how to forget a person u love but has...

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#136 Dec 16, 2013
honeymylove wrote:
<quoted text>Good Advice..but there is one thing I have to say..Some times the person who was hurt have accepted things,tries to move on but the one who done the hurting decides they don't want to let go of them..Then they're hurting still cause they can't have another relationship or just be by themself...Sad I know...All situations are different..So don't judge this person..They need a friend..
So WHAT you are saying is...They have hurt you, pushed you away and still continue to Love you..and NOW they want you to accept them as a FRIEND??? EXCUSE ME..But this scenario seems like it would be an ongoing Roller Coaster Ride .Up and Down emotions... Afraid of What to say..AFRAID they will interpret it WRONG..And the HURT feelings will surface from before..NAH...just apologize to each other..wait a few days.. then one of ya calls..and says WANNA HAVE LUNCH?? Then, If she/ he accepts.. THEN a decent friendship may develop.. If you are denied..Then take it WHAT it was..And Just Step Forward..and get on with your LIFE!! No Hard Feelings.. just a Detour on the Journey of Life..w/a Few Bumps along the way..;)
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#137 Dec 16, 2013
Colorado Chick wrote:
<quoted text> So WHAT you are saying is...They have hurt you, pushed you away and still continue to Love you..and NOW they want you to accept them as a FRIEND??? EXCUSE ME..But this scenario seems like it would be an ongoing Roller Coaster Ride .Up and Down emotions... Afraid of What to say..AFRAID they will interpret it WRONG..And the HURT feelings will surface from before..NAH...just apologize to each other..wait a few days.. then one of ya calls..and says WANNA HAVE LUNCH?? Then, If she/ he accepts.. THEN a decent friendship may develop.. If you are denied..Then take it WHAT it was..And Just Step Forward..and get on with your LIFE!! No Hard Feelings.. just a Detour on the Journey of Life..w/a Few Bumps along the way..;)
Colorado, you are right on! I can't control this feeling that I have and it's constant....he's hurt me terrible, but I still love him when most women would have had his head on a platter! December is such a hard and emotional month for me to get through....we shared a lot during this month years ago, along with other months! I miss him so much and I try hard not to think about it and all that I miss....it's just the simplest things that can bring me to tears!

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#138 Dec 16, 2013
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#139 Dec 16, 2013
Dunno if it works for everyone but Kurt managed to get Courtney out of his head quite quickly....and moved on (as they say).........just.who the hell are..." they" anyway? They seem to say so much,but no-one seems to know "them"......it's a worry as they say!!!!!!

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#140 Dec 16, 2013
Laura Beffy wrote:
Dr. Ruth can be googled for a good answer like this.
Dr. Ruth would tell you to remove their finger.

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#141 Dec 16, 2013
Princess Hey wrote:
you cant forget them but you can forgive them and move on..thats the best medicine..
Turn the other cheek. No no, the OTHER cheek.

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#142 Dec 16, 2013
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Colorado, you are right on! I can't control this feeling that I have and it's constant....he's hurt me terrible, but I still love him when most women would have had his head on a platter! December is such a hard and emotional month for me to get through....we shared a lot during this month years ago, along with other months! I miss him so much and I try hard not to think about it and all that I miss....it's just the simplest things that can bring me to tears!
Well Chick..YOU are NOT ALONE!! MEN play with Women..They think we are THEIR punching bags, THEIR Sex toy and THEIR Listening ear..AND we give them OUR opinion ABOUT anything..They WALK AWAY!!
USE YA and LEAVE YA..Wondering WHAT THE HELL JUST HAPPENED!!
WELL..WHAT HAPPENED is They Simply DO NOT Need you anymore FOR their PERSONAL GAIN..YOU were ONLY NEEDED for the MOMENT!!
Yeah, these last few Years gave been HELL on my LOVE LIFE also..
NOW, I believe in my opinion..THAT ALL MEN...S%ck D!CK!! Instant Grafication!!!
AND..the WANNA BE MEN..just ABUSE A CHICK anyway they Can..
So, To RATIONALIZ ..this situation..of "He Hurt Me, But I STILL Love him.
BULLCRAP!!
LET HIM GO..He AIN'T worth ONE tear ANYMORE!!
MOVE ahead..and TAKE CARE OF YOU!!
HElLL YEAH!! Now, It's ALL about YOU!!.
ROCK ON ROCKERS!!
LAST POST FOREVER!!
; ). FREEDOM..RICHIE HAVENS!!

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#143 Dec 16, 2013
Oops .have..and HELL YEAH..am OUT of here!!

