how to forget a person u love but has...

“NSA”

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#156 Dec 18, 2013
beatlesinthebog wrote:
<quoted text>haha....you'll get run over doing that!
Nah she's protected I'm like state farm, she's in good hands;)
200-lbs isThe New Skinny

Greensboro, NC

#157 Dec 18, 2013
Accept that you have loved someone. Accept that they have hurt you. Accept that you will remember them. Accept that it's ok and good that you have loved them Accept that it is ok and good that you you will remember them. Wish them well. Accept yourself and your ability to give love. Wish yourself well. Love yourself. Give hope to those around you who lack hope. Give your heart of compassion to those who are also hurting. Be at peace with yourself and others. Love your family. Love even those in whom you have previously hated and despised. Accept that you have a forgiving heart and spirit. Give yourself a mental hug. Acknowledge when you feel lonely and seek out others who are lonely. Pass blessings and joy on everyone.

“Will cause trouble when bored”

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#158 Dec 19, 2013
b_rad_ wrote:
<quoted text>
Nah she's protected I'm like state farm, she's in good hands;)
Now be like burger king n let me have it my way. ;)
DILF

Huntington, NY

#159 Dec 19, 2013
I never knew that I hurt anyone.

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#161 Jul 24, 2014
Forget the love and give them hell.
Big dawg

United States

#162 Jul 24, 2014
Think how nice it is not to
Have that drama in your life and to
Look forward to moving on with new adventures finding a new friend or love :)
Instigator

Charlestown, IN

#163 Jul 25, 2014
I don't believe you can forget. It's just up to us as individuals to determine who's worth forgiving, and who is not.

We've all made mistakes. And chances are that we've all also hurt someone in our lives that we care for very much, even without knowing, if just by words alone. Be grateful they have forgiven you for your mistakes, and remember to return the favor.

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#164 Jul 25, 2014
Yes I say we have hurt someone as well as we have been hurt.I found out a few years ago.a young man(possible 10 years yonger than I) told me he cried when he found out I was getting married..This was my first marriage.(I was 16)..I thought of him as a child I played with but he loved me..I felt so bad not knowing this young man loved me the way he did.When I was dating after my hubby died..his young man had asked me out and I never went....still never knowing how he felt...I found out this like I said a few years ago how he felt about me.He was in his 40's then.He had told me I was his first love and he would never forget me...I was surprised and shock to hear this.But still touched my heart....(He was the boy next door growing up.)....
Big dawg

Valrico, FL

#165 Jul 25, 2014
Wow what a touching story . You just never know
Instigator

Charlestown, IN

#166 Jul 25, 2014
honeymylove wrote:
Yes I say we have hurt someone as well as we have been hurt.I found out a few years ago.a young man(possible 10 years yonger than I) told me he cried when he found out I was getting married..This was my first marriage.(I was 16)..I thought of him as a child I played with but he loved me..I felt so bad not knowing this young man loved me the way he did.When I was dating after my hubby died..his young man had asked me out and I never went....still never knowing how he felt...I found out this like I said a few years ago how he felt about me.He was in his 40's then.He had told me I was his first love and he would never forget me...I was surprised and shock to hear this.But still touched my heart....(He was the boy next door growing up.)....
I'm sincerely sorry about your husband passing on, hml.

I suppose we often live without often knowing the effect we do have, or have had, or even to what degree we've had on another person's life. The best we can hope for.. is that we made a positive impact, such as your example.
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#167 Jul 27, 2014
I don't think it's possible to forget someone you love or ever loved. However, there are too many factors to consider....there are different kinds of hurt, is the person cheating on you, hitting you, using words to hurt you? Is it just one thing they did and you are having trouble getting over it or do they hurt you over and over again? Did they lie to you and if so did they come clean or did you find out the hard way? Were they apologetic or do they never apologize? Do they apologize often but without sincerity...seemingly as an easy out to do what they want?
There just really is no one size fits all answer for this. There's too much to consider and depending on the situation and the people the answer will always be different, but you won't forget them. You have to forgive them and eliminate them from your life or forgive them and try to work past the pain. Either way, when you love you forgive.

Petal Power

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#168 Jul 27, 2014
It is HARD AS FREAK..But. You Eventually look upon that Hurtful Time ..and say..I SURVIVED!!

Meaning. It did not SCAR you from EVER loving AGAIN..

BUT..you will be more Cautious With EVERY New relationship..

NOT..to Do the Same Mistakes THAT may have helped CREATE the HURT!!

But ya Know .EVERY Relationship is Different as With EVERY friendship!;

NO TWO are EXACTLY the SAME..

Life is an Adventure.. If you DON'T experience HEARTACHE..

You'll NEVER Know..WHAT you Really Want in a LOVING LASTING relationship!!!

;)

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#169 Jul 28, 2014
Proud To Be Trina wrote:
I don't think it's possible to forget someone you love or ever loved. However, there are too many factors to consider....there are different kinds of hurt, is the person cheating on you, hitting you, using words to hurt you? Is it just one thing they did and you are having trouble getting over it or do they hurt you over and over again? Did they lie to you and if so did they come clean or did you find out the hard way? Were they apologetic or do they never apologize? Do they apologize often but without sincerity...seemingly as an easy out to do what they want?
There just really is no one size fits all answer for this. There's too much to consider and depending on the situation and the people the answer will always be different, but you won't forget them. You have to forgive them and eliminate them from your life or forgive them and try to work past the pain. Either way, when you love you forgive.
I've dealt with almost all this sometime in my life.....Don't feel sorry for me..It has made me stronger and wiser...Makes me want to stay to myself...Sometimes that is better.

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#170 Jul 28, 2014
Petal Power wrote:
It is HARD AS FREAK..But. You Eventually look upon that Hurtful Time ..and say..I SURVIVED!!
Meaning. It did not SCAR you from EVER loving AGAIN..
BUT..you will be more Cautious With EVERY New relationship..
NOT..to Do the Same Mistakes THAT may have helped CREATE the HURT!!
But ya Know .EVERY Relationship is Different as With EVERY friendship!;
NO TWO are EXACTLY the SAME..
Life is an Adventure.. If you DON'T experience HEARTACHE..
You'll NEVER Know..WHAT you Really Want in a LOVING LASTING relationship!!!
;)
Every ones hurt can be similar but yet different....No one really knows how someone is hurting but we share our stories ..Helps with the hurt and gives one another something to think about...

“If you want a Friend ???”

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Be a Friend...

#171 Jul 28, 2014
pray for the others and yourself ..Jesus really can see you through it all..
buck

Atlanta, GA

#172 Jul 28, 2014
dang man hml give em hell man like you done been say why cry man give em hell dang man i aint blame spirit girl none for dissin you lol.

“If you want a Friend ???”

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Be a Friend...

#173 Jul 28, 2014
love the judgeit person that follows me around I think they are so cute..I pray for you as well..must be doing something right..:o)
Big dawg

Lake Worth, FL

#174 Jul 28, 2014
Hi princess Hml -- love can be a xxxxx
If you let it been there done that just have to wait for love to find ya

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#175 Jul 28, 2014
Hello BD..nice to see you...((HUGS))

“If you want a Friend ???”

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#176 Jul 28, 2014
hey JM yes it takes time..love is not rushed.there's someone out there for you..dont rush it take your time and look you maybe surprised where you find it..hope you are doing good and things coming along for you..(hugs) my friend..<3

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