how to forget a person u love but has...

Petal Power

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#177 Jul 28, 2014
FORGET Him/ Her..

More FISH in the Sea..

Happy Fishing!!

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#178 Jul 28, 2014
It's hard, but it can be done...with each passing day!

Petal Power

“It's a New Dawn”

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#179 Sep 23, 2014
WEAR Blinders.. When you see him Delivering his Newspapers!;
Stanley Kubrick

Houston, TX

#181 Oct 29, 2014
"The Scorned Cereal Killer"

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Ferrerman wrote:
If you love someone, let them go. If they don't come back to you, track them down and kill them.
But, be nice about it.
Frank Capra

Houston, TX

#182 Oct 29, 2014
"Dumped and Lonely"

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Ferrerman wrote:
<quoted text>Well, yeah, but, at some point they did make us happy. We have to admit that. It's weird but, it happens.
George Lucas

Houston, TX

#183 Oct 29, 2014
"If Being Gay Is Wrong, Ferrerman Don't Wanna Be Right"

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Ferrerman wrote:
<quoted text>I think we are on the same page here. It's just odd that such people made us happy once upon a time and turned out to be so gawdawful. No, there's no good reason to feel good about them now. Feeling good is good enough.

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#184 Oct 29, 2014
I think everyone who comes into our lives has something to teach us. It's our job to figure out what that is. We don't have to forget them to be rid of the pain. That just takes time.

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#185 Oct 30, 2014
There is a saying in my country:

"What doesn't kill you makes you stronger"

But there is also a saying:

"What doesn't kill you, surely breaks you"

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#186 Oct 30, 2014
Hey, maybe you should ask that American songbird Stevie Nicks...she knows.

Hint: Klonopin.

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#188 Oct 31, 2014
It takes time to get over the hurt but I don't think you truly get over the person.

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#189 Oct 31, 2014
-CatCiao- wrote:
I think everyone who comes into our lives has something to teach us. It's our job to figure out what that is. We don't have to forget them to be rid of the pain. That just takes time.
Cat, you have a very good insight.
When a person cares a lot for another he expects the same honest love in return. When another doesn't live up to your expectations, hurt and resentment follows naturally. What happens a lot (and is hard to stop) is getting mad at that person that hurt you. You want to retaliate so bad and strike out and hurt that person right back. A mature person will ignore the things that hurt them and try to move on. It doesn't mean that one should forget that person or the good times you both shared. It just means --learn from your past and get on with your life!
PS- I've rambled on too long. Sorry!--it's the beer talking! LOL!

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#190 Oct 31, 2014
Shit, I gotta get to bed. Sorry I rambled on here tonight folks. I know I'm not a regular Topix poster, so I don't have much right giving advice here to you regulars.
But you're all in my heart (you know who you are)
I'll try not to be gone too long.....
Goodnight all!

Blue Skys and Tailwinds!...
and don't worry---"Fly On!!"

“Want A Friend, Be One”

Level 9

Since: Mar 12

True Friends Are hard to find

#191 Oct 31, 2014
you never forget ..as the days go by it gets easier to let go but you never ever forget..no matter how honest you are with that person it seems it isnt enough..no matter what you did or said wasnt good enough for them..but they will always leave a special place in your heart..

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#192 Nov 1, 2014
skybobbie wrote:
Shit, I gotta get to bed. Sorry I rambled on here tonight folks. I know I'm not a regular Topix poster, so I don't have much right giving advice here to you regulars.
But you're all in my heart (you know who you are)
I'll try not to be gone too long.....
Goodnight all!
Blue Skys and Tailwinds!...
and don't worry---"Fly On!!"
You're always welcome here..Don't ever forget that..

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#193 Nov 1, 2014
honeymylove wrote:
<quoted text>You're always welcome here..Don't ever forget that..
THANK YOU! That really means a lot to me!
(You're as sweet as Honey!)

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#196 Nov 2, 2014
skybobbie wrote:
<quoted text>Cat, you have a very good insight.
When a person cares a lot for another he expects the same honest love in return. When another doesn't live up to your expectations, hurt and resentment follows naturally. What happens a lot (and is hard to stop) is getting mad at that person that hurt you. You want to retaliate so bad and strike out and hurt that person right back. A mature person will ignore the things that hurt them and try to move on. It doesn't mean that one should forget that person or the good times you both shared. It just means --learn from your past and get on with your life!
PS- I've rambled on too long. Sorry!--it's the beer talking! LOL!
Thank you, Skybobbie, no apologies necessary, and you are so right. And yeah, it can take a long time to heal from the hurt. It can eclipse the good times to the point where we question if the good was real or imagined. Hopefully we learn something about ourselves in the process.

“Forehead wrinkle”

Since: Dec 10

Homefries

#197 Nov 3, 2014
Ah... I dunno.
I'd probably just move one and buy a bag a chips and watch some football.

8-|

Since: Apr 13

Scappoose, Oregon USA

#198 Nov 4, 2014
I don't believe you ever can forget them. You can forgive them, and if that's not possible you can – as painful as it may be – let them go, move on and get past them. But you can never forget them.

“Want A Friend, Be One”

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Since: Mar 12

True Friends Are hard to find

#200 Nov 4, 2014
the memories you have with them makes prints in your heart and that can never be taken away..it does get easier as the days go by but you never forget,just be glad you had that time you shared with them..:o)..
I am not a Bimbo

United States

#201 Nov 4, 2014
Princess Hey wrote:
the memories you have with them makes prints in your heart and that can never be taken away..it does get easier as the days go by but you never forget,just be glad you had that time you shared with them..:o)..
I disagree with you. You do begin to forget them. And it wasn't as difficult as I thot it would be.

I used to have this saying on one of my Topix Profiles...now it's in my iphone notes. I keep it handy, read it often...and realize just how foolish I really really was..here on Topix. Never again tho.

"You start to change when you continually get hurt by that one person who you love, the one who you thought loved you and would never hurt you."

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