be the first guy on the thread ;D)
There's a fine line between brave and stupid. LOL

I think guys who insist one body type is sexy above all others is just kind of stupid.

“the posterchild of awesomeness”

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#14 Mar 6, 2012
Xer Recar wrote:
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There's a fine line between brave and stupid. LOL
I think guys who insist one body type is sexy above all others is just kind of stupid.
lol, true.:D true to both statements, actually. You're just speaking truth all over the place, sir!:D
The Paisan

Medford, NY

#15 Mar 6, 2012
I prefer hardness, not softness, in a woman......namely my hardness!!!

Word!
Xer Recar

Lithia Springs, GA

#16 Mar 6, 2012
queenanne93 wrote:
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lol, true.:D true to both statements, actually. You're just speaking truth all over the place, sir!:D
It's a habit I have.

“the posterchild of awesomeness”

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#17 Mar 6, 2012
Xer Recar wrote:
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It's a habit I have.
lol, so we all should just come to you for the truth then? ;)
Xer Recar

Lithia Springs, GA

#18 Mar 6, 2012
queenanne93 wrote:
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lol, so we all should just come to you for the truth then? ;)
Truth and logic, that's me. Except for when I'm messing with you.

“Grab all the good”

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Rowlett Tx

#19 Mar 6, 2012
Beautiful Black Molly wrote:
Different men have different taste in women, it makes the world go round.
And different women taste different :)

“South Louisiana”

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very small

#20 Mar 6, 2012
Nah i think they taste like chicken lol. Hey Denny.
Denny Crain wrote:
<quoted text>And different women taste different :)

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