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#144 Dec 16, 2013
When someone hurts you
Cry a river,
Build a bridge.and get over it.
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#145 Dec 16, 2013
Colorado Chick wrote:
<quoted text> Well Chick..YOU are NOT ALONE!! MEN play with Women..They think we are THEIR punching bags, THEIR Sex toy and THEIR Listening ear..AND we give them OUR opinion ABOUT anything..They WALK AWAY!!
USE YA and LEAVE YA..Wondering WHAT THE HELL JUST HAPPENED!!
WELL..WHAT HAPPENED is They Simply DO NOT Need you anymore FOR their PERSONAL GAIN..YOU were ONLY NEEDED for the MOMENT!!
Yeah, these last few Years gave been HELL on my LOVE LIFE also..
NOW, I believe in my opinion..THAT ALL MEN...S%ck D!CK!! Instant Grafication!!!
AND..the WANNA BE MEN..just ABUSE A CHICK anyway they Can..
So, To RATIONALIZ ..this situation..of "He Hurt Me, But I STILL Love him.
BULLCRAP!!
LET HIM GO..He AIN'T worth ONE tear ANYMORE!!
MOVE ahead..and TAKE CARE OF YOU!!
HElLL YEAH!! Now, It's ALL about YOU!!.
ROCK ON ROCKERS!!
LAST POST FOREVER!!
; ). FREEDOM..RICHIE HAVENS!!
Yeah, I guess you're right! He is verbally abusive and I often ask myself why do I have ANY feelings for him whatsoever...but I will work on, like I have for sometime now to get over him! Again, I have no control over how I feel and the place I have for him in my heart! I guess, I'll keep it to myself and move on in another direction, if it's possible! I'm probably the only woman who has loved him so unconditionally, but he surely has never ever appreciated it!

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#146 Dec 16, 2013
The end of a relationship can be painful for anyone. But, if it's our first love and the relationship ends sooner than we would have wanted, that feeling of loss can seem unbearable. Like the passion of the beginning of the relationship, the newness and rawness of the loss of love can be very intense, and devastating. That's why we call it having a broken heart! Don't cry over a broken heart learn from them, don't drown yourself in your mistakes understand them, and learn that sometimes letting go is the best thing. Sometimes you can love someone more than you love yourself, you allow that person to consume your whole heart, and when they leave you, it feels like they took a piece of your heart with them. For every negative there is a possible, for every failure there is success and for every broken heart there is someone out there to help you mend it, you just have to have faith and believe that even though the clouds are out, the sun will shine on your life again.
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#147 Dec 16, 2013
_Itsbreanabitch_ wrote:
The end of a relationship can be painful for anyone. But, if it's our first love and the relationship ends sooner than we would have wanted, that feeling of loss can seem unbearable. Like the passion of the beginning of the relationship, the newness and rawness of the loss of love can be very intense, and devastating. That's why we call it having a broken heart! Don't cry over a broken heart learn from them, don't drown yourself in your mistakes understand them, and learn that sometimes letting go is the best thing. Sometimes you can love someone more than you love yourself, you allow that person to consume your whole heart, and when they leave you, it feels like they took a piece of your heart with them. For every negative there is a possible, for every failure there is success and for every broken heart there is someone out there to help you mend it, you just have to have faith and believe that even though the clouds are out, the sun will shine on your life again.
Grow up! How do you know about love? Look at your screen name! Out of all the screen names in the world you choose that one and we are suppose to listen to your advice about love? Oh dear heavens!

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#148 Dec 16, 2013
A public forum like Topix is a p poor place to tell everyone how badly he or she broke your heart. Sadly, it makes the poster look like a victim and a whiner. Since there are a bunch of folks on Topix who seem to feed off of other peoples' misfortunes, this is also a rotten place to seek sympathy. If neither of those facts concern you, post away broken-hearted folks. :(

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#149 Dec 16, 2013
Itsbreanabitch. Is right.
All the ppl that u spend a lot of time with help mold u into the person who u r or will b. It's up to u if you Dwell on the negative or look for the positives. Remember some of the things that made that person special to ya at first. And smile.

God bless the broken road that led me straight to u.
It's all just part of our journey.

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#150 Dec 16, 2013
Lylah wrote:
Itsbreanabitch. Is right.
All the ppl that u spend a lot of time with help mold u into the person who u r or will b. It's up to u if you Dwell on the negative or look for the positives. Remember some of the things that made that person special to ya at first. And smile.

God bless the broken road that led me straight to u.
It's all just part of our journey.
You're welcome for that road. ;)

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#151 Dec 16, 2013
The middle of that road is always the best ;)

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#152 Dec 16, 2013
Lylah wrote:
The middle of that road is always the best ;)
Only at unheard of hours;)

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#153 Dec 16, 2013
Hiding in the dark so only the stars can see. ;)

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#154 Dec 17, 2013
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#155 Dec 18, 2013
Lylah wrote:
The middle of that road is always the best ;)
haha....you'll get run over doing that!

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